Finally, finally finally, Sahil's real face is out in the open. A reality check for all who found no fault in Sahil's conduct and mannerisms. Anuj has been doing a very fantastic job and I am glad he was selected by the CV's as Swara's Obsessive Lover. He is playing the role to the T.
I do agree that to a common man with no knowledge of any kind, Sahil and most of his actions seem seemingly harmless. However, we are not any unsuspecting individual. We are informed individuals who already knew, at the time of his entry itself, that Sahil's character, is to turn obsessive, with regards to Swara, in the very near future. And its human fallacy that once we a person is guilty of something, we try to discern their every step, analyse and dissect it, and finally link it to the crime they either have or are going to commit. The case with Sahil is that we know of his oncoming obsessive love for Swara and are therefore, dissing him for his every move, no matter how insignificant or in-consequent it is. SwaSan lovers are guilty of this as we just love and adore SwaSan and cannot tolerate any harm coming to our beloved couple.
Obsessive love is a hypothetical state of mind in which a person feels an overwhelming obsessive desire to possess another individual towards whom they feel an extremely strong attraction, with the inate inability to accept failure or rejection. It is considered to be a mental illness similar to "attachment disorder, borderline personality disorder, and eroto-mania." Obsessive lovers feel entirely unable to restrain themselves from extreme behavior such as acts of violence towards their object of desire. Yes, Object, not person or individual, plain and pure OBJECT, as their obsessive love reduces its recipient to thus. The recipient is no longer a kindred soul, its an object they HAVE to possess, no matter the cost, the consequences or the morality of it all. Such individuals are entirely convince themselves that their feelings are indeed pure love, and reject the very idea that their severe obsession is not actually love. While a healthy love relationship evolves over time such that it no longer involves the near desperate intensity and fervor of infatuation. Healthy love tends to mature over the years to include commitment, friendship, and a solid respect for the other person as an individual and of their needs. Healthy relationships allow both people to feel loved, cared for, and respected and allow for each person's individuality and pursuit of their own professional lives, recreational activities, and friendships outside of the love relationship.
Sahil is an extremely Selfish and Self serving man who has begun to disregard everything, Swara's marriage, health, happiness, wishes etc. just to attain his means i.e., Swara. He is employing dubious means to elevate himself in her eyes while trying to portray Sanskaar, Swara's lawfully wedded husband, in bad light. The whole music academy fiasco reveals that he knows of Swara's marriage to Sanskaar, knows that they are a happy couple, and is trying to manipulate Swara into liking him and hating her well loved husband by means of the events unfolding in the recent OLV's. He is capitalizing on Swara's misconception about Sanskaar's culpability in her kidnap and subsequent fall into the river by manipulating events and people to the end of achieving his goal, i.e., Swara. He is not giving Swawa any choice in the matter. He is trying to cage a vulnerable and ill informed Swara into an unequal relationship with him. Thus, he is an obsessive lover of Swara and therefore a villain PERIOD.
Sanskaar, on the other hand, after overcoming the initial shock will take this crushing development to his stride, be very understanding of Swara's situation, not resent her for her ML and support her, even if that means going away (for a teeny weeny bit of time) from Swara. Even when Swara fancied herself to be in love with Lakshya, after SwaSan marriage, Sanskaar never actually jataofied his haq on Swara. He let her free with the hope that she will come back to him as his love is pure and true. Even though Sanskaar actually has Haq on Swara, he will not exert it on her just for his own happiness or satisfaction. He will place Swara's well being well above his own. Even though in his body, mind and Soul he will be hurting, he will put up a brave front for everyone else, and most importantly his Swara.
I really hated watching Sahil hit an unsuspecting, unarmed, perfectly tranquil and rational Sanskaar with an iron rod at the back of his head while knowing very well that he is innocent. Frankly, I am not angry on Swara, it's Sahil and Swara's family I want to rant about. I know that if things come out at the starting itself then the plot cannot thicken and set. However, I will still rant because of the inhuman treatment being meted out on Sanskaar. The poor guy is already suffering in mind and soul. Body baki thi, woh kassar bhi Sahil ne puri kar di.
Thats why, I am looking forward to a track in future where Swara will wield that same rod against Sahil and beat the living s**t out of him. Just like Sanskaar tried to Strangle Kavita for hurting Swara, I want Swara to beat the living shit out of Sahil sometime in future for trying to harm her Sanskaar. I also want Swara to remember Sahil hitting Sanskaar while he was merely trying to talk to her and clear her misconception, get very emotional, catch hold of Sanskaar's head, bend it to her lips n kiss the exact place n then hug him while burying her face in Sanskaar's nape. A back hug in this sequence would be awesome. Sanskaar will be shocked and bewildered n ask what is matter, to which Swara should entwine her arms around his chest and neck and say emotionally, "tum theek kehte hoo Sanskaar, main wakai tum par bahut pati shoshan karti hoon. I am sorry. I just remembered the incident at the music academy where Sahil attacked you for no reason". Then Sanskaar should hold her and bring her to infront of him, wipe her tears, fold her into him arms and kiss her forehead while crooning sweet nothings to make her smile and forget the incident.
