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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Bit Harsh thread and opinions.😕

To watch a (arranged) married couple work towards gaining trust in each other, and ultimately succeed in their marriage is an important life lesson to show.👏
Are some so shallow you just want to see frolicking romantic scenes?


Half truth is too much dangerous than a lie. So dear don't comment without knowing the full truth. I'm a BIG and probably the most LOYAL viewer of SSEL. From 9th June to today maybe I'm the only one who haven't missed a single episode. I started watching because that love triangle fact attracted me and later found Yuraaj's character a statue. But still cheered for SSEL because of ONLY Suhani. Now I'm finding Suhani an object of pity who's toiling in BH. But still watching because after a long time I'm loving Yuvraaj though his plans are silly.
You said totally wrong that we only want romantic scenes between YuvAni. Because if that was our demand then today the forum would be buzzing as we're getting lots lots lots of YuvAni moments. But the reality is completely opposite. The forum has turned into a graveyard. Our awesome writers have reduced their number of posts. Yuo know why??? Cause Suhani means a lot more to us than their romance. Suhani is lost in the wide passage of BH where she's still living with the person who doesn't love her. Yuvraaj considers her as a good friend. Maybe subconciously he loves her but this truth is beyond his imagination. Suhani should free Yuvraaj if she really wants to look great. At this point both of them should give priority to their half broken relationship instead of teaching Soumya a lesson. YuvAni's life is revolving around snaky who caused them so trouble. Yuvraaj is much more interested in his mission than Suhani. Now the only hope Suhani agrees to sign the divorce paper. We want Yuvraaj falling for Suhani not fighting against Soumya. Now you'll say that Soumya is working here as a bridge between YuvAni like the CVs. Then let me tell you, your bridge is very weak and so the viewers are falling down from this bridge slowly. Only some sick and dumb fans like me have been able to survive. But don't know for how long we'll be able.
Don't call us Cravers for romance. First Logic is needed and then romance. Sorry for this long comment but you just boiled my blood.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Bit Harsh thread and opinions.😕To watch a (arranged) married couple work towards gaining trust in each other, and ultimately succeed in their marriage is an important life lesson to show.Are some so shallow you just want to see frolicking romantic scenes?[/DIV][/DIV]

sorry bt what arranged marriage for yuvraj it was a forced marriage and for suhani it was a love marriage. Their whole marriage is based on a lie nothing more. He doesn't love her and loved her bestie and right after marriage he was eyeing her best friend and even tried to destroy her marriage that's why snaky turned against suhani its all coz of Yuvraj and his actions he is the root cause and he planted the seeds of doubt in kriya's marriage and his filth of a grandmother worked on that mad girl . And so nw just coz suhani is married to him she has to accept that he didn't love her and work towards the marriage as if it is an arranged marriage. She has to nw get back the lost trust in him that she had in him in the beginning of their marriage just coz she is what, married to him? Its a load of hog wash the cvs can spin their trashy concept anyway they want bt no self respecting person, I wnt even say woman here, would force themselves on a person who does not love them, no self respecting person would be able to stay with a person they know has no love for them whilst their heart is full of love for them, no self respecting person would be able to even bear the touch of the person who does not love them and lied to them. And u think Suhani fans want romance dnt be fooled by the posts that u are currently reading half of the members have left 1. Coz they no longer feel comfortable enough to share their views here, 2 coz they dnt like what's being shown. Most suhani fans are sickened by the great romance of these 2, I literally want to vomit when I see yuvraj touch suhani knowing the past that they have and the lies that she has been told. Yes he cares for her, thinks of her as his best friend/roomie or whatever he thinks and they have a lot of respect btw each another and coz of suhani's dad she cnt blame him to much for what has happened coz her main culprit is her dad who ruined her. And she stil does trust him abit, now sees him as the friend that he always has been and that maybe more than a lot of other marriages have. Bt again why must suhani settle for that guy b4 she settled for his personality coz she loved him now she must settle for him, his family knowing he does not love her just coz she is married to him ? I am sick of suhani being good and shown to beg for alms of love from these ppl by continously proving herself to them perfect wife, perfect bahu, perfect dil, perfect sil to hell with perfect that whole birla unperfect lot should prove themselves worthy of having her call them family. Marriage is no joking matter 1 shouldn't leave when times are tough the way souyma did. However when there is no love in a r/ship maybe we should be like soumya and want to get happiness in 1s life individual happiness does count even though we would like to think it doesn't . The only thing that souyma did wrong after leaving krishna was look for love and affection from a married man otherwise she was not wrong to move on. Every1 should want to be loved, every1 should want to feel like a princess and know that they are 1st, last and everything in their partners life. Why shouldn't Suhani be shown to want to feel like she wants something better for herself. The poor girl cnt even grief properly with those ppl around her or even think of what she wants. And this whole post was about wanting to see suhani as being a stronger individual who fights for herself and moves forwards and is independent and if she finds some1 who is more like the person she was then is there no problem nor is it a problem if she is willing to be with yuvraj as long as he proves himself and wants to be more than just friends and doesn't want to die as room mates with her. Bt it wasn't really ab getting more romantic scenes btw them. Hope I didn't offend any1 I rarely like to waste my precious time on this trashy show now defending what I think suhani should be doing bt when I saw your shallow comment and u generalizing fans on the forum as only wanting romantic scenes and shallow I had to comment. Some may like that good for them bt some of us find the cute banter and hide and seek btw the lead pair disgusting. U want to see a couple working towards a marriage of understanding and depth than watch their august/ september/october scenes that's what fans really want. This couple lost their innocence with this whole track. I cnt wait for them to get a divorce I would pair suhani with any1 really I think if suhani found a street guy and took care of him for not 7 months bt just a month she would get more love from that man than she will ever get from patidev her whole life time of serving him and his family.
Edited by sandiab - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Bit Harsh thread and opinions. 😕

