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kamila.

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Posted: 9 years ago

Lovely post khushi.. I don't have sister only one brother but I have dozens of cousin sisters they are like more than a real sisters.. they care about me a lot they tolerate my torture my anger... Just for me.. I love them a lot.. I'm from a big family I'm not meaning about me my parents my bro... We are just four.. but my father have nine siblings as well as my mom.. and I'm married into a big family.. that's why I value the family bond more... You can see that in my stories...

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Nynaeve

@Nynaeve

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Posted: 9 years ago

Dear Kushi,

A very poignant and mature post. As you said, Core family is a technical term - which defines what a family is for technical/legal reasons - it defines the relations that make a family.

But in reality, family is not what is defined by relations but by relationships, not by blood but by bonds of the heart.

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Nyna

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Fariza

@Fariiiii

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Posted: 9 years ago

I am using that words in my post not to hurt any one but to say the truth i called Ragini Behena as Step Sister Also,So No Biasedness Their😃

Just It's My Way To Term Relations Look They May Live In A Joint Family But Truth Is Laksh Is Sanskaar's Cousin Brother Not Real Brother So Why To Feel Offended When Anyone Say Truth Even Sharmishtha Is Called As Step Mother Of Ragini By Many &Swara As Step Sister, It May Sound Odd Or Harsh But That's Truth Of Their Relationship😃

Hope You Are Not Hurt Nothing Personal Just Against Any Character Or Anyone's Feelings😃 But I Like To Address Things As It Is So Will Continue To Do So😃

Hope You Are Not Hurt Calling Someone Cousin Brother Is Not Offensive Right😃

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KhMoAl1928

@KhMoAl1928

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Posted: 9 years ago

I get what you say but to call your cousin "cousin" is not offending at all even if they all live together and share fabulous bond, still it is not ofdending to call them like that and there is definitely no need to feel hurt because it is totally normal.so even if i call ragini as swara's step sister it is absolutely ok and not offending at all.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Fariii
I am using that words in my post not to hurt any one but to say the truth i called Ragini Behena as Step Sister Also,So No Biasedness Their😃

Just It's My Way To Term Relations Look They May Live In A Joint Family But Truth Is Laksh Is Sanskaar's Cousin Brother Not Real Brother So Why To Feel Offended When Anyone Say Truth Even Sharmishtha Is Called As Step Mother Of Ragini By Many &Swara As Step Sister, It May Sound Odd Or Harsh But That's Truth Of Their Relationship😃

Hope You Are Not Hurt Nothing Personal Just Against Any Character Or Anyone's Feelings😃 But I Like To Address Things As It Is So Will Continue To Do So😃

Hope You Are Not Hurt Calling Someone Cousin Brother Is Not Offensive Right😃

fari i agree wid u. even i m using this term but from recent happenings.

and yaar even actors r also saying it & differentiating it & saying core family so now why 2 get offended??bcoz wen sum1 tried 2 point out that thing abt Indian family like TM said then its said no shes rite as core family is sumthingelse & gave all terminology.

ppl r saying swara as step sis not even half sis & always say wat ragz did 4 her step mom no1 can do.so now if oders r saying it like that why 2 get offended or make excuses or defend??😕😲

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APUDEEP

@Apudip

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

Indian joint family can not be defined by an English term. I belong to a very big family and we don't even imagine to say our core family consists of only four of us -it hurts, but as Tejeswihad said that 'core family ' ,we started using it. Raglak fans also begins all these terms like 'step sister ','step mom 'etc.

P.s.- I'm not bashing Tejesswi. I tried to point out that emotions are counted in a joint family not technical terms. 😊

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: StarySKY

Well .. you clearly didn't get what I meant by this post ..

I never said I feel offended .. when did I said that ?!

And at that post about CORE FAMILY I was trying to make you all understand the term .. as you all were getting it wrong .. I never meant or tried to differentiate ..
It is just a term it doesn't mean anything it use to describe something ..

