Karan: 'Shaadi Sabke Liye Nahi Hoti Ma'

Finally somebody in the family thought it fit to speak to Karan about his marriage. Matlab, abhi tak to aise lag raha tha ki vo ghar ka beta hai hi nahi aur uss bechare ko bachpan mein mandir ki seediyon se utha ke laye hain! 🤣

I had hopes from Nirmala on this and she did not disappoint in as much as she wanted to speak to Karan about what had happened. She realized that all was not well between NaiRan (Surprise, surpeise 😆) and hence sought to ease the situation a bit. It was a touching scene where told him to embrace both the good and the bad of any person in order to make a relationship work. She was also right on target about his experiences with Naina being pleasant as well as unpleasant. She also sought to drive home a point that they were now married and this fact was not changing at least for the foreseeable future.

Karan was listening all so patiently until the time she mentioned marriage. His fingers tightened noticeably at that. Then comes the most loaded statement of the entire episode. Very quietly he says " Shaadi sabke liye nahi hoti, Ma". One statement, layers and layers of meaning. He says his marriage was forced and whatever she said does not apply to it. But apart from that, this statement also shows that somewhere, he refers to his condition as something making him unfit for marriage. That he will never be able to maintain a relationship such as marriage because if his own issues and insecurities. Aww Karan! 🥺

I was looking forward to more of this conversation but then NK came and ruined everything. NK needs to stop pretending that he took this decision for anything other than his ego. Nobody is buying it dude, especially not Karan. 😆

Elsewhere, I love how Sharda noticed that something was off with Naina. Such a beautiful mother daughter thing! And the precap, bechari Naina. She hopes every time, Karan dashes them every time. You would think she would learn her lesson by now! 😆

Awww...sounds awesome Sona. I can't wait to watch it.

Originally posted by: -Namita-

Awww...sounds awesome Sona. I can't wait to watch it.

Nicely written sona dear👏🤗loved the whole episode we wanted nirmala and Karen conversation and we got it😉dialogue well executed by the cv👏you see a deeper bond between mother and son even if he won't let her touch him😆and nirmala is a good mother she has seen through the hidden facts of nairan marriage 😆but what she does not know is naina is the only person that her son speaks candidly and openly😛i loved everything she said to him and I know that is the clinch that sent him to boondi and he might be in denial of his marriage filled With bitterness and determined to tell his marriage truth to naina's family but when he goes to boondi it just might be the situation there that might make him finally accept that he is married to naina for better or worse😆and as for nirmala only truth is that only naina can bridge that gap existed between mother and son and deep inside she just might know that naina is the only person who just might bring more closer to her favourite son😆 hey sorry for the long post dear just loved the episode and couldn't resist it😉

That Karan-Nirmala scene was a pleasant surprise! I actually didn't even expect to see Karan today what with the whole drama going on in Boondhi 😆 And for a moment, I thought Dadu is there waiting for him and was like, "Oh, please, no!" 🤣

Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

Nicely written sona dear👏🤗loved the whole episode we wanted nirmala and Karen conversation and we got it😉dialogue well executed by the cv👏you see a deeper bond between mother and son even if he won't let her touch him😆and nirmala is a good mother she has seen through the hidden facts of nairan marriage 😆but what she does not know is naina is the only person that her son speaks candidly and openly😛i loved everything she said to him and I know that is the clinch that sent him to boondi and he might be in denial of his marriage filled With bitterness and determined to tell his marriage truth to naina's family but when he goes to boondi it just might be the situation there that might make him finally accept that he is married to naina for better or worse😆and as for nirmala only truth is that only naina can bridge that gap existed between mother and son and deep inside she just might know that naina is the only person who just might bring more closer to her favourite son😆 hey sorry for the long post dear just loved the episode and couldn't resist it😉

Originally posted by: .bintAli.

That Karan-Nirmala scene was a pleasant surprise! I actually didn't even expect to see Karan today what with the whole drama going on in Boondhi 😆 And for a moment, I thought Dadu is there waiting for him and was like, "Oh, please, no!" 🤣

I liked how careful Nirmala was throughout the whole conversation, and how she closely observed Karan's reactions to her words. She might not always know how to deal with him, but she tries and she knows how he is, how he thinks. I think that's why Nirmala was mainly focused on trying to explain to him how relationships can be beautiful once we accept our partner with their good traits and their flaws (taking that as another cue for Naina not being perfect!) - she is very well aware that this marriage depends on Karan's acceptance. Similarly, she knows that her son is sensitive and probably, more than anything else, scared of being hurt. Hence, why explaining that no one is perfect, our partner can make us happy but also hurt us - the art is in accepting everything ❤️

Although, I was waiting for Karan to point out how despite Nirmala accepting NK's flaws, she's very unhappy 🤣 But I guess he's too cautious to hurt his mom like that 😆 On that note, I would have liked it better hadn't Nirmala said that Karan has to accept this marriage but more like asked him to try and give it a chance. If we are forced to do things, we either don't do them or don't them them sincerely. If we are given an option, we will at least try to - and that's what has been lacking ever since the NaiRan marriage had been fixed: giving Karan an option.

