Swara said 'No' because......

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know most of us are disappointed when Swara said No. But I am trying to explain her situation.
We all know that Swara is a sacrificing person.
She knows the pain of loosing love. So she doesn't want Kavita to go through the heart break.
Next reason is Sanskaar. She knows that Sanskaar loved Kavita madly. She mentioned it to bade papa that he might love Kavita once again. But once she gets clarity and assurance from Sanskaar that he loves only Swara and can never love any other person then she will not back out.
And next reason may be she thought that Sanskaar live happily with her. Now she knows how much irritated Sanskaar was at her mahaanta. Once he said that she gives him pain. So may be she thought that Kavita gives the happiness and importance to Sanskaar.
I am a SwaSan fan and I understand both are in pain. Trust me friends that there will be no MU.😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think swara gave the same rn as that of sanskaar. ...giving attitude and protecting herself from heartbreak. ...
I don't think she was being mahan yesterday and was worried about kavitas health...
She was just worried about sanskaars reactions...
And she will go back to him if he says he had chosen her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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a much needed postive post pressu. thank you. we want MU to get clear sson.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarathy321

I think swara gave the same rn as that of sanskaar. ...giving attitude and protecting herself from heartbreak. ...
I don't think she was being mahan yesterday and was worried about kavitas health...
She was just worried about sanskaars reactions...
And she will go back to him if he says he had chosen her

Thank you so much for the reply dear.😳
Tomorrow episode might give us a clarity of what Swara is thinking. I do get a feeling that she is thinking about Kavita also. But let's wait.😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRINCESS_ALISHA

a much needed postive post pressu. thank you. we want MU to get clear sson.

Thank you so much for the reply Alisha.😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi prasanthi , i am Aparna. Thank u for the post. Swara is protecting herself from the heartbreak just like Sanskar. She also is aware of the intense love that kavita and sanskar felet for each other once.Sanskar's numerous rejection make her think that Sanskar will also be happy with kavita. Rather she is giving kavita another chance to be happy with sanskar (though she knows that sanskar only loves her and protecting kavita from heartbreak that she herself suffered during RagYa marriage )all over again. This is my reasoning and may be I am wrong.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Apudeep

Hi prasanthi , i am Aparna. Thank u for the post. Swara is protecting herself from the heartbreak just like Sanskar. She also is aware of the intense love that kavita and sanskar felet for each other once.Sanskar's numerous rejection make her think that Sanskar will also be happy with kavita. Rather she is giving kavita another chance to be happy with sanskar (though she knows that sanskar only loves her and protecting kavita from heartbreak that she herself suffered during RagYa marriage )all over again. This is my reasoning and may be I am wrong.

Thank you so much Aparna for the reply. 😃

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree but there is another reason too she wants sanskar to take time and decide it she wants him to be sure of whom he wants to choose and not be confused as that wud leave her more heartbroken
if he decides to leave her now she may be able to handle herself and let him go but if he comes close to her again and then he feels that he still loves kavita she might not be strong enough to let him go just what sanskar was doing a while ago so basically she wants him to decide without any pressure specially from her side kyuki kavita toh faltu pressure and emotuonal blackmail kar rhi h
also she has seen to what extent sanskar went for kavita he loved his family alot still went against his family, was ready to destroy them bcoz he thought they were responsible for kavita's death, he was evn destroying her life and spoil her image all that just for the revenge of kavita's death
swara has seen to what extent he went for kavita but does she know to what extent he can go for her? no.
he married her but that was out of guilt and not love she is not sure if he loves her that much
one thing is clear it will need alot of convincing from sanskar's side for her to believe it but he does it i guess from the new promo thats going around with swara asking sanskar to tie the mangalsutra and kavita coming inbetween this is what it meant
swara finally asks for her rights but kavita does not let it happen and stops him posing some accident and gets determined to have sanskar back
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Pressu...very well explained... Exactly now swara also doesn't want to bear another heart break so she said No..Atlast Sanskaar spoke up..good move...eagerly waiting for today's episode
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Much needed post pressu...👏
NO was a natural answer from Swara at this situation , and I don't know why Sanskar questioning Swara "humare bareme socha hai?" 😕 I mean he was silent and did not stop Swara from leaving then what he actually wanted Swara to do in that situation ?? He was confused and shocked and I can completely understand the reason behind that but Swara was also helpless in that situation na? Sanskar should take decision in this case , No ? I liked the scene in precap , no doubt but why he is questioning Swara is not clear to me actually , he should know that Swara has nothing to do in his Ex-Girlfriend case...😕 He should first sort out Kavita's issue na ? What to do with that chudail then? I mean Sanskar wants Swara to fight with Kavita ? or he wants Swara to return MM ignoring Kavita's presence there as Sanskar already said Swara "dusron ke bareme soch ke khudko kab tak dard deti rahogi ?" so that means Sanskar doesn't care who's staying in MM he just want Swara to be with him ..but Swara can't think this way na? she can't ignore the presence of her husband's ex in MM completely na? She thinks Sanskar still loves Kavita as Sanskar did not clarify his previous rude behavior yet and as Sanskar was not expected to trust in Swara's love all of a sudden , similarly Swara is not expected to realize the fact so soon that her husband finally started trusting in her feelings? she needs time , moreover , even if she trusts that Sanskar has realized her feelings then also Swara may think Sanskar is ignoring his past because he doesn't want to hurt swara's feelings , and Swara definitely doesn't want him to sacrifice anything to save his marriage with Swara ...as when Sanskar's family said their marriage was "forceful " one , Sanskar was silent ...
I think Sanskar should take decision about Kavita first , I am happy that he cared enough for Swara to meet her and ask her abour her feelings but now it's too late for asking Swara anything ..Swara actually has nothing to do in this case, She has already said that she would accept Sanskar's decision whatever it is..
I know Swara said "NO" because she is sacrificing her love for KAv-----------Kar reunion , but this time she is not wrong if we consider whatever happened with her in recent past and sanskar's silence in front of Kavita and Swara , Swara assumed that Sanskar would be happy with Kavita as she has only used him never gave him happiness , remember Sanskar's dialog that Swara gives him pain everyday and he just bears it silently ... so Swara is not wrong if she assumes that Kavita will be better partner for Sanskar ...
Now it's Sanskar's turn to make Swara realize that he wants Swara madly and will never be able to love anybody except Swara and Swara will fight for her love once she realizes Sanskar is craving for her actually 😳
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