To watch a (arranged) married couple work towards gaining trust in each other, and ultimately succeed in their marriage is an important life lesson to show. 👏
Are some so shallow you just want to see frolicking romantic scenes?


Everyone is entitled to their opinion...but it doesn't mean you have to call others shallow. Pls read posts made by 'shallow ' people. We too have been watching the show since beginning and felt connected with the SSEL team. It's only recently we lost the trust and connection.

Marriage is an important relation built on trust and understanding, and in arranged marriages...love comes later. SSEL wasn't about marriage initially...it was a love triangle and the prejudice few people carry that 'fair' is beautiful. It was all about making Yuvraj and his family realize that beauty lies in the heart of a person not just looks suffice to call a person beautiful. Suhani was a strong and fierce character...and today in the name of marriage she has been shown as a mere puppet obliging to the tunes of Yuvraj and his family.
We have no problem in watching Yuvraj and Suhani build or reconstruct their relationship all over again...our problem is with the way characters are projected - as helpless and pathetic with no self respect, be it Yuvraj or Suhani or Saurabh or Anuj or Sharad.
Yuvraj's character lacks depth - he wants Suhani in his house to teach Soumya a lesson where he himself hasn't learnt any. If he was so keen on revealing Soumya's truth to dadi...he had 3-4 months time to do so. Now he says he knows all their truth, so why didn't he take action or precaution against it earlier? Sounds dull and pale...isn't it?
And what about Saurabh and Anuj - their marriage is a sham. And neither Pratima nor dadi are keen to set things right for them, their wives mock their relationship and shun their husbands openly.
Coming to Sharad- he was my fave character after Suhani...he was the only sensible person in the show, but these days he too is turning a blind eye towards Suhani's pain. As a brother I wanted him to support her and not Yuvraj. It looks he is more excited in kicking Soumya out of BM than assuring Suhani. He knows Yuvraj has no feelings/love...oh well let's say he has but hasn't realized, couldn't Sharad help him realize that instead of running behind Soumya?

And Suhani - right now she is shown as a puppet like I said before. Where is that girl who used to stand up for the right and fight against the wrong? Where is the girl who valued her self-respect and was faced crisis boldly? So after marriage a girl should let go of everything become a glorified maid at her in-laws house and attend to their needs from mrng till night. And that too when she is now aware that no one respects her nor loves her nor will accept her...??
This show isn't about a couple who have been binded together in marriage it was about fighting for the right things and standing up for one's self.

So, Suhani staying in BM knowing well that her husband considers her a friend from day one till now is justified in arranged marriage? She staying...only to bring her lost and confused friend on right track is fine? And bringing Krishna and asking him to accept Soumya knowing very well she ditched him for luxury and lusted behind another man openly is sensible?

I understand, India fiction shows lack logic...but just wish they could have stuck to the main idea of triangle love story where Yuvraj realizes the goodness of heart and accepts it...instead of this cheap and silly planning and scheming. I want to see Suhani out of this phony marriage and seek respect and love elsewhere. A person who does not value himself/herself, cannot value anything or anyone...here Suhani knowing all is still living under BM roof shows she has kept aside her dignity and self-respect for people who have no care for her...but using her to attain their means. The show has turned fake for now...I sincerely hope the makers get things right soon. Right now we are watching the show in FF mode and visiting the forum for WU with a hope that things might get better after few episodes...

