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Posted: 8 years ago
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Till now we were waiting for her dialogues, monologues to know what she think or feel. Some even said, Swara don't express her feelings much like others! Yes it's true but she did yesterday & that is not helping!
Her dialogues were (Plz ignore the lil mistakes): In 6 months nothing has changed for her! She still love Sanskaar same! She just came to Baadi to support Ragini & would have gone back to MM anyway once Laksh is found but it's Sanskaar who brought the ego & being egotistic for nothing! Bt she will go back to MM once will be back & Everything will be fine!
Now my questions are:
She said nothing had changed in this long 6 months! Haiinnn!?? How?! It's been 6 freaking months & changes are bound to happen! That's natural.
And she didn't just come to Baadi to support Ragini which she said! She left MM! And before that, she accused Sanskaar, blamed him for almost no reason & hurt him terribly! If she wanted to support her sis, she could have done that without all these nonsense just like Kavya track! And if she wanted to be with her sis then also she could have just said that she will stay at Baadi with Ragini! No one would have objected or denied! No one! Bt no she just didn't come to Baadi, she left MM, left Sanskaar!
And moreover, she didn't do anything for her relationship with Sanskaar! No call, no talk, nothing! And whenever they came face to face, she taunted him & accused again that Sanskaar has no tension for his brother or no intension to find him! He just is pretending to hurt her! Like what? Can't she see that it's Sanskaar only who is trying to find Laksh like a man possessed & doing everything under his power from 6 months!
And when Laksh will be back, she will also go back & everything will be fine?!!! And she expect that Sanskaar should accept her just like that?!!! Like seriously??
I really unable to understand how everything is same for her? How nothing didn't change? And why Sanskaar shouldn't be angry? He is human for gods sake, not a mere thing that he didn't feel anything in those 6 months! Even a non-living thing also change along with time & Sanskaar is a human! She even have the slightest idea what he went through? And the fact that she also suffered don't change the truth that she is the main reason for both of their pain!
She had no idea when Laksh will be found or ever be found, then what will she do? She will make Sanskaar wait the whole life & will still say nothing had changed?
She don't realize even slightly that she did wrong & she was wrong! She still think Sanskaar being egotistical? Sanskaar tried to stop her - silently, verbally & then threatened to never accept her back - still she didn't listen & left! Sanskaar pleaded to her to give him another chance when he was not totally wrong but still pleaded for a chance! He asked her to give him another chance, give their relationship another chance! This don't sound like he was being egotistical.
I agree that Sanskaar have ego issues now & being egotistical Bt so is Swara! She is being egotistical more than Sanskaar even! And Sanskaar atleast know & realized that he was also at faults Bt she don't even realized where she went wrong!
Oh Swara also said, she still love Sanskaar! Then when we denied that? I can be murderously angry & highly disappointed with Sanskaar & Swara Bt I will never question their love for each other! Never!
Bt her love declaration & the fact that she loves him are not helping! Bcoz when she is hurting the person she loves & who loves her more than anything & everything, who believed & supported her always, never forbid to do anything - then her being in love with him don't change anything! It doesn't change that Sanskaar suffered & still suffering, being miserable, drinking alcohol to unconsciousness & all of these are bad for him! So I'm not seeing any use that she still love him!
We know that! Bt that is not helping!
Swara being Naive, Delusional & Over-Confident: I don't agree that she is being naive! Yes she was naive sometimes before & her naivity always caused her problems! Bt she is not being naive now!
Oh yes she is delusional this time! She has delusion that after all these things Sanskaar will accept her easily & she can win him back & can make everything fine!
And she is over-confident also! She has lots of confidence on her love & she thinks she can win him by her love!
And the fact which she knows & beliefs that Sanskaar love her too much to not take her back - This is both her delusion & over-confidence!
Apart from all, Swara is taking Sanskaar for granted! AGAIN!
I fervently pray & hope that CVs will show Swara realizing her mistakes, acknowledging where she went wrong & accepting that she did terribly wrong with to Sanskaar! And then will apologize & redeem herself to & before win him back!
And ofcourse I want Sanskaar to apologize for his part of mistake as well Bt Swara should work hard bcoz this time she is more at faults!
P.S: This is my opinion & what I exactly feel. Anyone is free to disagree! Don't have any intention to hurt anyone! And I was NOT bashing Swara, just what I feel about this track!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky.m

