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-WalkThatWay-

@-WalkThatWay-

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

I'm lost in this maze of Kunj VS Twinkle battle

Numerous posts have been made in support of Twinkle/Kunj and vice versa

Contrary to all this, a lot of good points have been noted on what may have gone wrong with both Kunj and Twinkle in their relationship along the line, I do agree with a few of the things but I shall also agree to disagree on certain things, I'm going to take a stand for Kunj as well as Twinkle (more for this chick though)

Kunj

What I like: you have always supported Twinkle and still do up till date, you have always been by her side catching her when she falls, picking up after her when she makes mistakes, clearing her mess when she lands herself in a soup and making her smile when 12:00 is struck on her face..I can't dislike you after all that you have done for her even though their is no iota of love in your relationship with Twinkle, I know you want your Twinkle to be mature for you, understand you, trust you..but you don't know the depth of these things she has already done for you..she trusts you but you can't see that, she's understands you but you don't seem to care when she shows it and lastly she IS mature for you Kunj, but whenever she is you refuse to acknowledge her matureness, you complain that she is silent and poke fun of her by saying "Teri tabyat to theek hai Twinkle" "Baara kyun bajey hai tere chehre pey"...so this brings onto my next crib of why I dislike you...

What I dislike: you crave for Twinkles trust but do you trust her?..you want her to understand you but do you ever understand her?..do you ever care to explain things to her?..you always assume she is too irrational but have you ever asked yourself why that may be?

For goodness sake Kunj..she is your wife whether you like it or not, every relationship needs a stance of communication..which I hardly ever see you carry out with Twinkle, you jump into other people's problems like usain bolt (fastest runner) but have you ever tried even an inch of dealing with your own problems?..even at this fragile and sensitive stage Twinkle is in, you oversee the support she carves

You ask her for trust..but did you even once trust her when it came to Yuvi, you knew that she went through a horrific event of attempted rape and sexual assault, even after knowing that you let the victim suffer by welcoming her rapist with open arms to live under the same roof..can I just say all those blaming Twinkle is irking me..this girl has suffered a lot and her mistakes are minor in front of Kunj's..why have people not pointed out that Kunj the guy who kept Twinkles enemy under his wing could have attempted to harm Twinkle again

You all maybe thinking Yuvi is long gone so why am I reoccurring him..all I'm saying is it's not about Yuvi, but I am trying to nitpick Kunj's mistakes..because he is flawed and imperfect, yet expects Twinkle to be perfect for him

Make your mind up Kunj..you ask a lot from Twinkle but have you ever reciprocated

Twinkle

I am going to take a stand for you my chick..there is nothing I dislike about you, your viewpoint always has me in tears, maybe because I can genuinely understand you..yeah you can be annoying, immature and childish at times, but even then I love you..all due to because you are just the way you are, you haven't changed since you were introduced to me

A lot of remarks have been made that Twinkle is so inconsistent..but I am going to fight this out and say I bloody well don't think so..she was a child at heart before marriage and she still is after marriage, them little nuances she played out is what she has continued to do..I mean why should she change after marriage (I for one wouldn't)..if Twinkle is made to change then what is the use of abiding to this marriage

In no way am I saying marriage does not ride along with responsibilities..yes it does, but I have never once seen Twinkle shy away from her responsibilities..she carries them out with conviction and devotion..irrespective of the ill treatment she receives be it from Usha, Kunj, Manohar or even Anita..she gives back respect where it is due, this unspoken matureness stands out more for me than the action one people expect from her

Coming to the Maya angle..Twinkle has every right to be jealous and insecure..and that emotion has been reprised from Kunj himself..he is buzzing like a bee around her 24/7, knows her inside out (fair enough she's your best friend)..but in the real world if any hubby did that, insecurity would sprite up naturally..Twinkle is new in the world of men and relationships, if you don't talk and walk with her in every step then it is no fault of hers so become suspicious

For your sake Twinkle I hope you are ready to conquer this hurricane that is going to hit you..because you can do it, you are strong..face it with pride and show Kunj that you are not irrelevant in his life

