samajh nahi aa raha abt 2day's epi *CONFUSED!*

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Posted: 13 years ago
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well...according to my opinion..today's episode was a mixed bag of right's and wrong's...old and new mentality and possibly cheap mentality tooπŸ˜›

Puppa guggal is right regarding suvi's lie...but i think putting more restrictions on her..will make her more interested in breaking free...and again break the rules or frustrated(like she did in the end in anger..)

on the other hand..i don't know why people think always wrong..i feel absolutely like rathi when he said " 3 ladke aur 3 ladkiyaan!!" W*F!!..wats the problem!!!..this is my question to even parents of today and all those relatives who think anything when u tok regarding a boy and gal 😑😑 and dissappointed by puppa 's reaction when he says to suvreen that tune aur kuch toh nahi kiya tha along wid alcohol..

i think the idiotic restriction left for suvreen is not to even look at any ladka!!..agar dekha toh suvreen ki chopsey kar denge!!!
pata nahi khud kitne sant mahatma the..when they were at suvreen's age...😑

but yes..i liked the feelings developing in suvi's head..which even she isn't able to control πŸ˜†πŸ˜† inspite of having a gud daant from parents...πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜³ and also realizing that scolding too..

bas i hope ki yuvi ke aane se..kuch zyada gadbad na ho jaaye..ki suvreen gets into more trouble..πŸ€” baaki puppa ka toh pata nahi..suvreen ke liye kya soch kar gaye hain to college πŸ˜•πŸ˜•
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry, but I kinda disagree... I always obey my parents... I would never have the guts to lie to them... I can lie to anyone in the world but when I try to lie to my parents they catch it immediately because of how hasty and nervous I am at that time...

Puppa Guggal has his point... Come on, when your parents put some hope on you and you break it, it's really shattering... I would literally. Die if I put my parents to the shame of coming to ge police station and picking me up...I know she wanted to go on the road trip, but the way she went just made the whole thing wrong... Plus drinking... I'm not saying drinking is wrong or anything, but if you do loose yourself and loose self control it's best you stay away from it...

Puppa Guggal was really hurt... And I really I wouldn't be texting my friend at that moment after all that happened...I think suvreen should have let the matter calm a little before he did something else... Suvreen is not wrong in wanting freedom, but the way she is going to get it is wrong... You can never be happy by hurting your parents... Yes your parents r also human and they can make mistakes too... But in this situation, it was Suvreens fault... She should have convinced her parents by introducing her guy friend and getting permission... But one thing, parents never want bad for you...yes they may be overprotective and after what Suvreen did, it's very natural for desi parents to take a stand and put mor restrictions... So I wouldn't blame him... He was mad...and anyone would be furious after picking their daughter up from the police station and have people question their morals and values...

This Is just my opinion...it may differ for everyone... For me, I love my parents to death, I can give my life for them... I stayed away from my parents for a few years for boarding school, and I had a lot of friend, but I never drank alcohol, I never ditched classes and I always studied enough to get good grades... When I watch Suvreen Guggal, I can't really relate to her as much because I left my parents at a young age for studies and sometimes I have to make decisions on my own and I literally sit a think a million times for hours about my decision so I never hurt my parents... Don't get me wrong, my parents don't mind me having boyfriends or living my life as a party, but I want to always stand out to their expectations... We r free and it's our right to have such freedom, but not by lying and not at the cost of hurting your parents who raise you with so much of love and care...

It was okay if her father found her in the jungle or something, then it would have been a little white lie to get so etching, but you have to understand that Puppa Guggal faced humiliation by going to the police station and being questioned on how he raised his daughter...that will hurt any parent
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Tanvi-- m not saying that puppa is wrong in case of suvi lying..infact the first thng i said was he was correct in disagreeing for suvi lying and taking/picking her from police station..but m saying ki itni restrictions karenge..toh aur problem hogi..thts d natural tendency..u create too much of restriction for some1..and that person will try even harder to break free..and in this case i won't like suvi doing even more wrong thngs..

about drinking..well m ages away from drinking..i dnt even like person who is drinking..leave it drinking myself πŸ˜† suvi ne hurt toh kara parents ko..u r right in that..and i also agree to that 😊..infact my mom gets a bit hyper when gf topic comes in house mazak mein bhi...but yes..i do hang out wid my frnd group who r haing guys as well as gals..and it doesn't matter that much to my parents..bcoz they know i won't do anythng silly 😊..that comes on trust basis..
but yes..i surely do not think for hours on a decision to make..if i feel its right..i do it..and if its wrong..well it will be me only to face its consequences..not any1 else
about ditching classes and saying lies..well..i also never ditched one..bt yes..i knw i told many lies when i was v.young..got scolded up for dat..then slowly and eventually..i also bcame like puppa guggal..no lies at all..say the truth..and live life king size πŸ˜† πŸ˜ƒ

overall thing is that..here what they r doing by putting more and more restrictions is that..tempting and inviting more heroics from suvi..to do some mistakes.

