why people want swara guilt track? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ria.april18

I dont know guys whats so wrong in demanding swara doing something special for sanky...even if she didn't commit any mistakes consciously...still for her sanskar had to live a life worse than hell...if i place myself in swara's shoes..then also i would have felt guilty if i knew that i caused such an immense pain to a person who loves me the most though unknowingly...so i dont know what is so wrong in my demand??? Sanky kya itna bhi deserve nahi karta after this stormy dark phase of his life??

Originally posted by: LoveSriNal

aparna swara slapped sanskar on stage.. just put yourself in her place.. you believe a person so much and help him and go to national tv.. then yoy understand that that person betray you.. he disguised and cheated you then what will you do? that time she didn't slapped her husband. . she slapped a person who cheated her.. and dusguise as another person is actually a crime.. and swara suffered a lot in malkin track humiliation in front of whole family.. and sanskar didn't utter a word. . this slap is nothing in front of it.. and her memory loss is a big thing.. just imagine you loss your memory and your parents tell that you are married to a person and you are getting flashes of him shooting you.. then what did you do? You can't ignore your mind.. sometimes you can't trust even our parents.. we should trust ourselves more than anyone. . and if swara intentionally slap sanskar then what you are saying is valid.. she was ill and she slapped a person who cheats her.. I can't blame her at all..

Originally posted by: ria.april18

If sanskar would have suffered from ml and slapped swara on a national tv show stage then how you would have reacted dear...i am so sure you would have wanted to burn his hands which hurt swara...i am a swasan fan but i am not biased toward anyone..and no justification will be enough for me for that public humiliation of sanskar..as i dont consider sanskar's act justified in malkin track and kavkar track...and so i dont find swara's act justified in this ml track...though i am more of a sanskar fan but i love swara too...and when it comes to judging them critically i like to treat both of them equal...and lastly again PUBLIC HUMILIATION AND PHYSICAL ABUSE IS NOT AS INSIGNIFICANT THING AS YOU ARE PORTRAYING...ALL THE REASON BEHIND THIS ACT BE DAMNED

Originally posted by: ishanita

a perfect answer...it reflected my views

Originally posted by: tiny15

dear no1 has objection 2 it if swara does sumthing 4 sanky but why is it obligation wid regard 2 swara?? why ppl r making it a necessity?? that she shud do this??

most of the posts which r asking 4 guilt track has the content which indicate or saying swara shud suffer like snaky,she shud b punished or shud b in pain etc etc.

did any1 say the same things abt sanky during maalkin track??did any1 ask guilt track 4 sanky after malkin track?? or did CVs ever show sanky felt guilty 4 hurting swara during malkin track so why now its being asked 4 swara??bcoz i rembr wenever sum1 made such post most of the members cum 2 the defense of sanskar.

i mean why it shud b an obligation on swara's part 2 feel guilty??the ppl who r asking/demanding guilt track they r making it luk like(atleast their posts luk like this atleast 2 me 4 oders i can't say) it as its swara's duty & if guilt track is not shown then it means she doesn't luv sanky??

and whos saying swara won't feel bad or guilty abt it even tho shes not at fault??and how we know that CVs won't show swara doing sumthing 3 sanky

and even in 2days epi DP also said that swara must b hurt after knowing sanskar is kissan truth bcoz all r understanding her situtn.

edit- btw i luv sanskar more than swara & i m bit biased 4 him also but i can't criticize oder ckt or swara just bcoz sanky is hurt by unintentional acts of swara 2wards him.

Originally posted by: ria.april18

I gave you my answer in my post itself dear...i am placing myself in swara's shoes...i am considering myself a ml patient who have recovered recently and have discovered that she has blamed that person for hurting her who loves her the most in the world...trust me i would have been damn guilty...whenever i would have remembered the misbehaviour towards that person i would have felt like dying out of guilt...causing pain to your nearest and dearest one though unknowingly and unintentionally makes one feel guilty...this is human nature..i am telling it from my own personal experience...i hope you understand what i am trying to convey...and as per the suffering is concerned...i definitely dont want swara to suffer any pain...but i feel she should feel obligated to do something special for sanskar to soothe his pain...and lastly lets agree to disagree

Originally posted by: tiny15

@bold i think i differ here big time.

tho i can understand wat r u saying but doing sumthing spl 4 ur luved ones shudn't b an obligation or duty only. or guilt only. it shud cum from ur heart & soul i.e prsn shud do the things bcoz he/she luvs that prsn not bcoz he/shes obligated 2 do bcoz of his/her unintentional mistake.

sanky din't feel obligated 2 swara 2 do sumthing spl 4 swara after that maalkin & kavita track but he did bcoz he truly luved/s swara .he din't do all that bcoz he was feeling guilty but he did bcoz he genuinely luved/s swara & felt doing that 4 his luv of life.

so i don't want swara 2 do anything spl bcoz of sum obligation owing 2 her unintentional mistake wen she was ill.watever she shud do that shud b from her heart & soul & not guilt.

i understood sanky's POV during maalkin track tho i was against his rude behaviour as he din't hav any ML nor he has sum strong misconception like swara wanted 2 kill him.i even understood his POV during his engagement 2 kavs tho wanted him 2 never chose that cavity.

so yes i"ll agree 2 disagree.as even i put myself in swara's shows or sanky's shoes during ML i don't want swara's luv 2 b a obligation.

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

It's not about comparison between Swara n ragini. The problem here is the crime n punishment, why do want swara to be guilty of something she has not done? She did say a sorry to sanskar immediately after getting her memory back, that act completely signifies that she "felt guilty" but sanskar loves her too n that too unconditionally he knows swara was suffering equally along with him. I am big sanskar fan every one knows that but I do measure his character critically because that's what i do I always analyze critically that's my nature but somehow I feel that this forum is extra critical about swara, her mere mistakes that are totally unintentional are considered to be crimes and a character assassination is done. I really don't understand why? Swara didn't hurt sanskar intentionally, although she was kind enough to forgive when sanskar hurted her with clear intentions to destroy her life. Give swara a break, don't make her a culprit when she is not.