Do read:Characters are well put in place & justified

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Posted: 9 years ago
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i dont know how many might agree
but today i feel cv's have given proper explanation to our outcry on what ground shekar can claim right on swara when he proved himself to be failure.Yes he has ill treated ,disowned ,neglected on swara for whatever reasons it maybe ...but analysing what he said ...i m having different opinion.
i was someone who burst out literally yelling calling shekar such worst father when i saw episode yesterday.

well today when sujatha asked why u taking away swara.he did say why not sanskar too tried to get divorce swara and marry kavita.
Everyone do know how much sanskar love each other.. but Think from DAD's pov ,Wont he wana make sure none of his daughter go through trauma.?? !! He had such traumatised experience at MM house on what faith or belief he would leave swara in MM ??
I Must say fear has beaten him so hard that he is not capable to understand at such a state.I think cv's has well managed this area anyone would react the same

ADDON to shekar POV..to b more precise (Copy pasting something i have given as reply ...)THIS is what i m saying his character sketch was made such from the beginning when did he proved to have essential qualities of good father??.he never did.and such character will react in such a way. He must have literally felt fed up with back to back drama.For instance you are witnessing something that you dont agree but had do bec u r helpless later when you realise it was all betrayal game ...every small events who u had closed eyes will become bigger at that time.So in this scenario he could not bear the pain that ragini was betrayed by laksh and she was used as instrument in his whole play .So tellme how a dad would react if you see ur daughter is used? and yeah he did bow when sanky said he will marry kavita but recall when kavita went to take ashirvaad his face doesnt reflect any happiness but unhappiness .We know how much connected are swasan with each other.Though sanky had strong faith in his love that this marriage wont happen ..its not necessary shekar would have such faith ..He must have felt if swara didnt arrive at nick of time sanky would have got married to kavita...This is something he had to close eyes i mean witnessing sankav marraige ...
And again on the same day he is given such a major set back ...laksh's behaviour has hit him so hard and every events he had to witness is becoming big for him...This is how a man would react if he doesnt express his distressed at onepoint and tries to suppress on himself ...and when something big happen all those suppressed feelings get burst out.U wont know what u r saying and is incapable to think sanely.this is what happened to shekar as well


Well cant blame Laksh ,accding to his pov he feels his family never value him ,doesnt love him like how they love ragini.no matter what bad deeds ragini they are always ready to listen.He feel neglected and deserted.and he finds faith,solace,confidence in kavya which on other side turning him against his family.He must have felt cowwebbed trapped by ragini .So he would give such reaction after all he must make ragini feel what one go through if their love is separated from them which is his first love swara

POV OF RAG
Yes she became bad when she came to know her fiancee loved swara and there were lot of misunderstanding ,I know she hasnt asked for forgiveness with anyone which she should have,but her character sketch was like that ...she can be tuned by anyone...like maasi tried to add venoms ...and her fear of loosing laksh made her sign those papers ...Once she found out massi she genuinely felt concern for swara.
What more we can expect from a younger sibling.We do make mistakes but its elders guide us. Ragini is swara's sister ,how wont she forgive her blood and give a chance.
This i feel bec i m younger sis to my sis.No matter how bad we do they still forgive me

Annapoorna is noT A Mother in law but a mother .We all criticzed her concern to ragini but why would not she be. She is matured ,elder ,much have great knowledge of life ...so wont she be trying to forgive ragini and give a chance...like any mom cant disown her own children so do annapoorna she is mom to swaragini and laksh

loved convos between laksh and AP. This is how a MOM would react...

So today i feel CV's have given justification to characters
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am sorry I will have to disagree with you on shekhar's stand regarding SwaSan his so called concern for swara is cause lakshya gave dhoka to his dear ladoo so if ragini suffers so does swara ! If he was so concerned about swara why did he not take a stand of swara not getting married to sanskar earlier ,why is he pointing fingers now with regards to the sanskar kavita engagement and the divorce thing now ? He emotionally blackmailed swara today by saying how can you go back to that house when lakshya has torn ragini's soul ,what about the fact that ragini tried to kill swara ? And swara was completely broken after her sisters betrayal and she found the courage to fight cause of sanskar ! I am completely disgusted by shekhar today !
And with regards to lakshya I partly agree with you but hiding behind your wife while she fights for your rights is not exactly the right thing to do ! He could have walked out on his family and tried to create a identity for himself instead of stealing his father's and sanskar's property and acting like he has "grown up "one more spineless person like his Ex FIL !
And ragini for now I will not comment let's see how the CV's handle her track if she genuinely acknowledges the wrong she has done I might begin to believe in her redemption !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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for shekhar...I would hv been shocked agar so swara no nai le me jata...
insecurities fear of ur child's pain can break any father...
yes he was partial but that was CVS fault in not justifying the character...shekhar's character is not double faced...he takes things at face value...nd if m at his place even I won't send my child at the place where my other kid got broken...it simply doesn't goes well..
way he did was justified enough
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I beg to differ where Shekhar is concerned
Shekhar, it is understandable that he is very angry with Maheshwari's after being deceived by Lakshya and especially after being slapped by Lakshya. The slap was the biggest insult by Lakshya.