I have given up on swara long back ..I don't get her . she's my samaj ke bahar ...but naive .. No way swara tho Sab jaanti hain .. Over confident yes. 200% delusional .yes oh yes.. If she thinks everything can be fixed ...so easily ..tats delusion..😆

Diwali he log crackers fodenge and for a change sanskar will burst her delusional bubble of dreams🤣Koi nahi soch beti socho jitna spane sochne he socho tutenge to zarur😡🥱😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Can we please send this across to our cvs - Rashmi Sharma and Rajabeta... so that they know what a mess they have created of Swara and SwaSan relationship.

I am scared that they will make Sanskaar the villian here with Swara being always right..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Poojie...

+1

Can we please send this across to our cvs - Rashmi Sharma and Rajabeta... so that they know what a mess they have created of Swara and SwaSan relationship.

I am scared that they will make Sanskaar the villian here with Swara being always right..

me too...they ll go 2 tht extend where they butcher sanskar character to make swara wright...i wish tht doesnt happen
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And I so love this post. I love what every one has written on Swara. I only have one problem - I do not find a word to describe her and her actions. I gave up on her during the ML track itself, I cannot and will not accept amnesia as a reason for her actions.
Let me first understand the terms to be applied; ( (As defined by www.vocabulary.com/dictionary)


Delusional:

A delusional person believes things that couldn't possibly be true. If you're convinced that the microwave is attempting to control your thoughts, you are, sadly, delusional.

Delusional comes from a Latin word meaning "deceiving." So delusional thinking is kind of like deceiving yourself by believing outrageous things. Delusional thoughts are often a sign of mental illness, but the word can also be used more loosely to describe behavior that is just not realistic. If your friend thinks he's going to get rich playing video games, he's probably not mentally ill, but it's not a stretch to call him delusional.


The next term used is Naive:

"No one likes being called naive, since it means you lack sophistication or street smarts."

A person who is too trusting can be criticized for being overly naive: "You're so naive, you think that e-mail from the Nigerian prince is really going to make you a million dollars!" Naive shares the same root as native, and originally meant "natural" or "not artificial." It can still be used in a more positive meaning when describing a charming lack of artificiality, as in "the naive style of folk art made by an untrained painter."


And finally - overconfident

If you're overconfident, you're so sure of yourself that you're pushy and obnoxious. It's important to be confident at a job interview, but if you're overconfident, you may come across as downright rude.

There's a fine line between confidence and overconfidence: being confident is attractive and appropriate. When someone seems overconfident, though, they appear to be unrealistically sure of themselves, more arrogant than poised. Overconfident combines the prefix over-, "too much," and confident, from the Latin confidentem, "firmly trusting or self-confident."


Swara is all the three- rolled tightly into one single form, mutated beyond recognition from what she earlier was. At the rate she is going on there is no way she can retrace her steps and regain her lost paradise. Added to her delusional naivety and overconfidence is a her pathetic lack of understanding of the difference between plain love love backed by simple faith.

As the quote goes (by Elbert Herbert) - " Love, we say, is life. But love without hope and faith is agonising death"

OR as Erich Fromm said, " Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith and whosoever is of little faith is also of little love."


So apart from being all of the above, Swara is also of 'little true love'

As I said - I GIVE UP on SWARA.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Why swara why?
She will lose her sanskaar if she continues like dis.
He's clearly going away n how long can he see her with someone n dat too another guy though they r just frnz.

Why r u doing dis Swara dont spoil everything.
Sanskar is so hurt. Poor Sanskar.
Nobody is with him n Swara u left him n he's finding lucky just for your sake.

Why cant this girl think after her hubby?She has d habit of caring for d world but somewhere Sanskar has to suffer.😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post swara is both delusional and overconfident

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