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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandiab

I am sorry but I strongly disagree with u. Rajshri in most of her interviews has always been very polite its just that last segment that you are judging her on. every1 here knows she got a high tolerance level she can take a joke. the fact that she behaved rudely to him and didn't wana patch up shows that she had enough of him. and to put the nail in the coffin of their friendship she revealed that about him in that interview. quite frankly I think we should all thank sahil for not doing any more interviews with his very, very, very unprofessional and lousy co-star and dnt even bother to even think about doing any interviews with her I dnt think fans anymore even want their interviews. but friendly advice to both of them Rajshri please dnt get to comfortable with your'll next co-star and allow the other person to walk all over u and to sahil please show a bit more respect to your next co-star. if u don't know how to show care and respect to your co-star he should watch some segments of kinshuk mahajan to see how he treats his co-stars. I am not a kinshuk fan anymore but I will always remember fondly his behaviour with his co-stars. and another thing thanks Sahil u now got a divided fan base we will think of u as Sahil and Rajshri as Rajshri. I dnt think many will want to use the joint name SaRaj anymore. so really he got what he wanted so I think he should be very happy with what he did


Rajshri should be applauded for always displaying an amazingly high level of tolerance for all the taunts, mockery and insults Sahil has been constantly throwing her way in all of their off-screen interviews together. I know some of you may argue that he was just being a joker and poking fun at her...but the issues he teases her about, are not very easy to digest for any normal and sane person. If it was anyone other than Rajshri, I'm sure they would have had an outburst and reacted to his jests a long time ago. There is something called a limit and even jokes can get really humiliating and hurtful, if you keep repeating them for long enough. And to be constantly told that you're a man, you have no class, nobody finds you attractive...it can slowly eat away at a person's self-confidence, especially if she's a girl/woman, because as women, these factors are really sensitive for us. As per my honest and unbiased observations so far, I have not found any major catalyst to this conflict from Rajshri's side, because she had always been the diplomatic, polite, courteous and peace-maintaining force in this relationship and Sahil was almost always, clearly the aggressor. No matter how much you die-hard Sahil fans keep defending him, you cannot deny the fact that he has been unjustifiably rude and insensitive to his co-star. Like sandiab said, Sahil should seriously take lessons from more established and experienced television actors like Barun Sobti and Kinshuk Mahajan on how to best deal with and treat you co-stars, because he seems to have zero knowledge on proper gentlemanly manners and professional etiquette. 😒
And to the one who initiated this thread with the IV video link...please don't play the blame game without looking at the wider picture and taking everything into account. Rajshri has been putting up with this BS for far too long and I'm sure if you were in her place, you would have reacted in the same way. In fact, I'm sure you wouldn't have been able to show as much patience as she has with Sahil's immature behavior. Just because the poor girl finally got offended and simply gave a supposed "look" you're bashing her for being extremely rude. Huh, how ironic! If she was rude, then what do you call Sahil's actions? You Sahilians really do need to get your perspectives in order. 😕👎🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandiab

I am sorry but I strongly disagree with u. Rajshri in most of her interviews has always been very polite its just that last segment that you are judging her on. every1 here knows she got a high tolerance level she can take a joke. the fact that she behaved rudely to him and didn't wana patch up shows that she had enough of him. and to put the nail in the coffin of their friendship she revealed that about him in that interview. quite frankly I think we should all thank sahil for not doing any more interviews with his very, very, very unprofessional and lousy co-star and dnt even bother to even think about doing any interviews with her I dnt think fans anymore even want their interviews. but friendly advice to both of them Rajshri please dnt get to comfortable with your'll next co-star and allow the other person to walk all over u and to sahil please show a bit more respect to your next co-star. if u don't know how to show care and respect to your co-star he should watch some segments of kinshuk mahajan to see how he treats his co-stars. I am not a kinshuk fan anymore but I will always remember fondly his behaviour with his co-stars. and another thing thanks Sahil u now got a divided fan base we will think of u as Sahil and Rajshri as Rajshri. I dnt think many will want to use the joint name SaRaj anymore. so really he got what he wanted so I think he should be very happy with what he did


