The truth behind sanskar's words... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Vaiyambar...

U mirrored my thoughts dear.I really not feeling bad for her. She deserved this treatment. To over come tis BFF.
Feelings are feelings.

Originally posted by: Honeypot

Agree Swathy,

There is no denying that whatever he said was true ...even though it was hurting and harsh...

Swara very much needs this push otherwise she wont even consider her feelings...she has taken him for granted so many times...played with his guilt too many times...

So now it's payback time eventhough it hurts to see swara like this...broken..

And this girl has foot in mouth disease whenever she panics...yesterday's agar tum chahte ho...is an eg..similarity the way she talked to him after uttaras revelation...she just want to mend their relation but uttering all the things which further angers him...yesterday's scene was a surprise and I loved it..

He is deeply hurt along with her...and he knows he is hurting her esp it is clear if u rewatch that car scene...that's why he is not even looking at her...

I am not surprised the way he is reacting bcoz trust is/was an important part in their relation...she didn't think for a second how he will react if she is not trusting him...even when he told her he is deeply hurt by her behaviour she didn't let him complete his sentence was so immersed in her bond avatar...so she had it coming..,and I am happy finally she will realize the imp of the person who stood by her no matter what...

Originally posted by: Sree8410

Swathy, good analysis

I've been watching that scene since yesterday. There MU of her leaving could have been sorted there and then if she said I'm not leaving, its for charity. But she was leaving or atleast planning to. And for Sanskar, he was upset and angry might have hoped that he will have her to share his feelings. Finds her packing and bust out. We all say things which hurt the other person in anger.Thats what happened yest. He still loves her more than his life and he knows she will never accept his love or their marriage. That why when she tries to say she thought of their relation, he cuts her by saying for you this is not a relation so you have not thought anything about it. Its simple pain. He just showed her what he has gone through.

Swara has always expected him to understand her, which he does. One time when she had to show faith or trust she failed miserably. Sanskar doesn't expect love but he expected trust. Which for him was the basis of their relation. Now when she doesn't trust him, then for him there is no relation between them. And to add fuel to this already started fire he finds her packing and leaving without a bye. Anyone in his place would say all that what he said. I fully support all what he said. Don't get me wrong I do feel bad for Swara, but she herself is responsible for what she heard. One of the best quality of Sanskar is that he is not mahan and is one of the realistic character in the show. His this outburst was much needed. I wanted to see this scene for a very long time now.

We all know hurting her would hurt him more but "yesterday was the day" The day he showed he what he was going through. I'm glad that happened now her brains will start working. He didn't stay there and said I'll drop you back and left from there as he knew if he stayed any longer he would do something that will contradict what he just said.

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Thank you Swathy for this sensible post!

I watched the scene 10 times and I realised that the two confrontations - last one and today's one was related. Sanskaar purposefully characterised Swara as a stranger because he does not think Swara ever gave any importance to their 'friendship' relation. And this is not to say Swara is not hurt - it is just that she needed the reality check.

Everything Sanskaar said yesterday was to a friend who is a stranger to him. And from his pov his relationship with Swara and in which he made promises to help her were based on their friendship and trust. At this moment he feels if the basis of the friendship is lost and is a lie - then why would he believe now that when he helped Swara out of friendship - she was giving him a facade of a friendship. He feels cheated!

And his intention was to let Swara know how much he has done for her and she stills treats him as a katputli! She does. Infact she does that with everyone. She wants Laksh to unite with Ragini like they are her gudda gudiya - she wants Sanskaar not to love her because in her mind he has betrayed her - she did not want him to keep KC - thank god Sanskaar gave it back to her - when she wants she trusts him and when she wants she does not. That had broken the basis of their very relationship. If the basis of a very relationship is in doubt - every decision, every moment becomes a doubt. The man is himself in agony and in pain.

But nahin - we want ki woh soch samajh ke bole and chooses his words when he is angry. What utter BS. who has not said things which they dont mean in anger? I have and I know all of us have - because anger is such an emotion. He may have sounded unreasonable but Swara has taken him for granted always. And frankly if Swara had problem with anything he said - she would have butted in and contradicted it. But she is hurt because she realised how much Sanskaar did for her willingly and when it was her turn to trust him - how she failed.

I feel for Swara but it does not cloud my judgement that Sanskaar is a human and the most real character in the show. If everyone looks from his pov at that moment - they can probably understand the Sanskaar that they claim to love!

Originally posted by: Nynaeve

I so agree! Most of us seem to be so upset! But let us think - Sanskar never shied from admitting his feelings and though he never believed Swara would reciprocate, he did hope against hope. However, she never let him know her change in her feelings ( though we have been privy to the same) - so each passing day and each event only served to slowly break his heart -her suspecting him - which he took as a lack of trust was the final straw- he is so heart broken that he no longer carries any hope.
There is a story that longer after Pandora opened the box and let loose all bad and evil things, she wondered what HOPE was doing amongst those things. It was then she realised that at times hope is the the worst because it is capable of causing the biggest heartbreak. And the most unbearable pain- and that is where Sanskar is today - broken by Hope!

Still is he right in his words and deeds - No!

Justified- again a No!

But understandable - absolutely!

Originally posted by: archanap2000

u wrote my feelings... d mst fav dialouge of mine sterday was sansakar tld her dat agar is ghar mein wapas aana chahti ho toh ya toh mein ya hamare rishte ke khaatir... warna wapis aane ki zazurat nahi hain,... strday d only thing i luved was swasan scenes...😛

Originally posted by: kulsum_5

yes.. not feeling bad for her..😆

sanskaar's dialogue was awesome "mai tumse iss dard ke liye maafi nahi mangne wala, kyunki iss se 100 gunah zyada dard tum mujhe deti ho aur mai chup chap sahta hun.." 😭

so yesterday it was swara's turn..😳

But i m wondering why did sanskaar assume that she was leaving MM..? badi maa isn't well, and bade papa is helpless and sad.. So swara won't leave them in this critical situation..

at least not same day..😕

Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Now I am not feeling bad for her..

I wish, instead of packing things & obeying his decision,

Why can't she stop him or hug him and try to tell the truth..😳

I know, Swara won't do it.

Even yesterday, she said, "agar tum chahte hein to.."

She need a push in everything that relates to her.

Now I am happy again for SwaSan..

Eagerly waiting for tomorrow's episode..

I want more intense moments..