Inspite of all this when the rest of the family members can think about Swara, then why not Shekhar.
Why does Swara have to share the same fate as Ragini? Why does Swara have to get a step daughterly treatment. He tells Swara that she has sworn on him and that she will not go against him as she loves her father.
Where was this father when Swara was proved drug addict, or when Swara was accused of kidnapping Ragini and dumping her in the back of the car. Then he broke his relation with Sharmista in his hot headedness.

Are the rest, that is Sharmista, Dada and Dadi wrong and Shekhar right. They too are all angry but have not lost their thinking capacity.
Even DADI who raised Ragini like a mother, who is furious with Lakshya, for a change understood Swara and her feelings, which I did not expect her too do.

As for Swara-Sanskaar divorce, Shekhar knows that it was brought about by Ragini and Dadi, by playing of the weakness of DP (here i also blame DP).
Shekhar has himself seen the risk Sanskaar took in marrying Kavita to get Swara freed, this was so recent, just before the marriage.

Shekhar and Lakshya are two people who act and do not stop to think of the consequences.
Lakshya actually spoke out his heart today, but with that he is no less than Ragini and Kavya today and also made a big mistake in his haste.

PS: Sankaar showed the understanding towards Shekhar and did not stop Swara, though he wanted to hold her back and Swara too looked at Sanskaar before leaving with Shekhar. The silent understanding. Love them.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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one more think...we as viewers know how sanskar is nd only we ppl knew what lakshya was planning...
none of the members at house guessed what his motives are...
for shekhar too.. lakshya was a golden child...sanskar destroyed swara's happiness once...then redeemed...he is fine with sanskar...exception present case...lakshya was amazing Till kidnapping drama nd then his redemption too was accepted...as fake it may be...
he again stabbed by being behind the veil...which was shocking...y won't in fear of his other daughter's happiness would he give space to bad thoughts regarding sanskar...it dsnt prove sanskar bad but fear is fear...
nd it's a saying.. once bitten twice shy...or in Hindi...doodh ka jala chaach bi fook fook kar peeta hai..
instead of regretting what ifs in future...he wants to keep them safe nd this thought can never degraded...yes decision is in impulse but isn't partiality but fear for ur child...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yes if do agree with you some what. this is a situation that is called a moral dilemma, dharam sankat, everyone is right in their respective position and POV. (except kavya. who should basically keep her mouth shut) shekher is right from his point of view as a father he cannot bring himself to believe his daughters are secure anywhere but in his house. he is a father who had to go through a lot because of others bad decisions. the fact that he was always more protective of ragini then swara doesn't help. he has always taken the cavalier attitude when it comes to swara happiness, maybe because she is the stronger of the two. yet he has put swara happiness on the line because of ragini's misfortunes and there he is wrong. dada, dadi and sharmistha can see this but shekher is beyond reason.
ragini committed grave mistakes and didn't really make amends for them. she never really understood lakshya's feelings, her over possessiveness and obsession of him made him feel trapped naturally. and one cant really blame lakshya's for dumping her either. but he is totally wrong in what he is doing to his family. by marrying that girl kavya he has hurt himself and his family even more. for raginis faults lakshya has punished not only her but swara sanskaar and his family as well for no fault of theirs.
it was his decision although impulsive to marry ragini. because of a misunderstanding. his family didn't force him. they would have been angry with his decision to divorce her given the current change in her. but having to put with his so called "awesome wife" is even more hellish they putting up with ragini.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam.

I am sorry I will have to disagree with you on shekhar's stand regarding SwaSan his so called concern for swara is cause lakshya gave dhoka to his dear ladoo so if ragini suffers so does swara ! If he was so concerned about swara why did he not take a stand of swara not getting married to sanskar earlier ,why is he pointing fingers now with regards to the sanskar kavita engagement and the divorce thing now ? He emotionally blackmailed swara today by saying how can you go back to that house when lakshya has torn ragini's soul ,what about the fact that ragini tried to kill swara ? And swara was completely broken after her sisters betrayal and she found the courage to fight cause of sanskar ! I am completely disgusted by shekhar today !

And with regards to lakshya I partly agree with you but hiding behind your wife while she fights for your rights is not exactly the right thing to do ! He could have walked out on his family and tried to create a identity for himself instead of stealing his father's and sanskar's property and acting like he has "grown up "one more spineless person like his Ex FIL !
And ragini for now I will not comment let's see how the CV's handle her track if she genuinely acknowledges the wrong she has done I might begin to believe in her redemption !



