Originally posted by: akshayR
Well...i wud say that its not necessary to lose something to get it..or realize something..that is frankly my opinion...yuvraj has always been her helping hand..in all her troubles..even in this case too..although its unknown to suvi..that he supports her...but he is still behind her..and satisfying her pakka promise that he made to her...No one would give a damn (even a friend! ) if u r taunted so badly for small things like suvi did...its just that..he doesn't realize his love..and that can happen...more wid a guy..just because boys r like that..they don't show much..but they r very much caring from inside (atleast for gud guys! 😊)
i agree with you but i feel some reason have a feeling the Suvi-RC relationship will contain the kashish of mohabbat that is missing in the Yuvreen story-that is purely my opinion.the feeling has gotten stronger after the entry of RC.
secondly i feel love is not a game ki aaj with 1 guy and next day with someone else..yes RC might be mature..but just because yuvi told/considers her as her friend in front of everyone..doesn't mean he doesn't love her..and that sorry he said to suvi..also had reasons...he would have had no problems accepting her..i AREE LOVE IS NO GAME BUT MAY BE SUVI WAS JUST INFATUATED WITH YUVRAJ AND NEVER LOVED HIM WITH RC SHE MAY EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING OF LOVE.i DONT KNOW.MAY BE THINGS WITH YUVRAJ WILL CHANGE AS WELL..if Rathi hadn't stuffed his mind with crap..and he being an inexperienced guy in love..thought that was right..but in that rejection also..he feared he will lose suvi..when they go into a relationship..and breakup...and their friendship would also get ruined then..So all he did was not to lose suvi..Also things just happened so quick and fast with him..that a newbie like him in love couldn't get what struck him suddenly..I THINK YUVRAJ SHOULD HAVE USED HIS DISCRETION TO DECIDE WHAT HE FEELS FOR SUVI.BUT THEN BOYS AT THAT AGE ARE IMMATURE AND IMPULSIVE.THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THE DEPTHS OF EMOTIONS THEY FEEL.BUT SUVREEN IS MAY MORE MATURE THAN HER AGE.SO SHE MAY WAIT FOR YUVRAJ BUT BY THE TIME HE COMES SHE MAY REALISE WHAT SHE FEELS FOR HIM IS NOT LOVE ANYMORE THOUGH SHE CARES ALOT FOR HIM.
And what i feel is that..u don't need to be a "man" for getting loved..or for loving someone (sorry but totally disagree with this thing..)...its just heart, care and love that u need..for loving someone...and if was infatuation dear..then suvi would have let annie rip apart yuvi for not accepting her..but she did not and gave a rock-solid reason behind it..and wouldn't have cried that badly like it was shown...that i feel doesn't happen in infatuation..I FEEL IF YOU REALLY WANT SOMETHING, YOU WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET IT.IF SHE DIDNT THAT MEANS SHE DIDNT ACTUALLY WANT IT THAT MUCH.SHE MAY BE IN DENIAL.ALSO THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME SHE GOT FRIENDLY WITH A GUY AND FELT SOMETHING LIKE THIS IN LIFE SO SHE MAY REALISE WHAT SHE FEELS FOR RC IS LOVE AND NOT WHAT SHE HAD FELT FOR YUVRAJ.
About maturity..well i have no doubt on yuvi being mature..he has been shown to handle things far better than an adult many a times...and that was real mature..like in roadtrip..and events after that..and even now..that doesn't mean..that now suvi goes to a mature person for searching love then just because yuvi doesn't know much about love..and then again come back to him if some problem occurs..and keeps switching from yuvi to RC and vice-versa...u know every person new to love or anything..has to start up from somewhere...he can't just be right every time and everywhere naa..😊😊NO DOUBT YUVRAJ IS MATURE AND SENSIBLE AND HAS ALWAYS CARED FOR SUVREEN BUT HE IS ALSO SOMEONE WHO BROKE SUVREENS HEART.SINCE THIS IS A SHOW SHE MAY TAKE HIM BACK BUT IN REAL LIFE THINK OF HOW MANY US READILY TAKE BACK A MAN WHO HAS BACKEDOUT SAYING SORRY WHEN IT WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE.SUVREEN IS SOMEONE WHOSE MIND WORKS VERY FAST.SHE MAY ACCEPT YURAJ IN HER LIFE BUT ONCE A PHASE PASSES FOR HER HE WILL NO LONGER BE MORE THAN A FRIEND.