His quiet, "Shaadi sab ke liye nahi hoti" 🥺 We have pointed it out many a times that Karan's problem is not Naina, per se, and he surely does not enjoy hurting her or anything. But the marriage is the problem here. Marriage is difficult enough for everyone, but someone like Karan? The struggle must be immense. Plus, he honestly believes that he is doing Naina a favor by letting her go.

Bloody NK and his wrong timing! 😆 Don't tell me that this is the trigger that will make Karan go to Bhoondi! 🤣 And was he really there to let the family know he doesn't share any relation with Naina? I mean, Sharda's not dense, she probably can guess that these two have major problems, anyone could guess it! Kya pata, initially, his plan was something else... Naina ke samne kuch aur bol diya 🤣 And Khyati, his body guard 🤣

Sharda knows her daughters well enough. Had Meghna found out that Badi Mami tried to throw her out, she would have brought a storm down on that house! And Naina ka toh she immediately felt that something was off. Btw, I simply love Vishal 😊

Originally posted by: .Sona.

I agree! When Nirmala started giving her example I was like how is this a credible way to make Karan believe in marriage! 😆 I think that whatever she said to Karan, he needed to hear it. About his choice thing, I guess Nirmala is taking the marriage as a done deal, which it is. I mean it has happened and according to Nirmala, there is no point in anything other than trying to make it work, something she has been doing herself I guess. She would hardly say to Karan ki beta give it a chance if you want. She might feel that would be unfair to Naina. But the irony is that the situation is unfair to Karan as well.

When he said that shaadi line I just felt for him so much!! NK toh bas useless hai. But I think something else is going to make him go, something because of which he decides to tell Naina's family the truth. On that note, I agreem, its strange why he would go all the way to tell this. Maybe so that they can keep Naina there? 🤣 Bodyguard 🤣

Vishal is love!!! Since Karan is taken by Naina, do you think we can have Vishal? 😉 🤣

Originally posted by: .bintAli.

Maybe it's just my outlook on things 😆 I mean, yes, shadi is done but especially with forced or compromised marriages, the best outcome one can hope for is that the affected parties try to make it work - which relationships, be it marriage or not, don't always do. Worst is staying in a marriage just for the sake of it or because you are forced to; no one would be happy. Breaking the marriage or staying in it, it'd be unfair to one of them, either way. Complicated! I am probably just thinking too much about it; I did like the rest of what she said although, her marriage really isn't the example to give! 😆

Although, I think before Karan starts to accept Naina as she is, the boy has to go one step back- accept the fact that she's here to stay 🤣

I, too, think that there is more to him going to Bhoondi 😉 Itni si baat ke liye kya jaana 😆 As for Vishal hm... we can keep him 😛 Although, am sure, Naina won't mind sharing Karan with us - hum bhi toh uss ke saath share kar rahe hain! 🤣

hey Karen just might be missing is wife dear and their fights and then cornered by her🤣that's must be why he is taking a bodyguard khyti 🤣

Originally posted by: .bintAli.

Maybe it's just my outlook on things 😆 I mean, yes, shadi is done but especially with forced or compromised marriages, the best outcome one can hope for is that the affected parties try to make it work - which relationships, be it marriage or not, don't always do. Worst is staying in a marriage just for the sake of it or because you are forced to; no one would be happy. Breaking the marriage or staying in it, it'd be unfair to one of them, either way. Complicated! I am probably just thinking too much about it; I did like the rest of what she said although, her marriage really isn't the example to give! 😆

Although, I think before Karan starts to accept Naina as she is, the boy has to go one step back- accept the fact that she's here to stay 🤣

I, too, think that there is more to him going to Bhoondi 😉 Itni si baat ke liye kya jaana 😆 As for Vishal hm... we can keep him 😛 Although, am sure, Naina won't mind sharing Karan with us - hum bhi toh uss ke saath share kar rahe hain! 🤣