I m not saying shekar is doing right...he is half way..like any father would have preconceived notion after such big blow of events had happen...so i was saying he is not wrong in taking away swara at that moment...but he shouldnt have blackmailed swara thats not like father should do...but about kavita sanky engagement yes he should nt have said her to move on but see that was mutual decision by swasan ..Anyways i was saying momentary thing what shekar did is fine but later thing at badi the kasm is not something a father should do.And my post is regarding characters are put well in place...so here i feel the cv's has justified ,this is how shekar would react.His sketch was so like beginning
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharif_lafungi

for shekhar...I would hv been shocked agar so swara no nai le me jata...
insecurities fear of ur child's pain can break any father...
yes he was partial but that was CVS fault in not justifying the character...shekhar's character is not double faced...he takes things at face value...nd if m at his place even I won't send my child at the place where my other kid got broken...it simply doesn't goes well..
way he did was justified enough



Yeah it is..thankgod u got my point. See cv's have not ruined .He was impulsive and his actions are on instinct. this was his sketch from the beginning

for instance when ragini blamed swara and showed evidence in support of her during swalak marriage track he didnt think twice to believe ragini and disown swara.So here again the situation is making him switch to old shekar ...humiliation he suffered, betrayal all preventing him to think sanely ...
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Originally posted by: merrydock

yes if do agree with you some what. this is a situation that is called a moral dilemma, dharam sankat, everyone is right in their respective position and POV. (except kavya. who should basically keep her mouth shut) shekher is right from his point of view as a father he cannot bring himself to believe his daughters are secure anywhere but in his house. he is a father who had to go through a lot because of others bad decisions. the fact that he was always more protective of ragini then swara doesn't help. he has always taken the cavalier attitude when it comes to swara happiness, maybe because she is the stronger of the two. yet he has put swara happiness on the line because of ragini's misfortunes and there he is wrong. dada, dadi and sharmistha can see this but shekher is beyond reason.

ragini committed grave mistakes and didn't really make amends for them. she never really understood lakshya's feelings, her over possessiveness and obsession of him made him feel trapped naturally. and one cant really blame lakshya's for dumping her either. but he is totally wrong in what he is doing to his family. by marrying that girl kavya he has hurt himself and his family even more. for raginis faults lakshya has punished not only her but swara sanskaar and his family as well for no fault of theirs.
it was his decision although impulsive to marry ragini. because of a misunderstanding. his family didn't force him. they would have been angry with his decision to divorce her given the current change in her. but having to put with his so called "awesome wife" is even more hellish they putting up with ragini.


@ bold yes this is one reason when u feel ur other daughter is matured,understandable u might be more keen and concern to younger one.thinking ur elder can tackle and overcome it.For shekar he has always been so..if he was a man of values,he would not have broken his ties with sharmista when ragini made swara the cause of all problems & when shomi supported swara ..so here too he is doing his instinct ...and hence in dt way cv's have justified
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiViren-Raj

I beg to differ where Shekhar is concerned

Shekhar, it is understandable that he is very angry with Maheshwari's after being deceived by Lakshya and especially after being slapped by Lakshya. The slap was the biggest insult by Lakshya.

Inspite of all this when the rest of the family members can think about Swara, then why not Shekhar.
Why does Swara have to share the same fate as Ragini? Why does Swara have to get a step daughterly treatment. He tells Swara that she has sworn on him and that she will not go against him as she loves her father.
Where was this father when Swara was proved drug addict, or when Swara was accused of kidnapping Ragini and dumping her in the back of the car. Then he broke his relation with Sharmista in his hot headedness.

Are the rest, that is Sharmista, Dada and Dadi wrong and Shekhar right. They too are all angry but have not lost their thinking capacity.
Even DADI who raised Ragini like a mother, who is furious with Lakshya, for a change understood Swara and her feelings, which I did not expect her too do.

As for Swara-Sanskaar divorce, Shekhar knows that it was brought about by Ragini and Dadi, by playing of the weakness of DP (here i also blame DP).
Shekhar has himself seen the risk Sanskaar took in marrying Kavita to get Swara freed, this was so recent, just before the marriage.

Shekhar and Lakshya are two people who act and do not stop to think of the consequences.
Lakshya actually spoke out his heart today, but with that he is no less than Ragini and Kavya today and also made a big mistake in his haste.

PS: Sankaar showed the understanding towards Shekhar and did not stop Swara, though he wanted to hold her back and Swara too looked at Sanskaar before leaving with Shekhar. The silent understanding. Love them.


@bold THIS is what i m saying his character sketch was made such from the beginning when did he proved to have essential qualities of good father.he never did.and such character will react in such a way. He must have literally felt fed up with back to back drama.For instance you are witnessing something that you dont agree but had do bec u r helpless later when you realise it was all betrayal game ...every small events who u had closed eyes will become bigger at that time.So in this scenario he could not bear the pain that ragini was betrayed by laksh and she was used as instrument in his whole play .So tellme how a dad would react if you see ur daughter is used? and yeah he did bow when sanky said he will marry kavita but recall when kavita went to take ashirvaad his face doesnt reflect any happiness but unhappiness .We know how much connected are swasan with each other.Though sanky had strong faith in his love that this marriage wont happen ..its not necessary shekar would have such faith ..He must have felt if swara didnt arrive at nick of time sanky would have got married to kavita...This is something he had to close eyes i mean witnessing sankav marraige ...
And again on the same day he is given such a major set back ...laksh's behaviour has hit him so hard and every events he had to witness is becoming big for him...This is how a man would react if he doesnt express his distressed at onepoint and tries to suppress on himself ...and when something big happen all those suppressed feelings get burst out.U wont know what u r saying and is incapable to think sanely.this is what happened to shekar as well

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