Thanks for your comments. Rajshri is polite or has been but been but my post relates to the intention. Sahil made his comments in humour with no intention to offend. Here rajshri made a huge mistake as to bring their fight before the camera. It wasn't great..and you might say she's had enough but it wasn't provoked. I think if asked she'd regret doing so too (they both admitted in a previous interview they had done so during a take and had been apologetic for their actions). Its only their first show and to bring such negativity isn't going to fare well for them later. And as for everything else you said, its wise advice and I hope they both heed it. I'm happy with Yuvaani...if minor comments are to be blown out of proportion then I suppose I'd rather be a part of the older age demographic who aren't aware of IF and SBB/SBS.
My aunt watches SSEL and loves it she has no clue about what goes on backstage and enjoys it irrespective and in spite of that. Ignorance is bliss.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ nm21 I had already told you there is no problem in mentioning uneasiness in doing romantic scenes but here he added this effects his personal life. This is what i'm saying it as unprofessional. 🤢

@ chemistry --- I go with you. 😃


Sorry if any of my comments hurt you since u're a Sahil Mehta fan. I was also his fan but now no more...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nm21


That's not a problem. Thank you for the link. I can see where you've misunderstood the comments, from my POV..sahil meant that he wants fans to love both Yuvani as the romantic scenes are hard work by the sheer nature of the proximity between them which any actor experiences (Sanaya has said the same thing about herself and Barun). I wouldn't read anymore info his words than that. And yes Sandi makes some valid points...but again it takes two to tango. I could only see posts in rajshris favour so had to balance it out. Agreed, Sahil made remarks on RajshI but afterr fans complained, he retracted them and never commented on her again...inspite of them being taken lightly by Rajshri as that is the friendship they shared. As viewers, there is so much we are not aware of about these two individuals and to speculate is unfair to both of them. From what I could see fans are still stupidly asking them to patch up...I trust they will do so when they wish to resolve the situation, if a third party could influence them it would be the people on set etc not us on India forums.

As far as I'm concerned, as long as they deliver scenes like the shower/drunk Yuvraj episode they're doing their job and are committing to their characters. Interview or no interview it hasn't affected their chemistry and that's all that matters... or it should to a true fan. Give up already. Thanks again


I'm not a Sahil fan but I have to say I 100% agree with the blue part. Obsessing over whether or not actors are speaking to each other is not my concern, nor does it affect my daily life. And begging is just... Distasteful.
I can only assume that some on this forum are upset because they are worried it will start to seep into their acting and thus ruin the show.

If they don't want to do interviews together thats fine. If they don't want to talk to each other, that's fine. But if he cannot be professional than it will be a short lived acting career as people seem to really invest themselves into these shows. And if your audience is unhappy...

I will say that I think most people are angry with him and not Rajshri because she made one mistake, albeit a big one, but still, it was just the one. Whereas he has been behaving like this for a while.

