Originally posted by: luvakanksha
OK just relax deep breathing in and out 😆
I am perfectly relaxed, thank you 😆😆 No point getting agitated about a TV show, woh bhi ye wala, lol
My point here is THAT CVS ARE NOT EXECUTING RAGINI'S REDEMPTION PROPERLY
NOW let's go one be one
1) when lucky married Kavya
Shekhar was like Meri beti nai sirf pyaar diya hai iss Ghar ko, like really????????? When?????????? And when sujata tried to jump in after that comment to remind him that it's utter rubbish, dp stopped her. My question is why? When shekhar and dadi counts lakshay's negative deeds in front of dp no one stops them 😕
See this where I differ from you - for me, redemption is what about the individual does to rectify the mistakes he's made, it really doesn't matter to me what other people say about it. Honestly, if dadi and Shekhar are saying some shiz as usual, for me, that's on them, and they are accountable for their actions and not Ragini. She has enough on her plate to fix, and I'm glad she's focusing on that. For me at least, whatever the others are doing or saying does not take away anything from what she's doing to fix the damage she's done.
Also, another aspect to that could be that Ragini is a woman, and she's been betrayed and humiliated by Lakshya in the worst possible manner that could be done to a woman. Lakshya has suffered a lot too, there's no denying that, but the retribution he faced has never been so violent and severe and just there - to be used physically and being lead to believe that the man you worship loves you when its all a part of a massive ploy and then being abandoned so mercilessly in front of 500 people - that's the worst that could be done to any woman honestly. And for DP and the other elders, that's where the sympathy factor comes in I guess.
2) ragini's sucide note she writes " jis pyaar k liye humne itnaa galat kiya" i mean like what? was that love or obsession? was it worth it? she tried to end her life because she lost her purpose to live and that was lucky not because she was guilty.
" jis insaan k liye humne itna galat kiya ussi insaan nai humai galat keh kar thukra diya humai maaf kardijiye humse aur bardasht nahi hota aur hum apne pyaar k bina nahi reh sakte thats why i am going so that u all could live happily"
now in this sucide note she is not guilty for her deeds she is still justifying it saying that she did all that for lucky toh agar usko lucky apna leta toh all those bad deeds would have been worth it?😆
See the thing is this was her immediate reaction to Lucky's betrayal - she's reacting to his betrayal at that point of time. Lucky, who's the centre of her universe, has stripped her away of all her hopes, dignity and trust in one vicious stroke. But in that very same episode, she apologizes to Swara for her actions - and more importantly, she does that even before Lucky's betrayal, when SR are getting dressed before the wedding. Even more recently, in jail, when Lucky is trying to do chance pe dance, she clearly says that she's not doing all of these things because she expects anything from him - she's just doing it because life has given her a chance to rectify her mistakes, and that's honestly good enough for me.
3) when ragini helped swara and took the selfless risk and exchanged her position with sanskar - dadi spoilt it. She blamed swara. Mahri lado mahri lado jap.her over praising of ragini just reminds me what all ragini has done. when ragini swapped herself with sanskar in jail I was like 👏 wow what a unconditional risk ragini has taken for swara but when dadi blamed swara for it I was like what the hell yaar swara has done so much for ragini and what Ragini is doing is nothing in return. You see she makes her unconditional deeds look small. You know her biased behavior towards swara always reminds me of ragini's evilness for which she is still not punished by dadi. If u remember dadi said that if ragini is wrong she would be the first one to punish her which did not happen at all. Infact ragini has done so much wrong to the Maheshwaris but still they were large hearted enough to forgive her. If swara, shomi and Maheshwaris would not have protected ragini she would have been in jail. My question is why?
Just imagine dadi is blaming lakshay for kidnapping ragini and ap defends him saying that he did all that to get back swara his first love??????
Again, the same thing as above. Whatever the others are doing or saying does not take away anything from er redemption process, because for me redemption stems from within and it relates to that specific person, and has nothing to do with other people. If we can't give Ragini the benefit of others' good deeds, why should we take away from her for others irrational behaviour ?
4) now this stabbing scene why the hell are the cvs combining this sequence with lakshay's rescue. Alag sequence rakh letein where ragini does something exclusively just for swara? And for God sake cvs need to show this a selfless ragini doing something just for swara.
U see I am saying ragini's redemption execution is not correct and I am not happy with that.
If u will ask me whether ragini is positive or not currently? I would say a yes but if u will ask me whether I am happy with her redemption and suffering? I would say no
In that sequence, Lucky seems to be embedded behind the wall, lol. It looks like Tanya attacks Swara while Lucky's chilling inside, and Ragini throws herself in the middle to fend her off. In that moment, that act of throwing herself in harm's way has nothing to do with Lakshya, he's not in immediate danger at that point in time. So Ragini doing that really has nothing to do with Lakshya in that moment. As for why the CVs can't show her doing something like this for Swara independent of Kavya, its because she's the antagonist at the moment, and Swara thankfully isn't likely to face any other life threatening maniacs other than her.
Also, prior to the whole wedding drama, when Swara was jailed because of Kavita, Ragini did everything she could to get her out, and that again was completely unrelated to Lakshya. Again, when KaLa send MMwasis to jail recently, Ragini does everything she can to get them out of their and clearly goes against Lakshya, and in fact tells him to his face that she's glad she doesn't love a moron like him anymore and that he disgusts her.
I'd just wanted to put across my thoughts, and you're completely entitled to disagree of course. Honestly, for everyone, there is an inherent like / dislike for every character, and no matter what, that doesn't change. Its the human element in us - and I more than accept, understand and respect that.
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