Twinkle my belle, I literally cry with you..for you..because right now when you need support no one seems to give a damn, but hence ignoring the fact that you need care you are ALWAYS ready to support others when they need it..it's like she's living with people but totally on her own in this world of people

Phew..that came out longer than expected..may I request to keep this post civil, I'm sure we can all agree to disagree if the need arises

Ciao

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

You have written it all

I totally and fully agree with you

After marriage twink has none by her side even her mother annoys me most by doing kunj jaap

She is vvvery much strong means she is going through alot

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teddyyy

@teddyyy

Rocker

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Posted: 9 years ago

You've done so much justice to both characters. I love Kunj and Twinkle, but of course as humans they are flawed. Kunj has always stood up for her, picked up the mess she created or fell into, but now when she is at such a sensitive point in her life, he's not helping her. How can we expect him to pick up the pieces when he's creating them? He's not considering Twinkle's feelings towards a man that abandoned her and her mother, he keeps shoving Maya down her throat and there's no communication what so ever. He wants her to be mature but then he asks her why she's acting weird. And I completely agree with what you said about Twinkle. She can be childish and annoying but that's since the first episode. She is one of the only people who has maintained their personality. First she suffers at the hands of the man that she loved for 7 years, then her mother abandons her and now when she's beginning to feel for her husband, all this crap is popping up. Let's see what lies ahead! Thank you for sharing this beautiful post 👏

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-WalkThatWay-

@-WalkThatWay-

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: UMAT
You have written it all
I totally and fully agree with you
After marriage twink has none by her side even her mother annoys me most by doing kunj jaap
She is vvvery much strong means she is going through alot

Twinkle has gone through a lot and will continue to until she gets her due importance from Kunj that she well and truly deserves..I can't fault Leela as her mother is her strongest support, yes she loves Kunj but for her Twinkle will always be of prestige

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-WalkThatWay-

@-WalkThatWay-

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: teddyyy
You've done so much justice to both characters. I love Kunj and Twinkle, but of course as humans they are flawed. Kunj has always stood up for her, picked up the mess she created or fell into, but now when she is at such a sensitive point in her life, he's not helping her. How can we expect him to pick up the pieces when he's creating them? He's not considering Twinkle's feelings towards a man that abandoned her and her mother, he keeps shoving Maya down her throat and there's no communication what so ever. He wants her to be mature but then he asks her why she's acting weird. And I completely agree with what you said about Twinkle. She can be childish and annoying but that's since the first episode. She is one of the only people who has maintained their personality. First she suffers at the hands of the man that she loved for 7 years, then her mother abandons her and now when she's beginning to feel for her husband, all this crap is popping up. Let's see what lies ahead! Thank you for sharing this beautiful post 👏

Aww thank you..I comply, both have flaws but these days Kunj's flaws seems to be growing, he's pushing Twinkle always and that is what is driving Twinkle the wrong way..Twinkle has lived with complications more than Kunj will ever sympathise with, these two oddly speaking need to really talk out their situations and build an understanding

I'm glad we have a group of viewers that support both Kunj and Twinkle

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@RosyRosh

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

Enjoyed reading your stance. Very well written post. Good points throughout.

I personally dont think Kunj is wrong in his stance nor do I think he is pushing twinkle. I think he is just not communicating. I think he is pushing twinkle with the maya stuff but I think he is doing it playfully. Its rubbing twinkle the wrong way because of her jealousy. And on top of that, this divorce misunstanding. I think both characters are flawed and are making mistakes with the communication, but I also think the way they are seeing the situation making what they are doing understable. Not right or wrong, just understandable.

Anyways I will always support both characters. Im never one to quickly judge characters in any shows I watch.. I try to my best to keep an even playing field and call out when someone wrong or right. But currently with Twinj.. I dont think either is wrong at the moment. Nor do I think eithers character is being butchered. Seeing it situationally, their characters are doing and acting in response to it and its justified.

This entire misunderstanding track has a point. its acheiving some end. ANd for it to progress, the lack of communication has to continue otherwise nothing will happen or go forward.

