Lakshya's mistrust,a bigger crime than Sanskar's drugging?-DTNote pg27

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Tejaswini Wenham

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Posted: 9 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Sigh! If only perceptiveness was infectious.

😆 but seriously, kya humare desh ki justice standard itni low hogayi hain that people expect such crudity from strangers? when i visit with shakti should i breath a sigh of relief everytime one of Shiv's cousins don't try to physically or mentally harm me? 😕

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nissi or jesi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
krystal only for you I'm even commenting. lets start with the drug they were using- smack popularly known as heroine. one of the most devastating drugs known to mankind to date. maine nahi kaha serial wale doctor sahib ne kaha. (Reference https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eMD-zDnZ96A minute-10.30) if people actually understood the implication of dousing someone with heroine, over and over again (which apparently is less mentally scarring than laksh's verbal abuse 😆), leaving them in dangerous places, making them do 'weird' things that eventually lead them to misery- then we wouldnt need to have this argument in the first place. I maybe wrong but it seems to be that people in india lead a very guarded life- they never get exposed to things like roofies even let alone heroin- something the cvs took full advantage of. so they ill-understand the implications of giving someone drugs without their knowledge or force feeding it to them against their will. I'm under the assumption that ppl just think that as long as he doesnt rape her its kosher. soo...no point really trying to bring across the gravity of that crime.
i seemed to have read one argument which was somewhat trying to argue instead of complain about laksh but one thing they said that we expect more from those closest to us than those who are strangers- i 100% agree with that. but at the same time my expectations from a fellow human being are not that low that i would be ok with them shoving potentially life threatening chemicals down my throat without any form of provocation. and my expectations from someone I'm going to share a family name with is definitely not that low.

arrey who are supporting drugging nd dis is a fiction serial man in real world herion ur spelling is incorrect gives euphoria they feel like they are on the top of the world nd its most potent means more than the usual dose will kill you

see breaking bad season 3 to understand dis better

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441597

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Posted: 9 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: Rishabala693

How did ragini bully him into marrying?he took that impulsive decision of marrying her,she didn't tell him to marry her straight on his face plus lakshyji announces in front of the family and the love of his life that he will consummate his marriage with her . He only got swasan married for real.This is coming from an ex-swalak fan but i don't love a character blindly.If lakshya is wrong,he is wrong.I didn't support sanskar when he was negative and wanted to see how will he redeem himself and i think lakshya also has to redeem himself a lot before i can respect him again.

There's something called "indirect pressurizing". Not everything is done with a gun pointed at the head you know.

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MusicMyLife.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#84

what weird places Sanskaar left Swara after drugging?
dat wz family hotel..which wz revealed in first Blockbuster Mahaepisode where Sanskaar confessed.
go watch episodes first 😊

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nissi or jesi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: SwaSanFanGirl

Exactly Jessi. It's about how strong you are to own up to your mistakes. If Sanskaar wanted, even he would have played the victim card blaming his past and how he was blinded for revenge since he lost his love. But does he do that? No hedoesn't. He accepts his mistakes and repents and is still repenting.
Unlike Laksh, who keeps playing thevictim card to save himself. Personally, Idon't even find that manly.

no girl will find dat manly dat character lives in the future thinking only of his future nd his fans live in past evaluating his nd others mistakes arrey present mein jheyo yaar

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Posted: 9 years ago

#86

And further, another question mine with reference to Tejaswiniwenham's post:

Is drugging capable of being forgiven?

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nissi or jesi

@Jess_Ru

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Posted: 9 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

There's something called "indirect pressurizing". Not everything is done with a gun pointed at the head you know.

nd don't u know who is pointing gun at whom who is cutting wrist isn't dat gun pointing

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--Anna--

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Posted: 9 years ago

#88

Laksh is already forgiven just like Ragini and just like Sanskaar. Still, at the end of the day, Sanskaar and Ragini (even if fake) they have talked about making it upto Swara while Laksh has not. Laksh may have started regretting his actions and it may be genuine but he is still playing the victim card which is not right. Laksh as a character is impulsive and arrogant who clearly does not seem to know the difference between right and wrong.

What Sanskaar did to Swara was TERRIBLY wrong and no one is justifying that and no one ever will. But Sanskaar meant 'zilch' to Swara then. He meant Nothing to her. Swara still forgave him. It was upto Sanskaar to repent and he did - he did not have an obligation to but he did. He knew he did wrong in his own selfish motives at that time - and he supported Swara. He had no reason to at all - no one was holding gun to his head. He could have just gone ahead with his life. And in his repentance he fell in love with a woman who he knows he can never get and he has still not forced his love on her.

