Regarding Sharmistha and Swara

Sharmistha bought up Swara on her own, without a dad, proving to her and teaching her that society norms are not important, she taught her to fight, a strong woman with a stronger daughter... I read somewhere that Shekhar gives divorce papers to Sharmistha for helping Ragini free Lakshay and she breaks down crying... does Sharmistha really deserve a husband who always leaves her for everything?? And it said how swasan would prove their innocence and try to reunite them... I just had this one question from even the time the Ragini killing Swara track, why does a strong woman want such a weak person in her life?? And why does Swara want that perfect family so bad that she is ready to let her mum break every time???

I know someone would say how he is just trying to help Ragini, and being a father he has to help her and he hopes Sharmistha would understand, but why always Sharmistha should understand?? He clasped hands in front of them last time and they both said don't say sorry you were misled, but he could have tried finding out the truth then also, and even now he is not thinking how Sharmistha would feel... just a thought, no bashing intended!!!

yup you are right. shekhar is the worst husband and father I have seen. if you have no money to cure your child and someone said to divorce your wife then they give money then you will do it ? waw.. what a superb husband. I hate that person . he is the worst father for swara too. I wish swara ka maa baba not to unite again. shomi doesn't deserve a pathetic husband like shekhar

Originally posted by: LoveSriNal

yup you are right. shekhar is the worst husband and father I have seen. if you have no money to cure your child and someone said to divorce your wife then they give money then you will do it ? waw.. what a superb husband. I hate that person . he is the worst father for swara too. I wish swara ka maa baba not to unite again. shomi doesn't deserve a pathetic husband like shekhar

He is only Ragini's dad who is acting like her dadi's parchai... that's my summation of it all!

shekar is a worst husband and father to shomi and swara. what did he ever do to shomi and swara? shomi being a step mother had never discriminated swara and ragini and loved her like her own daughter but did he really deserve a wife like shomi and a daughter like swara?did he ever treated swara like ragini without being partial to his ladoo? swara never treated ragini like a half sister/step sister and never blamed shekar for not being there for her in any situation or for always supporting her half-sister over her blindly.few days back in the forum during FP track someone said ragini is great daughter becoz she did everything for a step mother but i would like to contradict that if u have a step mother like sharmishta who never differentiated between her own daughter and her husband's daughter then anyone will prefer and do anything for that step mother over their own father. she always gave equal love,care and support to ragini. its better to have step mother like sharmishta than a dad like shekar who doesn't even deserved to b called father and treat's his own daughter like shit uses her love for his own selfish reasons. sometimes i feel like why isn't she like a usual step mother to ragini like how people define a step mother(like she never can b real mother) and partial to swara bcoz shekar and dadi never treated swara like she deserves to b inspite of she being their own blood and are always partial to ragini so it would have been better shomi too had loved her own daughter that blindly atleast then she wouldn't have let any one to take advantage of her daughters loving,caring and forgiving nature. i never want shekar and sharmishta to unite she is anyday better without a husband like him.

Originally posted by: smiley20

shekar is a worst husband and father to shomi and swara. what did he ever do to shomi and swara? shomi being a step mother had never discriminated swara and ragini and loved her like her own daughter but did he really deserve a wife like shomi and a daughter like swara?did he ever treated swara like ragini without being partial to his ladoo? swara never treated ragini like a half sister/step sister and never blamed shekar for not being there for her in any situation or for always supporting her half-sister over her blindly.few days back in the forum during FP track someone said ragini is great daughter becoz she did everything for a step mother but i would like to contradict that if u have a step mother like sharmishta who never differentiated between her own daughter and her husband's daughter then anyone will prefer and do anything for that step mother over their own father. she always gave equal love,care and support to ragini. its better to have step mother like sharmishta than a dad like shekar who doesn't even deserved to b called father and treat's his own daughter like shit uses her love for his own selfish reasons. sometimes i feel like why isn't she like a usual step mother to ragini like how people define a step mother(like she never can b real mother) and partial to swara bcoz shekar and dadi never treated swara like she deserves to b inspite of she being their own blood and are always partial to ragini so it would have been better shomi too had loved her own daughter that blindly atleast then she wouldn't have let any one to take advantage of her daughters loving,caring and forgiving nature. i never want shekar and sharmishta to unite she is anyday better without a husband like him.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I don't believe in step parents and blood relationships much, I have always believed someone's niceness and rudeness should define them and not the blood they carry, but your point here does make sense... My question is, even leaving aside the blood related stuff, does your own mother deserve a husband who would abandon her for his daughter?? Isn't that a child psychology thing that if parents divorce,a kid tends to blame himself even though it has nothing to do with him?? So when Shekhar always does this for Ragini, and says he is doing it for Ragini, how come Ragini never gets guilty over it and infact uses it to make Swara squirm. And Swara, she actually wants such a husband for her mom? Why? What is to be gained? Emotionally - nil, Physically - a hug when you meet, Society wise - nil as dadi still berates them both, so why? I keep trying to think from Swara's side and keep coming to the same conclusion, why would I want my mother to continue suffering always, just so I can have a "normal" family?

Well i seriously dont understand what these two strong ladies swara and shomi see in this spineless creature..he is shame in name of father and husband even in name of man...

Both Swara and Shomi are at fault. They should not have accepted him when he left them for Ragini. He showed he is biased to his ladoo. He didn't even think twice before leaving shomi. He failed as a husband. He showed he is not capable of being a responsible unbiased father. His true color came out once more when Lakhsya betrayed Ragini. He separated SwaSan. Why?? Because if his ladoo can't be happy then Swara can't be happy too. He was ready to punish SwaSan for Lakshya's betrayal but he didn't have the guts to put his criminal ladoo behind the bars when he found out she tried to kill Swara. He could not take any legal action against his mother even when he knows his mother tried to harm his son. His love and care for Swara & Shomi are nothing but a pretense. Now he is blaming Shomi for Chotu's condition. He is a spineless looser who doesn't deserve to be respected and loved. He only deserves to rot with his evil mother and selfish ladoo. I just don't understand why a person like Shomi is still crying for this spineless man. Swara should realize that her baba doesn't deserve her ma & her and she should just stop caring about these ungrateful gadodias.

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-

Both Swara and Shomi are at fault. They should not have accepted him when he left them for Ragini. He showed he is biased to his ladoo. He didn't even think twice before leaving shomi. He failed as a husband. He showed he is not capable of being a responsible unbiased father. His true color came out once more when Lakhsya betrayed Ragini. He separated SwaSan. Why?? Because if his ladoo can't be happy then Swara can't be happy too. He was ready to punish SwaSan for Lakshya's betrayal but he didn't have the guts to put his criminal ladoo behind the bars when he found out she tried to kill Swara. He could not take any legal action against his mother even when he knows his mother tried to harm his son. His love and care for Swara & Shomi are nothing but a pretense. Now he is blaming Shomi for Chotu's condition. He is a spineless looser who doesn't deserve to be respected and loved. He only deserves to rot with his evil mother and selfish ladoo. I just don't understand why a person like Shomi is still crying for this spineless man. Swara should realize that her baba doesn't deserve her ma & her and she should just stop caring about these ungrateful gadodias.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

He is only Ragini's dad who is acting like her dadi's parchai... that's my summation of it all!

more than that he is parvati gadodia's son. if that woman can sell her grandchild then no wonder her son acts like this