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Posted: 8 years ago
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GD gents r really trying to take permission for party but as a viewer do u think it's actually good showing GD gents begging for entertainment??
I think no!
Maine humesha dekha ladies ko kitty party karte huye and GD gent had no problem with it. So why can't they do that too?? I have pointed out few things

1. Ladies humesha yeh bolte hai woh gharke kam kaj mai itna busy rehete hai k they didn't get enough time for entertainment. So doing this small party and dinner was their "ADHIKAR". I m agree with this. But I think jis time mai ladies ghar k kam karte hai uss time inke husband v kam mai busy rehete hai...un logo k "ADHIKAR" ka kya hoga???

2. Unke paas time hi kaha hai ghar k bahar jake ghumne ko unlike their husband. But as far as I remember gents log v kam k liye hi bahar jaate hai..asgr unke paas option hota to woh v ghar pe reheke hi apna kam karte.

3. Jab jab gents log party karne par pakar jate the to champaklal always said-" Asli maja sabke sath ata hai" . Isn't this goes for ladies too.

4. I was opposed to the idea og gents going la-ow-la party. But recently they want to hang out in popatlaal's home and as a woman I think ladies should permitt them. Isse unka "BHARTIYA NARI" k image mai koi spot ayega.

Aur v bohat hai but for now this is it. Do u think different?? Plz tell me ur view..😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think every one need some space. As far as ladies of GD are concerned, they meet frequently in a day, they has kitty party, n so called Mahila Mandal Meeting.
But i guess its not so wrong to allow gents to have their time.
Now a days even women asks for space, even after marriage. They wish to spend time with friends.
So not a bad idea that GD gents want "only" gents party.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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If I go by tmkoc tradition, they are shown asking permission because it involves alcohol as it is considered offence/crime in the show. Otherwise there is no problem in doing a party which does not involve alcohol, I guess.
Personally I have no problem with the show not supporting drinking.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeutralBitiya

If I go by tmkoc tradition, they are shown asking permission because it involves alcohol as it is considered offence/crime in the show. Otherwise there is no problem in doing a party which does not involve alcohol, I guess.

Personally I have no problem with the show not supporting drinking.

So it is...but it's about their space I m talking and I think GD men r deprived of it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ketakee

I think every one need some space. As far as ladies of GD are concerned, they meet frequently in a day, they has kitty party, n so called Mahila Mandal Meeting.
But i guess its not so wrong to allow gents to have their time.
Now a days even women asks for space, even after marriage. They wish to spend time with friends.
So not a bad idea that GD gents want "only" gents party.

Even I think so.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The gents don't get any space. The only time they get space is when they drink sodas after dinner and chat for half an hour.
In yesterday's episode,when jetha said it's only gents party in popat's house,daya immediately said,"everybody will go to the party and not just the gents."

Secondly, drinking alcohol is a huge paap in tmkoc and the gents have been harassed a lot by the ladies and champak whenever they thought of drinking, even if it's once in a year.

This time too they are going to be harassed by them/champak even after taking permission.

I seriously don't understand why can't they drink outside in a restaurant? Gokuldham society is the most dangerous place for drinking. If they have to drink only little then they can drink outside too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeutralBitiya

If I go by tmkoc tradition, they are shown asking permission because it involves alcohol as it is considered offence/crime in the show. Otherwise there is no problem in doing a party which does not involve alcohol, I guess.

Personally I have no problem with the show not supporting drinking.

Nope, its not alone because of the alcohol. Without alcohol, they will allow them to party by tagging themselves with them. Remember, how Daya reacted when Jetha told her about the Party. Why everyone has to go even if its a non alcoholic party ?
Last time the men got tickets for a new year party which was ruined after Sundar's involvement.

It has happened more or less in the show since its inception. Men should always go with their phamily. Otherwise, they are not good husbands, good fathers or in Jetha's case a good son. Ideal man is one who let his wife decide his food, clothes and eveything else in his life. His only job is to earn for her. Rest she will handle.


It was funny how Komal talked about health issues to Hathi. A glass of whisky once in a lifetime is definitely much more healthier than the amount of oily food she serves him every day. In moderate consumption, wine actually has health benefits. The issue of anti Party Sharty attitude is definitely about 'against our culture' thing considering the Gujarati background of the show. That 's fine. Just accept it but then they will also have the play the mini India card na ? That's teh USP of the show.


IMO, earning adults cannot be asked to not consume alcohol. Its practically not possible because its neither an offense nor crime as per law.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dey.bh

Nope, its not alone because of the alcohol. Without alcohol, they will allow them to party by tagging themselves with them. Remember, how Daya reacted when Jetha told her about the Party. Why everyone has to go even if its a non alcoholic party ?

Last time the men got tickets for a new year party which was ruined after Sundar's involvement.

It has happened more or less in the show since its inception. Men should always go with their phamily. Otherwise, they are not good husbands, good fathers or in Jetha's case a good son. Ideal man is one who let his wife decide his food, clothes and eveything else in his life. His only job is to earn for her. Rest she will handle.


It was funny how Komal talked about health issues to Hathi. A glass of whisky once in a lifetime is definitely much more healthier than the amount of oily food she serves him every day. In moderate consumption, wine actually has health benefits. The issue of anti Party Sharty attitude is definitely about 'against our culture' thing considering the Gujarati background of the show. That 's fine. Just accept it but then they will also have the play the mini India card na ? That's teh USP of the show.


IMO, earning adults cannot be asked to not consume alcohol. Its practically not possible because its neither an offense nor crime as per law.


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Main part is gents can't do party ALONE. U know I really admire those shows where " WOMEN EMPOWERMENT" is being practised by them. But TMKOC wale doing too much. Naari ko samman dene k chakkar mai mard ko v samman dena chahiye...tab na hoga jake " SAMAN ADHIKAR"

About komal...I was speechless listening her logic🤢. And let me tell u dear oily food is much healthy than whiskey. U know why...kyu ki oily food biwi k sath khane padhte hai and u don't have to do "PARTY SARTY" for it.
I think it's high time AKM should show them partying even it for once in their lifetime
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Manancraze, Lo TMKOC deviyon ne hamara point prove bhi kar diya. Patiyaan party kar rahe hai to wo ab achanak se bore ho rahi hai. Kyu bhai ? Aaj to Saturday hai na.. Sare patilog to is waqt office ya dukaan me hote hai. Aap logon ke liye to normal day jaisa hi hai.😆 Lekin nahi Chapli sena ko bhi party karni hai.🤣

Equality bas inhi cheezo me chahiye... Na Purush ghar ka kaam karega na aurteiin naukri karna chahengi.. Bas ghar baithe badi badi baatien. Itne me hi hota jata hai women empowerment.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dey.bh

@ Manancraze, Lo TMKOC deviyon ne hamara point prove bhi kar diya. Patiyaan party kar rahe hai to wo ab achanak se bore ho rahi hai. Kyu bhai ? Aaj to Saturday hai na.. Sare patilog to is waqt office ya dukaan me hote hai. Aap logon ke liye to normal day jaisa hi hai.😆 Lekin nahi Chapli sena ko bhi party karni hai.

Equality bas inhi cheezo me chahiye... Na Purush ghar ka kaam karega na aurteiin naukri karna chahengi.. Bas ghar baithe badi badi baatien. Itne me hi hota jata hai women empowerment.

Chapli sena 🤣
But u said it right.. I thing GD Ladies should utilize their time. Though it's their choice to do jobs or not. All the ladies can contribute to their men economically except daya. But why they didn't do such things😕

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