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

Bang On Very Well Written Post 👏

In other post I also raised the same point.Some have conveniently Ignored that part.A Man never in his senses will bring that guy who tried to rape her wife.That to their house.Make him stay with him.Blindly believe him because he is blinded by guilt.Make his wife apply medicine to that guy in-spite of knowing he was the one who tried to rape her.I don't know what to say about Kunj.

Kunj words during FH MU confrontation.Twinkle you have been staying with me so long.Yet you did not have TRUTS on me.I wanted to ask excuse me Mr.Kunj Sarna.Can you pls say did you ever trusted your wife.That to after sharing same room.How can you think a chirpy n good hearted girl can beat Yuvi.

She wanted to expose UV N save ur family.But what she got in return a very memorable birthday gift i.e Slap.

Kunj forgot the occasions were Twinkle trusted him n fought for him.The robbery incident n the false murder charge incident.That to without any proof she believed him.As a viewer I can see the trust factor in Twinkle.But not in Kunj.

Another thing is lack of communication.Whenever Twinkle wants to have a conversation.He just brush it off n ignore it.

When Kunj can understand others mind like Maya,Leela N RT.Why can't he understand Twinkle's mind n speak with her why for past few days.She is behaving differently.What is bothering her.He can give marriage advice to all n how to save it.When comes to his marriage. I don't think he takes any effort.For him this marriage is just a responsibility.His dialogues we r not typical husband n wife hint that.Kunj be a man n confess what you have in ur heart.You want to be in this marriage or not.

What Twinkle asked Maya was wrong.It could have been asked differently.Kunj anger is justified.Not his action.He need to think why Twinkle is saying to Maya why she is stealing me.What made Twinkle like this n when did she feel I am hers.Just because I am her husband or more to that.He need to sit n talk with Twinkle.He should not run from it.

Twinkle from chirpy girl to now a dukari biwi.I honestly wish Twinkle go on silent mode.Saving marriage mission.When she herself not clear.What for to save the marriage.Just for the scared bond or because of love.Honestly I did not like the way Twinkle behaved yesterday.She need to grow some self-respect.Stop comparing herself from Maya n feel inferiority complex.She straightaway ask Kunj what he thinks of this marriage.What's the future of it.If Kunj does not give a valid answer n brush it off.Twinkle should simply leave him n go to her mom's house.

Like how CV's showed a huge confrontation scene for FH MU.They should have shown a huge argument of TwiNj when Kunj slapped Tiwnkle.Twinkle giving it back to Kunj.CV's made Kunj apologize.She easily forgot n they moved on.

CV's need to build the communication in TwiNj.They need to up the drama quotient n bring the intensity in TwiNj.Lets see how CV's handle this track.Right now both Kunj N Twinkle r flawed n acting immaturely.Kunj a 1% extra.

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: UMAT
You have written it all
I totally and fully agree with you
After marriage twink has none by her side even her mother annoys me most by doing kunj jaap
She is vvvery much strong means she is going through alot

Leela 's constant advice of save the marriage pisses me off.U should not save the marriage at the cost of ur self-respect.

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nitalove

@nitalove

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -WalkThatWay-

I'm lost in this maze of Kunj VS Twinkle battle

Numerous posts have been made in support of Twinkle/Kunj and vice versa

Contrary to all this, a lot of good points have been noted on what may have gone wrong with both Kunj and Twinkle in their relationship along the line, I do agree with a few of the things but I shall also agree to disagree on certain things, I'm going to take a stand for Kunj as well as Twinkle (more for this chick though)

Kunj

What I like: you have always supported Twinkle and still do up till date, you have always been by her side catching her when she falls, picking up after her when she makes mistakes, clearing her mess when she lands herself in a soup and making her smile when 12:00 is struck on her face..I can't dislike you after all that you have done for her even though their is no iota of love in your relationship with Twinkle, I know you want your Twinkle to be mature for you, understand you, trust you..but you don't know the depth of these things she has already done for you..she trusts you but you can't see that, she's understands you but you don't seem to care when she shows it and lastly she IS mature for you Kunj, but whenever she is you refuse to acknowledge her matureness, you complain that she is silent and poke fun of her by saying "Teri tabyat to theek hai Twinkle" "Baara kyun bajey hai tere chehre pey"...so this brings onto my next crib of why I dislike you...

