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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

Disclaimer: Plz note that this is a long post and probably u gives will even be bored...u may even find this weird for me to make a post of this sort in this forum...but plz..if possible read it...😊
Suvi u were a Topper...u are a topper and u shall always remain one...

Seriously after that wonderful answer I am proud that I am ur follower...
Guys dont u think it is weird hw we one shw can bring all of us together and keep us connected...??

Sorry may be I am sounding too philosophical...but then this is a true fact...before i did not know Akshay, Mia, Shaz, Kim...or anyone for that matter...but it is only due to SG tat today am knowing them...we have never met but then i still feel free to share my sorrows and happiness with them..

The first thing i do after returning from college nowadays is to come online of IF and not on FB...all this is possible only due to Suvreen Guggal...

This forum has given me a lot...it relives me from tension...when I am angry on my friends in college it make me feel that I am not left alone..I have some one here too...

It has become a very important part of my life...and hope it is the same with u guys too...😊

Once again coming to the same old ambition and dream...I discussed with my mom abt it...and she said me that okay lets see abt it later but now u need to focus on studies..and i promised her that I ll get really good marks in all my exams and make her proud...but please dont ask me to let go my dream..i explained it to her...and today she was like she could not sleep last nite..and I am like why?
And her reply is that i was thinking abt my children (me and my sis)..so my sis is like wat happened..? and her reply was that she is worried abt my decision to become an actor...But does that mean I am troubling my mom and dad a lot...???
Am I tat bad a son that i cannot give them a lil bit of happiness...Like Tultuli said..Am i selfish too??...I cannot discuss this question with my college friends...becoz probably they will not take me seriously...My only hope is u guys...plz..let me know...!!

Should i leave my dream, my passion aside...?? Becoz my parents are not happy?? Is it right on my part to do something that I am not happy doing just to please my parents??...Plz help...

I am really sorry if i bored u all with my problems...I know this may be personal..and many of u may even be irritated by my this post...but I am really sorry...this was the only way i could express my self...i am sorry...maybe this is a public forum and i must not be discussing my personal issues here...but then this forum has given me a home..i find a home in it...😊

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ok...so manish first of all..relax..dnt know about boring..but it was an intense post 😆 so first chillax..😉

So...i will give u my take on your problem and side by side compare it with SG..

See...first of all u have a passion to become an actor...it a passion..not a cup of coffee ki aaj isko acchi lagi toh le liya...kissi aur ko acchi nahi lagi toh chodd diya...NO!!..its your passion..so atleast respect your passion (i know m going a bit harsh..please don't feel offended..but sorry..its the truth!...and i will tell it to u this way..) if u leave it like that..then u yourself along with your parents and maybe us...will think it was just something like 5 din ka josh...like suvi's mum said...

RESPECT YOUR PASSION and INTERESTS...then only u will respect yourself...and others too...

Something like we r saying nowadays in case of suvi-RC...like if she falls for RC...we will certainly doubt suvi's love for yuvraj..that whether it was true or not...and this is bound to happen with our thinking then...

So Keep your passion alive...and let it be in front of your parents always..so that they never feel..ki it is just a temporary addiction...nothing else...even if u don't do anything..keep realizing them that this is your passion...

About parents..well manish..they r parents yaar...maybe right now we dnt understand it...when we reach that stage..we might get it...but the problem is...they have a responsibility of their child..his life...and its a BIGGG thing...i don't know if u have ever lead in a project...but u have lots of tension if you r group leader of that project..to take care of everything...just imagine that for our parents..we r like a project only (along with emotions!! 😃) in which they have so much responsibility on their shoulders that too for 20 odd years...and if they see their child fail..their own child fail...its a big thing..for them..if not for us..

We r very quickly on the dialoguebaazi to our parents that atleast i will be responsible for whatever deeds i do...and then i will have to myself suffer from it...Just imagine..in SG only..can yuvi even see suvi suffer...NO!..then how can parents see their child suffer in any case!!..be it his/her own decision..if a guy can't see his love suffering..then c'mon voh toh parents hain

So..they will have tension...u just keep your dream alive...and going strong...they will realize it don't worry...and yeah..this is no selfishness here from your side..infact u r thinking about your parents..which actually suvi isn't...ofcourse she has added problems with her..but still

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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

thanx a lot...i knew tat this forum will always help me solve my problems..and ya it will always keep me going ahead...thanx a lot...😃

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Posted: 12 years ago

seriously and frankly batao..bura maan gaye kya...coz i know i was a bit harsh..but u need to respect your passion if u r to do anything in life...agar voh nahi karte..toh koi fayda nahi...

And again..i want an honest feedback..if u felt bad...ab jab u consider me as your bro...u need to share things wid me like a bro only..i do the same with my cousins too..and dnt worry about how i will feel..agar tumko bura laga toh...main ignore karna shuru nahi krne wala 😆 bas thoda aur pyaar se samjhaunga shayad 😊

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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: akshayR
seriously and frankly batao..bura maan gaye kya...coz i know i was a bit harsh..but u need to respect your passion if u r to do anything in life...agar voh nahi karte..toh koi fayda nahi...

