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Originally posted by: .IamShonali.
Haha Akansha, no one needs to bash anyone. Its a fiction show. You shared your opinion and others will share theirs. Some will agree some wont. There is no need for anyone to fight about it. But I loved to read your take on this. There are certain things I agreed too and certain things I didn't.Let me start with things I agreed on:I also enjoyed todays episode.Yes! AdRi were great pulling off the episode no doubt. Their expressions were on point and Pari this time didn't seem irritating to me. SO yes I agree with that. Yes, I completely understood Pari turning negative part and yes Adarsh and Sujju did overreact very much. It was just a deal and not someone's life that they reacted the way they did. And when is DP not mum? He has been mum for the longest time now. I will explain that part in my disagree section. Yes, the combo of AdRi was definitely fun to watch. And yes, they were damn indeed. But the last part kinda killed it. I mean if they were shown this smart, why couldnt CVs come with something better to maintain that. That was my only stand.Now with my disagree part:As I said in my post, I understand AdRi's frustration and insecurity towards RagLak but I dont get it towards SwaSan. Yes, Adarsh said everything in anger and when you say stuff in anger you dont remember everything. You tend to generalize things. So when he said his brothers got everything served in the platter, he meant it generally. But I still didn't agree with it because Sanskaar really didn't get anything served in the platter. Not even apology forget business. And I think you will agree on this. I have seen this show since the start. I remember Laksh left the house because he didn't support DP's decision of throwing the gadodia family out of the samaj. Laksh also went against DP like Sanskaar did and maybe even in a little worse way. But still when Laksh came back in the house, he was accepted with open arms. But when Sanskaar came back, from the dead, even though he was faking it, but his condition didn't melt DP. He put a condition towards AP that either he will stay in the house or Sanskaar will. And when AP didn't agree, he left the house. Looking at Sanskaar's condition, anyone would have melt. But DP didn't. When the truth of Sanskaar faking his mental illness came out, even though he let Sanskaar stay in the house on Ram and Pari's instance, he didn't forgive him at all. When Ragini faked those molestation charges on Sanskaar, he immediately believed and slapped him even after knowing the fact that just few hours ago, this man had just confessed all his crimes he did against Swara and them and why would he even in his wildest dream do that? Everyone was quietly watching the show except of Swara and Sujju to a level. Even AdRi. When it comes to his company, yes Sanskaar made that company in fit of revenge. But still, it was his hard work and dedication where his company was even more successful then MM co. No one came and helped him in that. Or he didn't have so much money that he could use to create a company that way. While Adarsh and laksh got the company because they were DP's son. Adarsh surely worked hard and would have contributed a lot in making it successful in many ways but he didn't build it from the start like Sanskaar did. So here, he did get the position and work at DP's company because he was a Maheshwari and obviously a smart one. Yes, Laksh got served everything in the platter. He is working hard now for sure.And MM wasis being the silent spectator to the wrongs have been going on since so long. When Swara was misunderstood for running away from the mandap she was insulted in so many ways. She was also considered characterless when her dear sister had blamed her for that. The ladies of the MM house even after knowing the fact that Ragini has done so many kaands believed Ragini over Swara. Except of Sanskaar, who came in Swara's defense? Even whatever DP did then was just sake of doing it. He didn't strongly told them to stop their nonsense. When everyone is done giving their share of insults DP will make an entry and say "Bas bohot ho gaya". Even when Sujju was insulting Pari with infertility remarks (not that I support Sujju or Pari definitely didn't deserve that hate), he did the same. So I dont find it surprising that DP was silent. AP Sujju were ready to get Swara arrested and even they did when she was just being accused of Ragini's kidnapping. She wasnt even proved guilty. Who came in her defense? No one other than Sanskaar. DP did nothing other than saying "Yeh tumne galat kiya" And when Laksh was proved guilty of not only kidnapping Ragini but also attempt to murder, what did AP do? Just slap him and then begged the family to not get him arrested. Aur jab arrest hua, she got heart attack and he was released like in few hours. While Swara had to spend 24 hours. So this is what I meant!! The double standards they have also shown towards SwaSan and not just Pari or Adarsh. With RagLak, they have been the most lenient. Openly accepting them and forgiving them for whatever Kaand they did.And with Adarsh complaining about the family always expected him to be adarshvaadi. Well, it is because he had it that way. There is a saying in Gujarati "Bole ena bore vechaai". That means until and unless you dont speak, you are not gonna be heard. I remember I was once having my ranting session with my friend and I was complaining about stuff and she asked me one thing "did you even try?" and that got me thinking. AdRi has always been the silent supporter of the family. Whatever the family did, they agreed to it without opposing it. Even if they didn't agree, they didn't speak up. Just as SwaSan has been taken for granted to clean the mess others have created or like Dadi has taken Shek Shomi for granted with the fact that they will keep forgiving her for all of her kaands, AdRi were also taken for granted with the fact that they will always support them the way they always did. Adarsh never revolted. Its a good thing and a bad thing too. Bad thing because you have purposely created that image of being ok with anything the family will do for you or decide for you. Sanskaar revolted. Initially in the wrong way of course but after that he did that in the right way. Swara always revolted in the right way. Laksh revolted in wrong ways as well but he still got what he wanted easily. SanLak have what they have is because they revolted. Adarsh never did. So he doesn't have the right to complain on this. Yes, if he wanted, he should have demanded second chance for Pari. And I am very damn sure that SwaSan and RagLak would have helped him convince the family. But he didn't speak up. He went behind the backs. Maybe he was too blinded by his anger or frustration and he ended up doing wrong things. But still, it doesn't make it any right (and I know you dont support how he risked the baby's life and played with it but I am just saying it)Sorry for such a long essay😆
Adarsh never said that sanlak were served everything in platter, he said when sanskar was pretending to be dead and lakshay was doing his ayashi he handled the business that is those 5yr and now suddenly sanlak are given projects to handle and not him.
We all know sanskar's struggle in life, and his revolt too. And this ability to revolt is something that Adarsh is insecure about. Swara also has this and ragini was insecure about swara partly because of that too, because she is outspoken and bold enough to keep her pov in front of everyone. My point was adarsh's reasoning to do all this was much stronger than ragini's and kavlak's reasoning.
His insecurity is understandable, he is insecure about lakshay because he gets everything served without any struggle from family and he is insecure about sanskar because he is intelligent enough to get what he wants because he has the ability to struggle and fight for it.
Adarsh kept everything inside and followed dp's orders without a revolt and that's the reason he turned up and took an extreme step like this.
And yeah mm vaasis are silent spectators to lot of wrong doings but swasan are not, when they too kept mum about sujju's infertility comment after the key incident I was surprised. Besides Adarsh's silence then was disturbing too.
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