@FUZZYFACE AS YOU MENTIONED RKS HAS PROBABLY PUT U OFF MARRIAGE BUT IN ALL HONESTY I WANT TO SAY MY FIRST MARRIAGE LASTED A YEAR & I WAS DIVORCED . THAT PUT ME OFF MARRIAGE FOR LIFE UNTIL I MET MY HUSBAND , IT WAS AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE AND WE MARRIED IN 3 DAYS FROM OUR FIRST MEETING. I HAVE NOW BEEN MARRIED 4 YEARS AND CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT I DON'T REGRET IT ONE BIT . MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN MY ROCK , ESPECIALLY WHEN MY FAMILY DISOWNED ME . TODAY HE IS THERE FOR ME EVEN WHEN I AM ILL IN HOSPITAL . I HAVE CHEMO EVERY 3 WKS AND DURING THAT TIME I GET VERY ILL BUT HE LOOKS AFTER ME . LIKE I SAID ALTHOUGH WE HAD AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE I DON'T REGRET IT ON BIT . PS ( WE ONLY SPOKE TO ONE ANOTHER FOR 20MINS IN OUR FIRST MEETING ) . SO I REALLY HOPE RKS DOESN'T PUT YOU OFF MARRIAGE