And again..i want an honest feedback..if u felt bad...ab jab u consider me as your bro...u need to share things wid me like a bro only..i do the same with my cousins too..and dnt worry about how i will feel..agar tumko bura laga toh...main ignore karna shuru nahi krne wala 😆 bas thoda aur pyaar se samjhaunga shayad 😊

nahi bhai...seriously...i did not feel bad...u have actually helped me solve my confusion...and ya i consider u my bro u i ll always continue to..and ya agar ignore kiya tho mein jantha hoon kya karna hein...😆...just kidding...i did not feel bad...😊

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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

bhai..nyways...i will go have my dinner...mom is calling me...will be back soon...and ya if possible will be online...

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Posted: 12 years ago

Same pinch😛 When u do sumthing against the thinking of ur parents,, this is the first hurdle,,,, and mom is the first one to worry when we think of taking some risk with our life,,, so don't take tension.

Its like it might took a long time for you to realise that ur passion is acting. It wasn't like one day u got up and felt sum craving for being an actor. But it is sudden for ur parents, though they may be knowing that u like acting but choosing it as a profession is another big thing... You are thinking abt ur passion at time but ur parents are thinking abt u. I hope u understand wat I'm asking u... See don't think that u r a bad son,, Its a natural reaction to ur action,, u jst need to handle it sensitively. In any case don't overreact. U don't need to leave ur passion or career without thinking practically. Both money and mental satisfaction are equally important. Ya u can earn money through acting but according to ur parent's POV academics are sure way to economically successful future. There are many actors, who started acting after graduation,, so chill, enjoy every bit of ur student life. u won't get it back.

And don't think,, ur posts bother us,,, SG is our connecting link, and we are connected to SG coz in one or another way we feel related to the show. So there's no harm discussing such issues if SG is discussing them through the show...

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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kim.rayat
Same pinch😛 When u do sumthing against the thinking of ur parents,, this is the first hurdle,,,, and mom is the first one to worry when we think of taking some risk with our life,,, so don't take tension.
Its like it might took a long time for you to realise that ur passion is acting. It wasn't like one day u got up and felt sum craving for being an actor. But it is sudden for ur parents, though they may be knowing that u like acting but choosing it as a profession is another big thing... You are thinking abt ur passion at time but ur parents are thinking abt u. I hope u understand wat I'm asking u... See don't think that u r a bad son,, Its a natural reaction to ur action,, u jst need to handle it sensitively. In any case don't overreact. U don't need to leave ur passion or career without thinking practically. Both money and mental satisfaction are equally important. Ya u can earn money through acting but according to ur parent's POV academics are sure way to economically successful future. There are many actors, who started acting after graduation,, so chill, enjoy every bit of ur student life. u won't get it back.

And don't think,, ur posts bother us,,, SG is our connecting link, and we are connected to SG coz in one or another way we feel related to the show. So there's no harm discussing such issues if SG is discussing them through the show...

thanx a lot kim...ya i surely will follow my passion..so nw to conclude i think i will have to focus both on studies and acting...i ll have try my level best to handle both...then probably as soon as graduation will take up some good job and will also start applying for acting auditions then may be i ll get a chance...maybe this will make my parents also lil free...they may not be that scared later...i ll tell this tomorrow or may be after my exams and later see their reaction to it...thanx a lot...for all ur suggestions..u all are defntly great friends...😊...luv u all...

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kim.rayat

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Manish_Shetty

thanx a lot kim...ya i surely will follow my passion..so nw to conclude i think i will have to focus both on studies and acting...i ll have try my level best to handle both...then probably as soon as graduation will take up some good job and will also start applying for acting auditions then may be i ll get a chance...maybe this will make my parents also lil free...they may not be that scared later...i ll tell this tomorrow or may be after my exams and later see their reaction to it...thanx a lot...for all ur suggestions..u all are defntly great friends...😊...luv u all...

Nice decision or say beech ka rasta,, don't say thnx... u just need sum planning and u will be through ur goal...u just made me remind of one of my old frnd, who was also fond of acting. Though he didn't chose it as a career. Now he has joined a theater to enjoy this as his hobby.You can join a theater along with ur college to be in touch with ur passion. Plz don't think that i'm being more suggestive,,if u think so then i' sorry,,,, this just came to my mind... All the best!

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Manish B Shetty

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: kim.rayat

Nice decision or say beech ka rasta,, don't say thnx... u just need sum planning and u will be through ur goal...u just made me remind of one of my old frnd, who was also fond of acting. Though he didn't chose it as a career. Now he has joined a theater to enjoy this as his hobby.You can join a theater along with ur college to be in touch with ur passion. Plz don't think that i'm being more suggestive,,if u think so then i' sorry,,,, this just came to my mind... All the best!

thnx a lot kim...and ya tat is a good suggestion..well i have thought of it...i have planned tat next year tat is in my 3rd sem when my compulsory certificate courses are done i would join Mega Productions in my college..i knw i ll have to do a lot of hardwork for it as it will demand a lot of time from me..but i ll do watever it takes for it...and ya i even went through some of the acting schools which i can take up along with my graduation..but then they are too expensive and i dont want to put tis burden on my parents...may be they may agree for it for my happiness...but then i dont want them to spend so much for me...I ll think abt it myself later when i get a job..and may be then instead of doing my MBA i can do my graduation in acting...thanx a lot kim and always ur suggestions are welcome..😊

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