The little respect and regard that I had for Sahil as he saved our Swara and took care of her has been eradicated completely by his ghastly act. He is not a sympathetic man or a kindred soul. He is just plain disgusting. I mean how could Sahil will hit Sanskaar on his head with a rod? Sahil could do this because he is a plain right PATHETIC SELFISH SOD PERIOD. He is a low born human being. He very well knew Sanskaar was innocent and yet hit him with an iron rod on his head and the flees like the coward he really is.
I just don't get it. Why cannot someone tell Swara that Sanskaar is innocent, that she had been kidnapped and he was there to save her. He fired the gun at Swara's kidnapper and not at her, but her kidnapper pulled her into the river. By saying a very abridged version of the events, Sanskaar can atleast be spared all this pain and ignominy. I mean what are Soumi, Shekaar, Ragini, Dadima doing. Faltu ka sirf footage hi khate hain, kaam ka kaam koi nahi karta. I hold no hopes on Shekaar and Dadi to do anything other than contrive ways to make Swara miserable. But where is Ragini madam with her behana walla pyaar and Sanskaar ke liye chinta. Why did she not deem it fit to inform Swara of the actual events. Soumi ko bhi chod hi do. I am not liking her one bit anymore. She is the newest zombie on the block. Sab ke sab useless hain.
I have always felt that Swara's family, except maybe Swara's Nani, does not ever care one bit or do any justice with Sanskaar. The whole family is selfish. They have never accorded Sanskaar the love, respect and dignity that an ordinary damad deserves, let alone someone like Sanskaar, while Sanskaar has always treated them as his own. Dadi and Shekaar toh have never actually accepted Swara herself as their own, so Sanskaar is no where in the scene. But I had expected better of Soumi. The whole is sirf baaton ke sher, kaam mein dhap.
I hope Sanskaar to suspect or downright discovere that the whole music academy happenings had been contrieved by Sahil to distance Swara from him while endearing him to Swara. Therefore, Sanskaar will don Sanky, the RockStar avatar to stay close to Swara and protect her from Sahil. However, I want Swara to fall for Sanskaar Maheswari once again with all her fears and apprehensions.I seriously don want a RNBDJ track. I want swara to Love Sanskaar as Sanskaar only and nothing else.
I presume Sanky will enter as the Singer of the Sargam Foundation. Sahil does not sing. So let him stand in the Kinara and let SwaSan Sing a song at the Sargam foundation. Sahil may persuade Swara into working for the foundation. There she will meet Sanky. I want Swara to feel that Cosmic Connection SwaSan share every time Sanky comes near her. I want Swara to be completely confused with her feelings for Sanky. I want her feel Sanky every time he is around and start questioning herself about the meaning of the connection she feels for him.
Sanky meanwhile can a way contrive to give Swara her ring/SS pendant back. I mean, let him hold it in his hand and let Swara see it and snatch from him and say its mine, where the hell did u get it. Sanky can give tashan walla answers and questioning her about it while subtly giving her or rather making her deduce an hint as to its significance.
Latter when Swara comes to know of her marriage to Sanskaar and as per the article, she might leave badi in a state of agitation. She will be walking on the road completely oblivious to her surroundings remembering Sanskaar shooting her, her own other half baked flash backs and the picture of her marriage to Sanskaar wherein she looks very much happy and in love with Sanskaar.
Maa or Ragini will call and inform Sanskaar about Swara discovering about their marriage and Swara leaving the Badi in an agitated state. Sanskaar, dressed as Sanky will search for Swara and will see her walking absentmindedly on the road with a car/truck speeding towards her. He will shout Swara and without caring for himself jump and save Swara, thereby getting hurt in the process with his baal-ki-dukaan coming off. Swara will be shocked to realize that Sanky was actually Sanskaar. Then Swara will notice his hand is bleeding and will instinctively tear a portion of her dupatta/ or use her handkerchief and make bandage for him. Then Swara can be shown to get a faint flash back of the supposed accident Sanskaar had before the Tu Mere Pass Toh Hain Na sequence. Sanskaar will be scold Swara while she looks on at him in shock, ppl passing by will comment how Sanskaar put his life in danger to save to her. After all this, I want Swara to have a monologue about how this guy can try and kill her when he just now this life in danger to save me. Why she feels a connection to him. Why she can feel his presence, even without seeing him. Why her heart acts weirdly every time he is near or when she touch hims. I also want her to question her own feelings and reaction when she saw Sanskaar hurt. Sanskaar will then take her back to badi and Swara will meekly follow him. She can retrospect on her relationship with Sanskaar in the car while giving him covert looks.
In the badi, Soumi can then relate to Swara that She married Sanskaar for Love, that she had been kidnapped and Sanskaar was trying to Save her, Sanskaar fired at her kidnapper and not her, how the kidnapper pulled Swara along into the river, how Sanskaar without caring foir his life or limb jumped into the river to save her, how he lost conscious when he was not able to find her, and finally How it was Only Sanskaar who refused to believe that his Swara is dead as he himself was alive and did everything he could to search for her. After hearing all this, I want Swara to decide to give her marriage a chance, be curious of the sort of relationship she shared with him, how she came to love him etc. and go therefore back to MM. However, since she and Sanky have shared till now only Tashan walla relation, she will continue showing bhaav to him.
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