What I dislike: you crave for Twinkles trust but do you trust her?..you want her to understand you but do you ever understand her?..do you ever care to explain things to her?..you always assume she is too irrational but have you ever asked yourself why that may be?

For goodness sake Kunj..she is your wife whether you like it or not, every relationship needs a stance of communication..which I hardly ever see you carry out with Twinkle, you jump into other people's problems like usain bolt (fastest runner) but have you ever tried even an inch of dealing with your own problems?..even at this fragile and sensitive stage Twinkle is in, you oversee the support she carves

You ask her for trust..but did you even once trust her when it came to Yuvi, you knew that she went through a horrific event of attempted rape and sexual assault, even after knowing that you let the victim suffer by welcoming her rapist with open arms to live under the same roof..can I just say all those blaming Twinkle is irking me..this girl has suffered a lot and her mistakes are minor in front of Kunj's..why have people not pointed out that Kunj the guy who kept Twinkles enemy under his wing could have attempted to harm Twinkle again

You all maybe thinking Yuvi is long gone so why am I reoccurring him..all I'm saying is it's not about Yuvi, but I am trying to nitpick Kunj's mistakes..because he is flawed and imperfect, yet expects Twinkle to be perfect for him

Make your mind up Kunj..you ask a lot from Twinkle but have you ever reciprocated

Twinkle

I am going to take a stand for you my chick..there is nothing I dislike about you, your viewpoint always has me in tears, maybe because I can genuinely understand you..yeah you can be annoying, immature and childish at times, but even then I love you..all due to because you are just the way you are, you haven't changed since you were introduced to me

A lot of remarks have been made that Twinkle is so inconsistent..but I am going to fight this out and say I bloody well don't think so..she was a child at heart before marriage and she still is after marriage, them little nuances she played out is what she has continued to do..I mean why should she change after marriage (I for one wouldn't)..if Twinkle is made to change then what is the use of abiding to this marriage

In no way am I saying marriage does not ride along with responsibilities..yes it does, but I have never once seen Twinkle shy away from her responsibilities..she carries them out with conviction and devotion..irrespective of the ill treatment she receives be it from Usha, Kunj, Manohar or even Anita..she gives back respect where it is due, this unspoken matureness stands out more for me than the action one people expect from her

Coming to the Maya angle..Twinkle has every right to be jealous and insecure..and that emotion has been reprised from Kunj himself..he is buzzing like a bee around her 24/7, knows her inside out (fair enough she's your best friend)..but in the real world if any hubby did that, insecurity would sprite up naturally..Twinkle is new in the world of men and relationships, if you don't talk and walk with her in every step then it is no fault of hers so become suspicious

For your sake Twinkle I hope you are ready to conquer this hurricane that is going to hit you..because you can do it, you are strong..face it with pride and show Kunj that you are not irrelevant in his life

Twinkle my belle, I literally cry with you..for you..because right now when you need support no one seems to give a damn, but hence ignoring the fact that you need care you are ALWAYS ready to support others when they need it..it's like she's living with people but totally on her own in this world of people

Phew..that came out longer than expected..may I request to keep this post civil, I'm sure we can all agree to disagree if the need arises

Ciao

👏👏👏wow you are good my dear i could't said i better i agree with 100%thank you i want twinkle to stand up for herself kunj brain need to rewire there is a limit to all friendship and kunj and maya in too much if i were twinkle i cant take it

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kabirslover

@kabirslover

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: -WalkThatWay-

I'm lost in this maze of Kunj VS Twinkle battle

Numerous posts have been made in support of Twinkle/Kunj and vice versa

Contrary to all this, a lot of good points have been noted on what may have gone wrong with both Kunj and Twinkle in their relationship along the line, I do agree with a few of the things but I shall also agree to disagree on certain things, I'm going to take a stand for Kunj as well as Twinkle (more for this chick though)