Even Ragini for that matter - she committed heinous crimes and she still is - Swara forgave her - and yet even though we all know that Ragini is playing a game - she still talks of repentance.

Laksh on the other hand is still playing the victim card. He married Ragini of his own free will. If he gave in to Ragini's suicide drama - his love was weak. Swara forgave Laksh too - but like Viji, pointed out, you are bound to expect a lot lot more from the people you love than people you are stranger too and Laksh meant that much to Swara that she is hurt beyond repair and that is why when he broke her trust - he hurt her the most. He may have been misguided - but TRUST is the most important in a relationship and Laksh did not trust Swara again and again and again. Swara bought out the truth, Sanskaar bought out the truth, but he trusted Ragini - his best friend. Even after Sanskaar gave proofs - he stood up for Ragini. He never bothered to dig deep into the matter till he himself landed in Swara's situation. He kept being manipulated by Ragini so easily. He even blamed Shomi when Ragini/Dadi manipulated the situation. In his hatred for Swara he forgot how Shomi as a person was? He was ready to give a statement against Swara's mom? How is that acceptable? If someone I loved did that to my mom, I would eat his eyes out.Is his love that weak that he could not see through Swara's tears and kept causing them?

My question is What HAS Laksh done to repent to receive a fair chance? Since he has gotten to know the truth - all he has done is to try and force Swara (who is his bhabhi whatever anyone might say) to accept him. And yes Sanskaar did drug Swara and try and spoil her image - but is not Laksh doing the same? Love is a very stupid reason to constantly blackmail the one you love. He does not realise that his actions could malign Swara's character in the family. What would people in an Indian society think of a girl who is married to a brother - and is 'supposedly' in love with his brother? That IS worse than being drugged and dancing crazy.

In the end, Ragini was only successful because Laksh kept believing in her. Had he once stopped for a moment and thought about Swara - he would have gotten his answer. His jealousy, his lack of trust, cannot be compared to what Sanskaar did. Both Sanskaar and Laksh HAVE been forgiven - Sanskaar has done his repentance and Laksh is still playing the victim card.

Also, do you think if today Swara says to Laksh that she loves Sanskaar - he is going to help her confess to him? Nope. He cannot think for his own self and he cannot think about anyone but himself. If he loves Swara should he not be happy that Swara is finally smiling after the days of torture he and ragini put together for her? But he is not. Because he wants to be the reason for it and not Sanskaar. Is he not being selfish? In his anger - he just does not see the truth. So yes, if someone I love distrusts me - I will never forgive them and I can say that because I have been in such a relationship.

Btw, for all those who constantly blame Sanskaar for falling in love with Swara - excuse me - Love can happen to anyone - anywhere and with anyone. When Sanskaar fell in love Swara - she was UNATTACHED and Laksh was married to Swara's sister Ragini. In Indian society any feelings Laksh had for Swara at that moment - is not acceptable. But Sanskaar having feelings for his wife - is acceptable. If Laksh can decide to get married to Ragini - Swara has a right to move on as much even if that is with Sanskaar.

What Sanskaar did wrong was for Love - and what Laksh did wrong was against love.

Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: Luv_Ishveer
Krystal, On a neutral way , I'm saying that I agree with u.
Sanskaar was wrong.. And tried his best to repent for his mistakes and in fact did it.
Lakshya, didn't trust her ok. But his method of repentance is wrong.
And as u say forgiveness. I believe that both Lakshya and Sanskaar have been forgiven by Swara.
And both are getting the same punishment as well.
Sanskaar knows that his love doesn't love him and all the times when Swara insulted his TRUE LOVE, wasn't that a punishment.
Same is for Lakshya, He has lost Swara and it's too late now.
When right now, both are getting punished in the same way, where does the debate come from??
And it's Swara's wish. She doesn't want to go back to Lakshya. That ends the debate here itself...

But Sanskar will eventually win and get his love, right? While Lakshya will be left alone and out in the cold.

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BB_CallmeC

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Posted: 9 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

There's something called "indirect pressurizing". Not everything is done with a gun pointed at the head you know.

@Bold: I don't know but I am not completely convinced with that. No body forced Laksh to take such a decision. Giving some benefit of doubt to him, he got scared for Ragini's life and he took up that decision. But even after that, his own father asked him to not to do that and think with a calm mind. Did he stop then? No he didn't. He decided to go ahead with the wedding in his anger, ego and frustration.

So again, it was his own decision to get married to Ragini and leave Swara.

Since we are talking here about legal matters, like how druging is a heinous crime in front of mistrusting. Even courts give chance to the criminals to share their side of the story and then give them their share of punishment.

In Swara's case, no one even heard her side of the story. Laksh just saw the video and decided that she was wrong and characterless. How is that right?

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