tell me onethng ... plz

guys ... i m thnking somthng from couple of days ... but dont get a valid answer ...

when we get married we do many rituals ... and according to hindu mythology there are many caste
every caste have their own tradition , ritual , etc ... we celebrate mehandi , haldi , sangeet ,teeka, n many more ceremony ... n its a time period of many days thn we take seven vows ... promises each other but but but

my point is whn we want to seperate from each other or just want to end up our marriage ... we sign divorce paper n our marriage will just end
mean yeh kaise ho skta h yr ek kajak k tukre p sign krne k bad hamari shadi tut jati h ... humne itti rasme nibhayi shadi krne k liye ... n jb hum shadi todna chahte h to sirf divorce paper p sign krna is enough ... it doesnt make any sense
means i cant get over from this yr ..

lol it varies among different cast and cultures..In our marriages we don't have all those rituals..we need the brides fathers permission that we call "wali-a'', two witnesses and Qabool hai from bride n groom.

I cant speak for Hinduism because I'm not very well aware of their divorce procedures. But divorce papers in general are a more legal formality as compared to religious so they are no longer married in the eyes of the Law as compared to in the eyes of God.

Its true by signing divorce papers u are divorced if the papers are submitted in court. I can tell u this because i am a hindu and two of my uncles are criminal and divorce lawyers. I can tell u what matters in society is the papers.

Umm at least in India just like you have to register your marriage at a local registration office as a couple to be considered as legally married, I am very sure one also needs to not just sign the documents but also submit the divorce documents at your local court if its a mutual decision or then there are lawyers and other court procedures if there are other issues involved to be legally divorced. This is the legal aspect of marriage and divorce.
Mehendi, haldi, sangeet, etc etc rituals are the religious aspects and its a personal decision if you wanna follow them. Even if these rituals are involved in ones caste, if they wanna go for a simple wedding or a court marriage or a temple marriage one might not follow these rituals. Rituals are dependent on ones faith, they are not a compulsion.
As far as it being easy to break relationships is concerned don't we know and experience that as hard as we have to work on a relationship or friendship with the adjustments, the compromises, the sacrifices, keeping in touch, expressing feelings, etc etc it is just as easy to end it coz well there is none of the above giving it all of yourself involved in calling it quits. You give up, you walk away, The end.

Originally posted by: .SoulMates.

Umm at least in India just like you have to register your marriage at a local registration office as a couple to be considered as legally married, I am very sure one also needs to not just sign the documents but also submit the divorce documents at your local court if its a mutual decision or then there are lawyers and other court procedures if there are other issues involved to be legally divorced. This is the legal aspect of marriage and divorce.
Mehendi, haldi, sangeet, etc etc rituals are the religious aspects and its a personal decision if you wanna follow them. Even if these rituals are involved in ones caste, if they wanna go for a simple wedding or a court marriage or a temple marriage one might not follow these rituals. Rituals are dependent on ones faith, they are not a compulsion.
As far as it being easy to break relationships is concerned don't we know and experience that as hard as we have to work on a relationship or friendship with the adjustments, the compromises, the sacrifices, keeping in touch, expressing feelings, etc etc it is just as easy to end it coz well there is none of the above giving it all of yourself involved in calling it quits. You give up, you walk away, The end.

For me, I would say no, paper can seperate you if you love and no rituals can unite u if u don't want!! Marriage is a relation by heart, rituals are made by people to give a legal name to you relationship but few rituals like mehandi Sangeet are just for enjoyment to delete rate you new relation that's it, if I would be in twinkle place I would have denied that marriage and would have done it again with kunj in same manadp in front of yuvi ! Yuvi would not be able to do anything except pittai khaane ke!!! Yuvi can fill maang with khoon and said Maahi is his wife , kunj should do the same thing!!