d gr8 debate

max of us SGians r eithr school or colg ppl or office guys..i guess so we r unable 2 b as much active as we wd hv othrwise liked 2 b..due 2 xams n assignments..also our head count is way lesser than othr forums..i know we cnt rock like madhubala forum..peehu n i r envious cin othr forums buzzin da n nite 24*7..so peehu tryd her best 2 light up satda night..drawin us al 2 an open discussion..thr were so many diverse views..it ws like learning a new chap..like Shalmaz ptd y sd ppl b braketd as eithr gud or bad?y nt a mix of both like in real life..like aadi said suvi gvin 2 much imp 2 career n les time 2 yuvi..like shivinrocks ptd that alisha neds maddy 2 teach her a lesson..i agree alisha neds a ringmaster like maddy 2 tame her..

Peehu highlightd y alisha deservd yuvi..2 an extent i sympathize wit alisha..4 she didn knew wat ws brewin b/w yuvreen..wen she askd annie evn she told that yuvreen r just frnds..wen alisha askd suvi b4 her birthda wat she thinks of yuvi..she said nice guy gud frnd..means alisha so far ws clueles..it cam as a shocker 2 her that on d da wen she ws abt 2 propose 2 yuvi yuvreen confesion hapend..i realy hated d way yuvi used her 2 gain suvi bak..we r humans we sd understand that 4 watevr big/smal personal gains, we sd nevr fake pretend shower false praises n attention on sum1 n manipulate or pawn othrs..if we do then eithr we r too immature hvin limited foresight or realy self centred who cnt c byond own neds..in this case i wd say yuvi hd bin xtremely immature..a fact that kiran keps reminding me time n again n i hv no words 2 defend yuvi..

still alisha too sd hv kept in mind that yuvi used her nt suvi..suvi ws as much unaware of yuvis plan as herself..suvi cnt b made 2 pay 4 yuvis xtreme immaturitys..just bcoz sum 1 wrongs u cnt mean nw u 2 start wrongin sum1 else relatd 2 that person..its irrational n unacceptable..so alishas hatred jealousy 2wards suvi is unwarrantd here..so tho i fel bad 4 alisha as she ws just love hungry due 2 her unkind demanding threathning mom yet d way she is seekin revenge 4m innocent suvi bcumin a bf stealer bak stabber hypocrite meks me fel she dnt deserve any1 as bf (yuvi to durr ki baat)..unles ofcouse she reforms..also i bliv alisha neds sum1 like rc 2 mek her learn hw 2 conduct self evn aftr a heart break..rc too cd hv bcum like her instead he calmd yuvi gv him d correct advice abt wat 2 tel suvis mom..hw just 2 reassure her nt mek tall promises..if rc wantd he cd hv remaind detachd or evn mislead yuvi..bt he knew hw imp it ws 4 suvi n her hapynes so he guided yuvi d best possible way..this is d contrast b/w bad n gud upbringing.

Upbringing def plays an imp role but I feel if u have someone to look up to it helps you deal with dificult situations. ALISHA is too lonely for too long, she came out of her shell, try to accept suvi and her friends genuinely, and what happens at her birthday party was too harsh...everyone leaves her, there she is standing alone heart broken..poor Alisha. No one to share her pain or talk to her one on one

Originally posted by: shivinrocks

i agree wd ur points too sm xtent...bt y u all kp on sayng yuvi immatured...i mean cm on...evr1 cnt behve so matured all d tym...we becm naive at sm points...m 23 n stl smtyms behve lyk a 5 yr old kid...dts so common...n yuvi usng alisha 2 mk suvi jealous ws gud 4m his pov wch we thot ws wrng..bt here cums d maturity level..y cnt u say alsiha 2 behave maturedly..kisi na kisi ko to matured hna hai to alisha kyn nahi..y shez nt able 2 acpt yuvreen relatnshps...luv cnt b stolen or tkn away..as a hud frnd she cud hv tkn dt jealosy track a sa prank played by yuvi on her 2 imprees hs gf...waise bhi yuvi stl cares 4 alisha..itna ki suvi ki baat ko bhi sideline kr deta hai...i kp on sayng no1 is perfct nt evn rc..he too hs sum flaws...wen ira shouts @ suvi unnecesry y does he shts hs mth cnt he defend hs studnt dirctly...

i am grpbie so i wd b stopd 4m postin sooner or later..so i may nt b able 2 rep timely
i hv no expectations 4m alisha..am nt evn interestd in her..my only concern is abt yuvreen n thr life coz i can wish those 2 learn 4m thr mistakes n mature whom i care n love..d best thing abt sg is that yuvreen r nt chars who r alwaz wrongd n nevr evr d wrongdoer evn unintentionaly like most shows depict..so i can relate wit it..y i am telin yuvi immature d ans is suvi is younger 2 yuvi yet realizes more than yuvi that she ned nt babysit her love or eye lock 24hrs go 4 fancy dinners rathr 2 lead a gud aftr marriage life one neds to focus on career n shape d future 2..love cnt feed d hungry tumy alone..evn 2 kep our loved ones hapy ..2 take care of thr daily needs we ned 2 establish ourselves so if suvi is tryin 2 focus on job yuvi neds 2 gv her that space evn more as if ur partner dnt understand rathr doubts then nothing can b more pinchin..besides yuvi hs suvi he can n sd learn 4m her whras alisha is a gone case already hw can i xpect her 2 reform?

I guess it will take time for both Yuvreen to mature fully... its the CVs fault the way they are shaping up their characters... no one is perfect it takes time to learn from mistakes... plus the new track is the love triangle track so they have to show Yuvi jealous coz of Maddy and Suvi... If both Yuvreen gave each other time and understood one another fully there would be no story.. CVs wana show other things thats why... although I want happy Yuvreen scenes and no fights

if any1 out thr hd bin offended by any of my posts am awfuly sory..i nevr use this platform 2 bash or compare any1..i love sg..cnt discus it wit parents they wd fel am silly..u guys c so i thot i wd pour my heart 2 u..u al wd understand ..n yes i c sg only ..so i guess my natural tendency hd bin 2 c my hero yuvi bcumin betr n betr n winning d hearts of many more like me..thats y i do gt upset wit yuvi at times.. simply hoping against hope that 1da he wd stop hurtin suvi n live hapily evr aftr..no more MUs..that he wd love n honour her..protect n treasure her..nothing else

Well, I agree with all that you said. Even I've tortured my head many times with this discussion of Alisha's evil plans and the way Yuvraj is portrayed to believe her blindly..but Now I've come to a conclusion that in order to show the characters rising in their respective fields, they need to face such people and situations. Yuvraj, is shown to be naive only because he has never come across such people, then how would he all of a sudden realise about Alisha's intentions. Even if Alisha is exposed someday, then her track would end on realising the follies she committed and then the upbringing and all would come to play. Personally, I want her to learn the most imp lesson of her life. Warna the negativity would keep on growing inside her and the viewers too who relate to Alisha (if any), would never learn how to leave the evil path and come on the right one.