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This is my official intro in this forum but I know what all does happen in the forum as I've been lingering around for last couple of days...
I'm in awe with both Meghnal and Nairan, no doubt they're both special in their own way and truly seem like are made for each other. While I appreciate the makers for bringing out so many sensitive issues in a single show, I do have my own share of doubts.
I'll start with dadaji, he says he can recognise the real traits of a person and he also views a situation from all possible ways but how come he din't recognise Sandhya!! While we got to see many times that he isn't her admirer like rest of the family but then it seems he trusts her too otherwise she wouldn't hold that position in Chauhan family she does now.
I haven't seen a character in this PH upto now which isn't redeemable but everything has a start, Sandhya's character is the one which can never be redeemed or even if she realises she can't or shouldn't be forgiven as I think she's the reason for all the bitterness in the family and this includes NK. I don't think NK was the same person who he's right now. There's shown a small bit of flashback, Karan's naming ceremony where I saw a happy family and a happy NK who named his son as Karan on his wife's suggestion. There's such a change in him that now he can't even bear her smile. A person can't have such 180 deg change in him unless there's someone constantly provoking him. I think I can forgive NK as he's a victim of Sandhya as much as the rest of the family. He lost the ability to recognise the gems he has as a family.
Nirmala, I ain't able to understand how did she leave her ill son to a care-taker (Sandy), if I were in her situation I wouldn't and if it was being hard to manage everything together then still I would choose my ill-child over all other responsibilities and in fact over my healthy child too who can be taken care of by a care-taker. No one can ever take care of a child like his own mom and I think a mom's love is the best cure for an ill child, at least psychologically.
Karan, I think its his bad luck that he isn't named as per his maasi maa's choice, if only he was named Kabir then he wouldn't have to have such a horrible life and he wouldn't have become her target, it could have been someone else. He's such a good person, I absolutely have no right words for him. He has no anger on anyone, all he has is only love and care for everyone, I feel worse thinking about the day he would know the reality of Sandhya.
I don't know how its in someone else's house but at mine we'll (my family) do care for each other so much that we know everything about each other. I'm astounded that no one in the whole family actually knows about Karan's illness. Hell with maasi maa, I would've personally taken care of Karan if it were my family member. I doubt Kunal, dadaji, Kyathi thinks Karan is a high level of introvert and thinks of his illness as a mere allergic reactions which many suffer from different things. NK too doesn't know anything more than his misconception that his son is a big time loser. Guys here out in real life, if you aren't caring enough towards your family please do start doing your own part as family is irreplaceable.