And I believe that Tejaswi when used that term .. she want something to describe just DP , Adrash , Laksh .. just them no others .. and CORE FAMILY is a perfect one .. she didn't meant something else ..
It is a normal term ..
So why the fuss ?! I don't know

And I know that some others are using "step mother" and "step sister" .. and I don't like it at all ..

As I said at the beginning of my post .. I noticed this .. but it is incresed lately ..
I know what happening around me ..

P.S
I am not at any kind defending Tejaswi ..
Well she wasn't Wrong at all .. she just used the term .. nothing wrong ..
That's what I believe ..
What you understand from it .. is something else

i understood wat u meant but luks like u din't understand wat i said or even meant.

and abt tej the less said the better . i'd watched that IV & wat she meant was clear so don't say she used normal term. so plz don't think oders r fools who don't understand u or wat she meant or don't understand the term Core means.in which sense she used the term it was clear form her IV. if u don't wnat2 see that then no prob . u can think u r rite & oders r fools or overreacting.

i've atleast this much experience that i now understand wat sum1 means so don't try 2 defend her. and its clear u r trying 2 defend her.she was quite clear wat she meant.i'dn't seen any oder actor in any show whoever said this in such situn wid such joint family structure

and plz theres no need 2 make us understand wat that term means.here whoever replied clearly knows wat that means & wat tej meant.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: StarySKY
@bold if u can't see then it doesn't mean my reply din't show it.rather ur post esply that general post which u wrote after replying 2 all luks like u think oders r fool thatswhy u said "i was trying 2 make all of u understand wat that term means??" wat does that mean?? 😕do u think ppl don't understand wat does core word means?
and where did i talk abt tej just like that?? show that 2 me in my 1st post which i din't even quote u but agreed wid Fari & she understood wat i meant.
and u said u din't mention tej in ur post then plz see ur that post where u 1st quoted me. u clearly took her name.and also said she din't mean that & then in PS u said i m not defending tej.😕

yes i m free 2 believe wat i see like u want 2 believe wat u want.if u cna't see then don't say u believe wat u want. its not that i want 2 believe in not understanding the word used by sum1. i believe in wat i see & ppl's actions.

if u want 2 believe in tej's word & that shes an innocent u can so can i also believe wat she said was in difft context & meaning.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: StarySKY
@Tiny15
Well .. as it seems that we are not one the same page ..

The post I wrote after I reply everyone .. was not meant to anyone .. it just some stories and my feeling as it explains what I want to say in this post ..
I just thanks all of the people who reply and liked that is all ..
It was not directed to anyone .. and I jusy want to understand my feeling which made wrote this post .. just that nothing else ..

And I can't show you when you mentioned Tejaswi as you say it in directly .. and you mentioned me too in thant reply also indirectly ..

I don't think anyone is a fool I never meant that .. I know myself very well .. I am sorry if you felt like that ..
It was a harmless words never meant anything .. and I was talking about other post not mine ( you which one ).. and yeah you mentioned it indirectly ..
And I was not defending Tejaswi .. I just said what I believe is right ..

As I said you are free to belive what you want ..
And I am free to belive what I want .. it my choice .. so do I , I can understand humans and their reactions .. and I have a very different POV than yours ..

No Hard feelings and nothing personal

i m only talking abt that line where u said sum understood u & sum don't. thatswhy i worte that u think oder s don't understand.

@TM do u even understood wat i meant in that post??😆😆no thatswhy u r syaing i mentione du indirectly. i replied 2 Fari's post & she knew & understood wat i meant. it was not directed at u.

u mite'd used the words as harmless but u can't say that abt tej or any oder using that word.

@bold blue but ur post does luk like that only.

and yes i've difft POV but still i can understand wat ppl meant esply wen they say things on print media or Tv etc.

so plz don't make it like tej is rite & all oders who r opposing her wrong in perceiving her words.

and ye s i hav a lso not prsnl prob wid u. i told u the reply i posted at 1st was meant sumthingelse & fari understood that.