Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
^ Viji I want to write a full fledged reply but a lil busy with writing an assignment atm. Will reply everyone tomorrow :) & pls feel free to post your opinions as you feel, I will never hit a friend, bite them or cut ties like Swara 😆
Didn't you feel Swara was trying to convince herself more of love not happening between them than Sanskaar himself? IDK maybe I saw it in a completely different way or my rose tinted glasses were on but it seriously felt that she was literally trying to physically & emotionally run away from her own myraid of emotions. Like no this cannot happen again, I have a mission to focus on!
She probably broke all ties with him cos she maybe fears that if she doesn't do this she might be so gone, it would be impossible to come back again? She's seen how love can hurt & break someone, experienced it first hand from the younger brother of the guy who just professed his love for her. Maybe she thinks, both are afterall 'brothers' & this one might break her heart too?
She's seen how love hurts & probably wants to break Sanskaar's heart now itself when she's not too gone & can still learn to learn to live without him before he breaks her heart like his brother did. I might be the only one to interpret jer actions this way but that is just how it felt to me.
She won't realize when she fell for him & probably miss him a lot when he actually will respect & agree with her decision keeping away from her as much as possible. Swara will be too gone in love with him when she'll see how different he is from his 'brother' who broke her heart. She'll be deeply in love, more than Sanskaar with her ❤️
He he 😊 Well thanks for assuring you won't hit or bite or scoot. 😉
I have no doubt, given your eloquent description of the scene, if I now watch the repeat episode, I might catch myself thinking whether your interpretation (Of Swara actually striving to be snappy and rude to fight her own emotions) is the way it was meant to be portrayed. Maybe, who knows, you may well be right.
But as it stands, I am only able to comment on how this scene came across to me when I viewed it. You understand na, the way your gut reacts to a scene when you view it first? The way that first viewing spoke to me was this: I expected that Swara would be confrontational, irritated, even angry at Sanskaar. Like I said, I even expected her to ask him if he filled her maang for this reason only--coz he feels he loves her? I felt that this might be a mega showdown, with him going off the deep end because of this allegation--it was so clear he had done it only to protect her from being insulted.
Funnily enough, that point never came up, which might have been a more serious thing, had it happened. Instead, we had a situation where an otherwise thoughtful, mature personality says "This friendship is over, now only mission", just because her friend has confessed having feelings for her! There were literally like a half dozen other things she could have said, even without trying to let him down gently. Why this?
I came across another thread by someone else, rightly asking, what is Sanskaar's mission here, after all, if Swara snaps off the friendship with him? It is her mission, and he is supporting her wholeheartedly isn't he? So she now says, I am katti with you baba, you & me no more friends. But you must stand by me for the mission? Seemed completely surreal to me, and for a moment, Swara did not seem so mature anymore.
She needs this friendship. Which is why, it was so puzzling that she said "This friendship is over". Why re? Friends having unrequited feelings is not all that uncommon. It happens a lot of the time. Most people find a way to deal with it, and happily, many friendships survive the strain. Some become a couple, many don't, but if people just started giving up on friendships when this happens...well...that's a rather immature reaction and I sure didn't expect the makers to give Swara that dialogue.
Again, just my POV. Don't kill me 😊 I've already got a few angry responses on my thread asking me to give Swara some space !!
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