People do remember though, actors are people. We all say stupid things that we regret, but they can't take it back as it's on show for the world to see. He without sin cast the first stone and all that...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was talking about this segment ( and another one ) where she was deliberately annoyed. Both of them are being unprofessional on every level !
But clearly, Sahil did cross some boundaries here lol ! Always pointing out that the show is called " Suhani si ek ladki ", his sarcasm...it can be really irritating and especially for his fans.
Coming to interviews : He is the lead actor on a "top" show ( apparently he doesn't get that ). The least he could have done was stay there without saying a word : but nop he ran away !
I think Sahil hates being told what to do lol : fans asked him a saraj segment...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Frankly I was not taking sides and I had no intention of but your post kind of forced me..So trust me when I say your post will make many people to comment negatively towards Sahil who were keeping their mouth shut only because they did not want to blow this matter more than it already was..I don't mean to offend you in any way but thats the truth..
Coming to your post, clearly you have not followed these two from the very beginning or have been quite biased towards Sahil..Sahil has always been the politically incorrect guy and has said things to Rajshri which she took in a light way but they were clearly very offending and should have not been taken lightly..That is why everyone in this forum raised their voice against the wrong kind of comments which were being made by Sahil because they were not funny only offending..But clearly Sahil that time had sense and understood and clarified his stance along with Rajshri and his further interviews with Rajshri showed that he was genuine in his clarification and he stopped giving degrading comments towards Rajshri which itself proves he understood he was wrong..
Next I don't understand what reference you want to give with this interview link..yes Rajshri was upset and not in a mood to give interview..But she did..she gave answers to reporters questions and explained about the track..She did not mock any character, she did not mock feelings of her fans or the shows' fans..she did not say things which would reflect badly on her co-actor or her show..she also did not make snide remarks about her co-actor..
Sahil on the other hand time and again has done that and we as his fans has always covered up for him for we "understood" he is a foot in the mouth guy..But does that mean we were blind to not see it..NO..we loved him enough to let it go..On top of always mocking Suhani's character and giving snide remarks and saying many things indirectly, he now even mocked the audience and I am sorry if you feel he is mature or professional because he is far from both..If he is making a statement like it takes a lot of efforts to do romantic scenes because we have personal lives..Than there is nothing more to say..there went the last nail in the coffin..I was not begging them to patch up, I was not requesting for joint interviews..I was just hoping they will get over this fight and behave maturely and respect fans feelings..Unfortunately that did not happen..Do not start a blame game where clearly one person is more at fault as far as dealing with this fight professionally goes..It will not make people sympathise with one person more..it will only make people target that person more!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks for commenting @samcek - I could see Sahil bashing hence this post. As for the rest, I'm all for watching the show for the characters...there is nothing between these two so I wouldn't worry myself and get ill over it. Agree with you through and through so thank you for some sanity within the chaos :)
@Bul3 - thanks for letting me know my post gave you a voice. I appreciate your comments. Like I said he's not the only one to have ever made a mistake and apologised for it. as far as I know he has never deliberately tried to offend anyone. As for those comments he has never commented on rajshris appearance since and he gets on with the interviews and answers quesrionsr. yes you can never please everyone so keep picking flaws. Make a list. Oh wait...the haters have already done that. Maybe it is his fault they're not speaking and maybe he even apologised for it. Maybe rajshri is the one who didn't acknowledge it and maybe thats why he's given up now. Maybe rajshri screwed up! but let's be honest...I'm merely speculating as is everyone else on this forum. You don't know what's going on behind closed doors.

I suggest everyone get back to their own personal lives keep this professional and let the actors do their job of putting up a good show for your entertainment. No losers that way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have got to ask this but why are u referring to fans here and their emotions as stupid. u think u are so intelligent and every1 here is dumb and u are totally hating on rajshri and using 1 interviews of her and made a bashing post. but that is fine u have the right to just like fans have the right to show their displeasure at Sahil. and remember the fans that u are referring to as haters are actually his biggest fans they have loved and adored him for months and have always tried to see his behaviour as funny and cute. that's not me obviously I am a rajshri fan I have never truly liked the guy his interviews no matter how humorous always seemed a bit pathetic and rude to me. and I am totally happy that he isn't doing interviews with rajshri anymore. she must do some segments with Ankur aka Krishna or Rohit I would watch. but really just to make your point dnt disrespect fans here
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wasn't my intention I was referring to haters and they all are well aware of whom they are. I'll be sure to make that point clear in forthcoming replies if any. Your comments have been noted.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi Guys!
Is just think we need to give this fight between Rajshri and Sahil a rest and enjoy the Yuvaani moments to come. I hope that Sahil and Rajshri both will get proffesional and keep giving more scenes like the drunken scene and the shower scene.

Even if they don't get allong offscreen, pls guys don't let it effect your love for Yuvaani! I too was very dissapointed at the way these two are handeling their prived problems and was hoping for them to patch up. But now 2 months have passed and they still are at the same point. So i don't have any hope for an joint interview of for them to patch up! Its a pitty that they had such a good friendship and are now throwing away that precious relation! It's up to them guys we can't do anything about it.

I am glad that they still give good scenes as Yuvraj and Suhani, because i think if one of them will get replaced it will not be the same.

So for myself i am giving Saraj a break and will only focus on Yuvaani!

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