Kunj

What I like: you have always supported Twinkle and still do up till date, you have always been by her side catching her when she falls, picking up after her when she makes mistakes, clearing her mess when she lands herself in a soup and making her smile when 12:00 is struck on her face..I can't dislike you after all that you have done for her even though their is no iota of love in your relationship with Twinkle, I know you want your Twinkle to be mature for you, understand you, trust you..but you don't know the depth of these things she has already done for you..she trusts you but you can't see that, she's understands you but you don't seem to care when she shows it and lastly she IS mature for you Kunj, but whenever she is you refuse to acknowledge her matureness, you complain that she is silent and poke fun of her by saying "Teri tabyat to theek hai Twinkle" "Baara kyun bajey hai tere chehre pey"...so this brings onto my next crib of why I dislike you...

What I dislike: you crave for Twinkles trust but do you trust her?..you want her to understand you but do you ever understand her?..do you ever care to explain things to her?..you always assume she is too irrational but have you ever asked yourself why that may be?

For goodness sake Kunj..she is your wife whether you like it or not, every relationship needs a stance of communication..which I hardly ever see you carry out with Twinkle, you jump into other people's problems like usain bolt (fastest runner) but have you ever tried even an inch of dealing with your own problems?..even at this fragile and sensitive stage Twinkle is in, you oversee the support she carves

You ask her for trust..but did you even once trust her when it came to Yuvi, you knew that she went through a horrific event of attempted rape and sexual assault, even after knowing that you let the victim suffer by welcoming her rapist with open arms to live under the same roof..can I just say all those blaming Twinkle is irking me..this girl has suffered a lot and her mistakes are minor in front of Kunj's..why have people not pointed out that Kunj the guy who kept Twinkles enemy under his wing could have attempted to harm Twinkle again

You all maybe thinking Yuvi is long gone so why am I reoccurring him..all I'm saying is it's not about Yuvi, but I am trying to nitpick Kunj's mistakes..because he is flawed and imperfect, yet expects Twinkle to be perfect for him

Make your mind up Kunj..you ask a lot from Twinkle but have you ever reciprocated

Twinkle

I am going to take a stand for you my chick..there is nothing I dislike about you, your viewpoint always has me in tears, maybe because I can genuinely understand you..yeah you can be annoying, immature and childish at times, but even then I love you..all due to because you are just the way you are, you haven't changed since you were introduced to me

A lot of remarks have been made that Twinkle is so inconsistent..but I am going to fight this out and say I bloody well don't think so..she was a child at heart before marriage and she still is after marriage, them little nuances she played out is what she has continued to do..I mean why should she change after marriage (I for one wouldn't)..if Twinkle is made to change then what is the use of abiding to this marriage

In no way am I saying marriage does not ride along with responsibilities..yes it does, but I have never once seen Twinkle shy away from her responsibilities..she carries them out with conviction and devotion..irrespective of the ill treatment she receives be it from Usha, Kunj, Manohar or even Anita..she gives back respect where it is due, this unspoken matureness stands out more for me than the action one people expect from her

Coming to the Maya angle..Twinkle has every right to be jealous and insecure..and that emotion has been reprised from Kunj himself..he is buzzing like a bee around her 24/7, knows her inside out (fair enough she's your best friend)..but in the real world if any hubby did that, insecurity would sprite up naturally..Twinkle is new in the world of men and relationships, if you don't talk and walk with her in every step then it is no fault of hers so become suspicious

For your sake Twinkle I hope you are ready to conquer this hurricane that is going to hit you..because you can do it, you are strong..face it with pride and show Kunj that you are not irrelevant in his life

Twinkle my belle, I literally cry with you..for you..because right now when you need support no one seems to give a damn, but hence ignoring the fact that you need care you are ALWAYS ready to support others when they need it..it's like she's living with people but totally on her own in this world of people

Phew..that came out longer than expected..may I request to keep this post civil, I'm sure we can all agree to disagree if the need arises

Ciao

Everything u said so trueee :(((

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