swara..hack his thoughts. Dec24th - Page 2

Originally posted by: veronicca

You know what,when someone is angry with something,you should stop doing that thing,even if you think that you are doing the right thing.
I don't know whether I made any sense or not. 😕. 😆

So,when my hubby and me have a fight,even if I say something right,he won't just listen. At that time,I just keep quiet. Once he calms down,I tell him the same thing and he not only listens,but he gets convinced.

Swara needs to do the same thing.
For the time being,she should stop her mission crap.
It's not like,she is not Swara but Maa Durga,that only she can set everything right
Just let Sanskar fight for his family this time.
Swara can be his moral support,rather than being on James Bond mode all the time

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Sanskaar only wants Swara away from this mess.

He directly told her to stay away from the family mess today. His dialogue was, main apne parivaar ko Ragini ki chalakiyon (?) se bacha sakta hoon, jiski shuruaat main already kar bhi chuka hoon indirectly telling her to trust him enough to handle this mess & PLEASE stay away. Now the stay away msg is for to protect her or simply because he still can't let go of bygones is to be seen. Although the latter would be OOC for Sanskaar so I am hoping it's the former.

Ragini behaved violently today, like psychopathic. But she was again constantly holding Lakshya from falling down every single time & kinda teared up too when he expressed his hatred for her so IDK still 😆 RagYa sizzled today 😆 Who thinks Lakshya is going to eat his words in future when he said, tum duniya ki aakhri ladki bhi hogi tobhi tumhe uss nazar se nahi dekhunga? 😉😆

Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.

Sanskaar only wants Swara away from this mess.

He directly told her to stay away from the family mess today. His dialogue was, main apne parivaar ko Ragini ki chalakiyon (?) se bacha sakta hoon, jiski shuruaat main already kar bhi chuka hoon indirectly telling her to trust him enough to handle this mess & PLEASE stay away. Now the stay away msg is for to protect her or simply because he still can't let go of bygones is to be seen. Although the latter would be OOC for Sanskaar so I am hoping it's the former.

Ragini behaved violently today, like psychopathic. But she was again constantly holding Lakshya from falling down every single time & kinda teared up too when he expressed his hatred for her so IDK still 😆 RagYa sizzled today 😆 Who thinks Lakshya is going to eat his words in future when he said, tum duniya ki aakhri ladki bhi hogi tobhi tumhe uss nazar se nahi dekhunga? 😉😆

Originally posted by: aamias

Why is everybody angry at swara ?I dont understand bcoz she clearly told her mom that she will find aunty in this way sanskar may l also forgive him as she thought if she find the solution sanskar will take her back.

even before leaving MM she said for her every relation is important as it is connected to Sanskar

she is not doing this for Ragini or her own relatives ,she is doing this for her husband and family and if she concentrate on her life only there is no difference between Ragini and swara .

Moreover Sanskar knows that she is like this only. she also said before leaving that she will do everything for Sanskar and his family as it connected to Sanskar.

Moreover he knows Sanskar will run away before hearing him so she came directly to the point. She went to the most trusted person thats all.

Moreover she also want to see Sanskar😉.

I support swara's action now, (my first time)she knows well about her duties..sanskar wants her to always beg and plead kya? woh agar ye bole "I want you , mujhe apne se dur mat karo" toh he can't trust her..agar woh ye bole " I want your help for doing good for your family" then she is using him for mission..arrey swara kaha jaye ye toh socho? subah sham sirf husband ke piche bhaage aur woh usko jhaadke chala jaye ?

I am also sure Sanskar also knows that and he is just saying so that swara doesnot involve herself and take any risk. So, he is being rude. Actually there is no MU it is a reason which is made by Sanskar to keep her out of game as he knows that Swara could do anything.

Thanks for this. I am with you, swara kuch na kare to selfish aur kare to bhi problem. I know Sanskar acting like this but swara know if she find the reason behind the mess she can win her husband back.

Originally posted by: aamias

Why is everybody angry at swara ? I dont understand bcoz she clearly told her mom that she will find aunty in this way sanskar may l also forgive him as she thought if she find the solution sanskar will take her back.

even before leaving MM she said for her every relation is important as it is connected to Sanskar

she is not doing this for Ragini or her own relatives ,she is doing this for her husband and family and if she concentrate on her life only there is no difference between Ragini and swara .

Moreover Sanskar knows that she is like this only. she also said before leaving that she will do everything for Sanskar and his family as it connected to Sanskar.

Moreover he knows Sanskar will run away before hearing him so she came directly to the point. She went to the most trusted person thats all.

Moreover she also want to see Sanskar 😉.

