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Love is the greatest gift God ever gave man. Love is not wanting to go anywhere without her. Love is not caring what other people think about the two of you. Love is when you feel depressed and sickly when you're not with her. You feel like your life has no meaning or purpose without her. And that if she wasn't holding your hand you would float away to heaven from where she came. Love is caring for her physically and emotionally. Love is wanting to marry her even tho ya'll haven't been dating that long. That you would do anything and everything for her. It's the feeling that you would give up everything just to see her smile or look into her beautiful eyes or hear her soft, soothing voice. Love is pure happiness. Love is the feeling you get when all you have to do is think of her and it brings a smile to your face and a yearning to your heart. Love is not being able to think about nothing but her. Love is wanting to hold her in your arms till the end of time. Love is wishing your time with her never ends, that your lips would be locked together forever, that she'd be in your arms till the end of time, that u could cuddle with her for all of eternity. Love is being helplessy and deeply in love with her and knowing your love for her and your feelings for her will never change/end.
Kunj clearly is in love with Twinkle, hence his actions and reactions. He will do anything to protect his love, even if it means fighting the world for her. He only has to realize that he is love with her hence hte reason for him being angry...
Lust is large physical attraction for an individual, that is sometimes uncontrollable and completely unreasonable.
Yuvi is clearly not in love with Twinkle. He is only lusting after her. He wants to possess her like a trophy. The idiot does not even know what love is. Had he loved her he would have never sent her to that wretched place.How could he claim to love and see a filthy man put his hands on her? No not love, lust...
Comparison chart
Love versus Lust comparison chart| Love | Lust | |
|---|---|---|
| Definition | An intense feeling of deep affection. | Any intense desire or craving for gratification; when contrasted with love, lust usually means sexual desire. |
| Symptoms | Faithfulness, loyalty, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance. | Desire, passion, acquisitiveness, intense emotions. |
| Person to Person | Commitment to another. Genuine intentions. Think about other person's feelings before acting. | Enjoyment of a short-term, mutually pleasurable relationship. |
| Feels like | A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. You are loving your best friend. | Passion, joyousness, strong desire, intense and sometimes difficult feelings of need. |
| Result | Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident, secure children. | Unsatisfied lust results in sexual frustration, increased religiosity and superstition, emotional rigidity. Lust satisfied in a mutually beneficial way results in pleasure, creativity, passion, zest for life. |
| Effect | Contentment, stability. | fire, drive, activeness. |
| Interdependency | Partnership. Can lead to codependency if not tempered with self-awareness and self-guidedness. | Often the first stage of love, and can lead to lasting friendships, romantic or otherwise. When not tempered with compassion andempathy, however, it can lead to emotionally damaging behavior. |
| Time Period | It will deepen with the passage of time. | Highly variable -- it may deepen or dissipate with the passage of time. |
| Commitment | This feeling may continue throughout one's life. | Temporary commitment that lasts only long enough to fulfill desire. |
| Bottom Line | Love is unconditional and the real deal. | Interested in only what can be done for self-pleasure; lust may develop into love, but it is lust until that time |
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