Originally posted by: MusicAddict
You are of course entitled to your opinion!! Maybe it is the zodiac difference, but I am a person who doesn't like to form judgements until I am very sure of something, and since I don't even know this person, who the hell gives me the right to judge him...this is my thinking!! Even I form conclusions, but then I always leave a possibility for 'you never know'...maybe I am like that! A unique blind delusional!
I don't expect people to stay quiet, nor did I stop anyone...but till a certain limit! If you are in rage, yeah go ahead, speak out! But then you should not expect everyone to take your views nicely! Just like you said, no two people think alike, if people are in rage and speak out, then those who think differently, have all rights to speak out too...simple! Unsaid context?? What is that unsaid context? Look, I haven't watched the IV, so I don't know!! So I wouldn't mind being told about it as well.
I honestly don't know about that Nim, I've been told that by each and every person in my life. But I gave that example, because I feel it. Sometimes, people feel a lot, but they don't know how to show, or they don't realise which gestures would help them show what they feel. I fall in that category. I am not able to show what I feel to make that person understand the same. I lack that, and hence I am an emotional insensitive stone!! Maybe Varun is also like that, maybe he isn't able to show that yes, he loves his fans!! Maybe he didn't realise his this IV would cost him so much! There is always a MAYBE, when you don't know the entire thing right??
My take...no offence please!
we can go on and on in circles like every topic in this forum and never reach any conclusion because there are three versions of perception/understanding/right.
yours.
mine.
and the correct one.
you are allowed to feel and say what you want without the need of justifications.
i am allowed to feel and say what i want without the need of being judged.
so are the rest.
we are not celebrities that we should watch our words and feelings in public.
celebrities are supposed to act and react in certain ways. if merely giving their best on screen is enough the likes of Salman khan won't be coming on public platforms to sell his product.
if YOU are part of the product; you can't be dismissive towards it.
and the feelings of the fans associated with it.
my opinion.
the man could be the sweetest thing on the earth. humble and grounded and loving.
we believe what we see.
and we see what is shown.
and we react accordingly.
there is always a maybe.
but there has been too many 'maybe's.
hence the dam has burst.
right? wrong? too much? too stupid?
may be. but if people are allowed to love whosoever they want..they can hate whosoever they don't want.
and both sides can say what they want to say.. without the need to justify their feelings.
i am done with the topic.
i don't care for the actor anymore. but do for friends.
last thing i want to do is hurt any of them.
over and final out.
from this topic.
and this serial.
take care of yourself Sakshi. take a break if you want. you do not owe much to any actor. but you owe it to yourself to be happy.
