Break Ups..Cruel Reality? Or I dont care?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Break Ups
Hey SGians...!!
First of all guys this is a little out of topic..I mean it may not relate to the shw but it surely does relate to the current theme of the show.
Yesterday when I was watching the Annie-Zoro-Naro conversation..I was wondering that how our show itself has portrayed so many break ups ever since the start. We talk about SG being a youth show..then are break ups something that we see everyday around us? I mean has it become so easy to break relationships today? Or has it become a trend..??
I agree break ups are not something people want..it is one such thing that people want to run away from..it is something that people want to protect themselves from...but on the contrary love is something everyone wants to be in...
I dont say that break ups are wrong..I mean if it is a case like that of Naro-Guggoi then it is certainly necessary...it was clear from the very start that Guggoi did not deserve her and probably they were not meant to be together...Thus, in this case the only solution is to part ways...and also not to forget that this parting ways may not be perceived by both in the same way...it may lead to revenge and this is something we as youth may not even be aware of...
I would like to share a small experience. In my class suddenly a couple were formed...They went around holding hands together..we all considered them to be a couple...later we had our holidays and then we realize that after holidays the entire equation has changed?? 😕 I mean is it so easy to fall in love or should I ask Is it so easy to get in a relationship and also move out of it?
Now, lets consider the example in the show itself. Annie-Raathie...got into relationship in no time..I mean agreed they did have feelings for each other but then it seemed as if they were in a hurry to just change their relationship status..and they did it...but wat did it end up as?? Dont u think they had to take some time and slow down the pace in which they were dealing with this relationship?? Dont u think they had not given a thought about each other at all??
Same is the case with Suvi...I mean she was just told she loves Yuvi...Yes surely does and she started to expect him to kiss her...tat to happened then came the proposal and then the heartbreak...I mean where was the time for them to even think about each other...No doubt they love each other but then I believe relationships are not a child's play...In that case I feel that Yuvi was right to take some time think..however it is another thing that he is too slow to realize his feelings and probably is also not able to judge his own feelings for Suvi.
Well I dont know if this post even made sense but the I wanted to discuss this because I feel it is something that has become common..and wanted to figure out wat exactly is this break up..and wat leads to it...
Please pardon me if u dont think this made any sense..and if it did make then please let me know ur take on Break-ups...is it a trend?? Wat has lead to the increased break ups??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ok..nice post mani...i would like to post about Yuvreen's case here..since i love them a lot..and don't even know agar CV's ki dimag ghoom gaya..toh kitne din bacche hain hamare liye Yuvreen bolne ke liye...😆

I think mani they both r taking their time...yes we r considering yuvi as gadha and stuff..becoz he is realizing the feelings after suvi had the heartbreak...but u know..suvi also took her time..she started feeling something for him during the roadtrip itself..and after the roadtrip ended...she had actually fallen for her...and the same thing happened with suvi too...she also tried to avoid the thing but couldn't as she got constant help/love gyaan from annie and naro...So she took her time along with her friend's assistance...in spite of everything clearly in front of her..

Now yuvi..well he was first feeling guilty of what he did...and broke suvi's heart..and now he actually is also on the same page where he feels something for her but the big difference is..now he feels everything through jealousy..and the biggest problem is...he doesn't share it with anyone unlike suvi plus waise bhi he has one of the greatest friends Rathi..u might fill in crap in his mind..nothing else...and has no one to assist him unlike Suvi..that is why i was somewhat happy when Naro realized that yuvi loves suvi...coz she is one intelligent person in these cases.

So i don't think they both had any such hurry to change their relationship status on fb and make it official..and waise bhi love and relationships happen..when u love someone..not by changing your relationship status...unlike Annie and Rathi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well said bhai...!!! Tats wat even whn annie was like without kiss there is no love and all..I was like wat the hell?? I mean does a kiss mean everything??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post, but when i was reading the post i wrote yesterday again, i thought luv is just a mind game, nothing to do with heart (heart just pump the blood) If u start looking at positive things of a person,u start luving him/her, but when u visualise negative aspect, u start detaching from that person... priority matters.. if we give priority to good things, we maintain good relation, if we give priority to bad things,,, luv vanishes
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kim.rayat

nice post, but when i was reading the post i wrote yesterday again, i thought luv is just a mind game, nothing to do with heart (heart just pump the blood) If u start looking at positive things of a person,u start luving him/her, but when u visualise negative aspect, u start detaching from that person... priority matters.. if we give priority to good things, we maintain good relation, if we give priority to bad things,,, luv vanishes



good thought kim di..!!! 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes Mani..kiss ya fir fb status is not important...tumko apne partner ko pyaar karna ya dikhana hain...poore world mein usko publicize nahi karna...so these are just things u might do later on in a relationship when both r settled peacefully in the relationship...