And we never watched this show for cheap romance...if we wanted to, then am sure there are many serials catering to that. But we did enjoy Yuvani as couple and connected with them...but today for me Yuvani looks impersonal and dispassionate.

P.S: Sorry for the lengthy post...and this is purely my POV.
Edited by Elita - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Bit Harsh thread and opinions. 😕

To watch a (arranged) married couple work towards gaining trust in each other, and ultimately succeed in their marriage is an important life lesson to show. 👏
Are some so shallow you just want to see frolicking romantic scenes?


Nope, this is not an arranged marriage and asking for some dignity for the main lead is not shallow. Cvs will kill this show if they decide to put in any dumb romantic scenes because no one is in love.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Bit Harsh thread and opinions. 😕

To watch a (arranged) married couple work towards gaining trust in each other, and ultimately succeed in their marriage is an important life lesson to show. 👏
Are some so shallow you just want to see frolicking romantic scenes?


I resent that. You are being awfully presumptuous by deciding for us WHAT we're objecting to. We do NOT want YuvAni frolicking, as you put it. We want the cvs to be faithful to the titular character they created and the essence of the lead pair, which they have as good as ruined. If you had read enough posts, you would know this.

Edited to add: Elita, if I'd read your post before replying, I wouldn't have bothered saying even this much. You said it all! 👏
Edited by anita_m - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lol, if only we were more of YuvAni shippers, we wouldn't be called 'negative'. 😉😉 Good going girls. We are not only negative but shallow too. 👍🏼

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wow Ok ladies, see there's some strong feelings here!
I respect all of you and your opinions, however as a casual user of the forums I replied essentially to the title 'rapidly losing interest'.

Just a bottom line for you guys is that neither me, my missus, my dear mother (24 hrs a day Star Plus Addict!) or my eldest daughter have lost interest at all and are all still watching daily. I'll whisper that we are enjoying the recent episodes.

Sure there are parts of the drama that worry (e.g. Suhani lied to by so many then shown to have a possible life of servitude in Birla house as the consolation prize) but that is not a definite given. Yuvraj is gradually realising genuine love for his wife and Suhani already has genuine love with others in the house too.
It may not be a wonderful lovey dovey marriage but as I said, that is all the more realistic.
Also in my experience many a 'love marriage' starts between people who are class or room mates and take time to realise their feelings are more than friendship.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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@SKS74- Guess we know where the TRPs are coming from, then. 😆

You are definitely free to air your opinions but we didn't like the fact that you implied we are shallow and only want 'frolicking romantic scenes'. 😕😕

You can definitely disagree with us😊, but calling members names is not allowed according to the IF COC.

I definitely do not think the marriage is in anyway realistic, 'cause no one would stand for such ill-treatment from their in-laws. It's not normal for a girl to be harassed like this by her in-laws. Of course, everyone has different perspectives. I do not see love from Yuvraj's side at all. He is just keeping her hanging and is busy in some or the other stupid plan.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SKS74

Wow Ok ladies, see there's some strong feelings here!

I respect all of you and your opinions, however as a casual user of the forums I replied essentially to the title 'rapidly losing interest'.

Just a bottom line for you guys is that neither me, my missus, my dear mother (24 hrs a day Star Plus Addict!) or my eldest daughter have lost interest at all and are all still watching daily. I'll whisper that we are enjoying the recent episodes.

Sure there are parts of the drama that worry (e.g. Suhani lied to by so many then shown to have a possible life of servitude in Birla house as the consolation prize) but that is not a definite given. Yuvraj is gradually realising genuine love for his wife and Suhani already has genuine love with others in the house too.
It may not be a wonderful lovey dovey marriage but as I said, that is all the more realistic.
Also in my experience many a 'love marriage' starts between people who are class or room mates and take time to realise their feelings are more than friendship.



We wish you, your dear mother, your missus and your eldest daughter happy viewing.
Why argue over differing viewpoints? I suggest you save the paternalistic dialogue for those who won't object.
But if you read what we choose to say you can't tell us why we have the opinions we have. Or suggest that your opinion is the only valid one because your family enjoys the serial.
Edited by anita_m - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I fail to see how wanting self respect for Suhani is shallow! 😳

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