Wow!!!..@ tanvi..u lead me to wite my longest post ever!!πŸ˜†πŸ˜†..but yes loved sharing things wid u like u did 😊



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys it's just my opinion... why doesn't parents leave some matters alone?? I mean when papa guggal asks ki tune aur kuch to nahi kiya then what stupid question is this... if she wants to do something then what right someone else do have to stop this? I mean freedom of own sexuality is important then why mumble about it?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually i agree to all the opinions posted here...😊
each of the opinions surely have points...πŸ‘πŸΌ

i do agree that suvreen lying towards parents,drinking and going into the police station is bad...
giving her punishment is a right thing still it depends on the punishment also
by asking suvreen to stay away from him,,grounding her from the outer world and her friends..it is not gonna help her to stay close to them but he is pushing her far away from them into a darker n negative world..

but

i also agree that the question pappa guggal was asking towards suvreen wether she had been drinking or did she do something else wit the guys was cheap thinking...
how a daughter should react when a father ask those kind of question?πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜­πŸ˜‘
if i were suvreen...my heart would broke into pieces listening to the question...😭
just because of one lie..her father would think his daughter to be so cheap that she would be doing all sort of dirty things in just one road trip...vaah kya soch kiya papa guggal ney..naa???!!! *sarcastic mode πŸ˜”πŸ˜‘

still...time will bring us to wat will happen to this new thinking of pappa guggal...n would this problem be solved in a new unique way?..the way suvreen solve every single problem that she faced...
let just watch...

btw..nice post yaar πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ˜ƒ

p/s: peace to all πŸ˜‰
Edited by vidya.G - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes i also certainly agree with u all. Now c hw suvi's one lie have taken away the trust of suvi's parents. I am definitely do not accept lie about a trip that involves staying away form home. Come on guys u are staying away for a night from ur parents. Suvi should not have lied about it.

Then forgetting about ur all values is also not acceptable. Y v need to bring though others persuade us. V should protect our values. I think this same situation can be identified behind drinking of today's generation. They think that they will be inferior or humiliated if they didnt drink.

Giving punishments for suvi is acceptable form puppa guggal point of view. However, asking not to talk with boys what's that?? Come on girls can have friendship with boys.

As posted by u all, certainly it will create problems by forcing many restrictions on suvi. I know suvi's parents are really hurt but giving many punishments will not make suvi to understand her mistake.

Suvi's puppa has trust on suvi than her mother thats y he supported suvi in every way.I think dats y he is so shattered and hurt than her mother. Therefore he was very furious that after knowing suvi drink he was frustrated with anger that he even asked did u something other than that ... I know it is not gud thing to ask but this situation is created by suvi herself. She lost trust of her parents and in future her parents will not believe her. C hw one lie have shattered the life of suvi.

Nw lest c hw suvi's future will be.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Suvreen's dad was not wrong in punishing Suvreen. Suvreen did go overboard in lying to her parents, going to the trip, getting drunk and ending up in a police station. So its natural that any parent would get upset. And I think Suvreen's dad wasn't wrong in punishing Suvreen for her mistakes. Its like she has done a wrong thing and she has to face some consequences. And so her dad punished her by restricting her going out and saying that he will escort her to and from college, asking her to stay away from her friends, etc. because she has lost the trust they had on her.
I think the ideal thing now would be if Suvreen abides by her parent's restrictions for the time-being and slowly earn her parent's trust that she has lost, after which, maybe she might be able to convince her parents to give her the freedom to hang-out with her friends, etc. She can also probably introduce her guy friends to her parents so that her parents can feel comfortable about letting their daughter interact with them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Min bhi soch rahi hu ki wo college kyu gaye...!!

and loved this ''''' main us idiot ko miss kar rahi hu '''' !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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