Waise @kimi di and mani --tell me..now RC falling for suvi par mujhe ab bhi doubt hain...ye Suvi bhi RC se pyaar karne lag gayi..ye toh mujhe pata hi nahi chala 😛 In fact ye baat toh hum mein se kissi ko bhi nahi pata chala...if u want to know what m talking about...go to ReSu or Yuvreen topic and check 'sunshine' naam ke user ka comment 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akshayR

Yes Mani..kiss ya fir fb status is not important...tumko apne partner ko pyaar karna ya dikhana hain...poore world mein usko publicize nahi karna...so these are just things u might do later on in a relationship when both r settled peacefully in the relationship...


Waise @kimi di and mani --tell me..now RC falling for suvi par mujhe ab bhi doubt hain...ye Suvi bhi RC se pyaar karne lag gayi..ye toh mujhe pata hi nahi chala 😛 In fact ye baat toh hum mein se kissi ko bhi nahi pata chala...if u want to know what m talking about...go to ReSu or Yuvreen topic and check 'sunshine' naam ke user ka comment 😃


Bhai don't worry its her POV, but the thing is SG is coz of yuvreen,, if yuvreen were not meant to be togather toh yuvi kathgodam sirf pappa g se panga lene gya tha????
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akshayR

Yes Mani..kiss ya fir fb status is not important...tumko apne partner ko pyaar karna ya dikhana hain...poore world mein usko publicize nahi karna...so these are just things u might do later on in a relationship when both r settled peacefully in the relationship...


Waise @kimi di and mani --tell me..now RC falling for suvi par mujhe ab bhi doubt hain...ye Suvi bhi RC se pyaar karne lag gayi..ye toh mujhe pata hi nahi chala 😛 In fact ye baat toh hum mein se kissi ko bhi nahi pata chala...if u want to know what m talking about...go to ReSu or Yuvreen topic and check 'sunshine' naam ke user ka comment 😃



ya bro i too read tat..I too was like wat is tat now?? I mean they have never shown in the show tat Suvi is falling for RC...she was just wondering about the various faces of RC and nothing...I dont know now wat i slove...if tat is love?? 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kim.rayat


Bhai don't worry its her POV, but the thing is SG is coz of yuvreen,, if yuvreen were not meant to be togather toh yuvi kathgodam sirf pappa g se panga lene gya tha????


Ok..mani..sorry..now m gonna destroy this post with diverting it...toh pehle se hi sorry..😆

Yaar didi..pata hai..mujhe toh aisa lag raha hain ki Mohit Malik ke saare fans ghus aaye hain SG forum par...and iske vajah se mujhe ab doubt ho raha hain..u were asking me na..ki yuvreen together in 2 weeks???..Well..i don't feel its not gonna be in even 2 months now..coz kuch hoga hi nahi...ye somehow RC-Suvi ka pair bana denge mujhe toh ab aisa hi lag raha hain..and ye Yuvi bas rota hi reh jayega aur kuch nahi love realize karke..😭 Par itni seriousness...main toh seh nahi paunga...please yaar RC..platonic relation only..we also don't want your heart to be broken...😔 But first priority toh Yuvreen hi hain...

And di..sorry..i haven't seen earlier episodes of SG..maine May mein dekhna start kiya tha..toh bataogi ye yuvi to kathgodaam wali story ???
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manish_Shetty



ya bro i too read tat..I too was like wat is tat now?? I mean they have never shown in the show tat Suvi is falling for RC...she was just wondering about the various faces of RC and nothing...I dont know now wat i slove...if tat is love?? 😛

yaar if she calls that as love...well ab tak toh Yuvreen ki shaadi aur 1-2 bacche bhi ho gaye hote...and mere maturity level ke post ka ghanta fayda hua! 😆 Ye bhi apni ratt maarke baithe hue hain 😆..Aur hum bhi 😉

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