I support swara's action now, (my first time)she knows well about her duties..sanskar wants her to always beg and plead kya? woh agar ye bole "I want you , mujhe apne se dur mat karo" toh he can't trust her..agar woh ye bole " I want your help for doing good for your family" then she is using him for mission..arrey swara kaha jaye ye toh socho? subah sham sirf husband ke piche bhaage aur woh usko jhaadke chala jaye ?

I am also sure Sanskar also knows that and he is just saying so that swara doesnot involve herself and take any risk. So, he is being rude. Actually there is no MU it is a reason which is made by Sanskar to keep her out of game as he knows that Swara could do anything.

Swara has one big positive thing - her good heart.

Originally posted by: aamias

Why is everybody angry at swara ? I dont understand bcoz she clearly told her mom that she will find aunty in this way sanskar may l also forgive him as she thought if she find the solution sanskar will take her back.

even before leaving MM she said for her every relation is important as it is connected to Sanskar

she is not doing this for Ragini or her own relatives ,she is doing this for her husband and family and if she concentrate on her life only there is no difference between Ragini and swara .

Moreover Sanskar knows that she is like this only. she also said before leaving that she will do everything for Sanskar and his family as it connected to Sanskar.

Moreover he knows Sanskar will run away before hearing him so she came directly to the point. She went to the most trusted person thats all.

Moreover she also want to see Sanskar 😉.

I support swara's action now, (my first time)she knows well about her duties..sanskar wants her to always beg and plead kya? woh agar ye bole "I want you , mujhe apne se dur mat karo" toh he can't trust her..agar woh ye bole " I want your help for doing good for your family" then she is using him for mission..arrey swara kaha jaye ye toh socho? subah sham sirf husband ke piche bhaage aur woh usko jhaadke chala jaye ?

I am also sure Sanskar also knows that and he is just saying so that swara doesnot involve herself and take any risk. So, he is being rude. Actually there is no MU it is a reason which is made by Sanskar to keep her out of game as he knows that Swara could do anything.

Originally posted by: foresight

Dear why would sanskar forgive her because she found the aunty? Does she expect the aunty who came there to help Ragini blackmail DP to actually help her clear her misunderstanding with sanskar? That would be the most Faulty logic in the world by Swara who is supposed to be good at logical thought at least once in a while if we are to believe her detective skills.

True every relation is imp to her because it is connected to sanskar. But what happens if the very relation that is the reason for her relation with these people doesn't exist? Not because of some trick by Ragini but because Swara isn't focusing on it or trying to prioritise it the way she should?

Does it make sense helping the family in a manner where you can causing more insecurities and pain for your husband? Is there no other way to do this first by addressing his concerns and then their problem?

Don't you think that sanskar would have loved it if she came to see him because she missed him rather than using the guise of the ghionghat aunty? What would have touched him more? Her asking for his help in finding that aunty or her saying I came there because I miss you.

Sanskar doesn't want her to beg. He just wants her to show that his concerns matter and he matters to her. He isn't asking for rooftop screaming declarations just plain and simple actions of focusing on him. No pleading. No begging. No saving the world at the cost of their relationship.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Thanks for this. I am with you, swara kuch na kare to selfish aur kare to bhi problem. I know Sanskar acting like this but swara know if she find the reason behind the mess she can win her husband back.

1) How does Swara not investigating ,make her selfish? 😕

Let me give a small personal example.
Sometimes back,we had a family emergency and needed a lump sum of money.
My mom,who is a home maker,offered my father that he should sell her jewelleries and get the money. But he refused,here. I must mention,it's not due to some ridiculous male ego or something. If my mom was a working woman,papa would have definitely took her help.
So,back topic. At that time,my mom didn't go and sell her jewelleries behind his back.
Does that make my mom selfish?
Sometimes you need to control yourself,there is nothing wrong in that.

Swara should understand the simple thing
When Sanskar has told her that he is going to handle this. She should stop her faltu ka detectivegiri,


2) How is Swara finding out Atariya aunty 's secret going to mend her relationship with Sanskar?
It's not that they got separated because Sanskar said that your sister has destroyed our family peace,so I am not going to live with you 😕
There is simply no connection between SwaSan relationship and the mess created by Ragini or Atariya aunty.

@pari completely agree. Sanskar has been telling her in his own way to TRUST him to handle this. She needs to at least give him an opportunity to prove he isn't a dumb idiot and that he too might actually have a much better sensible plan (as he has already prove once) vs the chilli. Paper changing ghionghat aunty. By going on her own missions she is not just adding to the concerns he raised which were that this missions come first before him, she is showing that she is the only one with plan and no one has any other ideas (I don't remember her asking anyone if there is something they were trying to work out there before independently working solitons without even realising if her solutions could cause more problem or make theirs ineffective. In real life that would be the worst thing to do)