Suhani finds out about Pankaj's blackmail & Dadi conspires further - Page 5

I loved the suhani parts today that girl always rocks. And really even though bhavna has 1 sari she always looks gorgeous it was good to see her today. I loved hw suhani phoned her and asked her if she knew anything. And than dadi and gang really it was a bitching scene bt I loved that part when snaky saw suhani and suhani looked at her like she gave up on her its good she is connecting the dots. And amazing the symbolism once b4 those kangans fell on suhani and nw today they fell at snaky's feet are we to take it that snakeraj is now set in gold lol. bt really half a second shock and then nothing from yuvi? Really who is directed that fool. I need a bat for that director he is a total jerk or that editor is once again doing his bad magic. I thought the way that suhani told snaky to take the bangles are abit childish though bt in any case it was an irrelevant scene almost another truth that suhani needed to knw bt was made worthless by ExpressNothingRaj. Bt 1 thing I loved hw she is no longer at his beck and call b4 he would call her she would hav to leave everything for him. Now the dynamics have changed cnt wait to see her change more towards him. And then the snakeraj scene skipped it really once a month of those 2 together is more than enough. I zoned out each time I skipped incorrectly and saw their expressions pathetic. And Su uff I love this girl and her directness and hw she spoke to snaky and oh so snaky always treated her like the poor friend bitch. Nice to see that suhani doesn't take hand outs lol so that alms she was given aka yuvraj she will throw it away soon. Bt again this is what makes suhani diff from other bahu's her directness when needed. And that snake vomit girl she is amazing I cnt believe she probably wanted suhani to say she didn't want him so she could fill his head with shit as if he even had space for more shit. And Snoopy and su really guys he is an adorable lead some1 totally worth watching. Thank god that backstop hero actually ran to try and stop her. And now su and her dad u know for the 1st time her whole behaviot reminded me of the su we knew b4 she started finding out everything with snaky she was cold and hurt bt still u could feel like she didn't consider this person as her own. Even with prats she was just emotional and so hurt bt with her dad the way she was with him she was dealing with her own today. I so did not like the fact that those woman where showed in btw their scene I so wanted to kick them when is saw them. Bt hopefully we get a long version of a brutal su and her dad tomorrow. I wnt put it past the cvs to cut that scene like hw they should do for yuvani. And did u guys see that bystander in the frame as well I wonder who he is lol

Originally posted by: ...Binny...

Hey Clarity.. 🤗

missed your reviews good to see your' back now.. :))

I enjoyed the confrontation between Su and her father both were bang on be it their expressions or their mannerisms everything was spot on.. Su beautifully portrayed her state of shock her eyes portrayed a bottomless void.. one that could not take in this last and final nail in the faith she placed on her loved ones.. Pankaj was good as well.. you could see that fleeting moment of comprehension at what he had just admitted and his inability to face her as he walked away.. nicely done..

As always irrespective of the revelations Yuvraj remains unmoved.. Yes there are instances where one thinks he looks concerned yet I fail to see the desperation in him to save his marriage.. nor are the CV's showing any self introspection where he is concerned.. the kangan scene fell flat today because no matter what Su said to Soumya Yuvraj should have picked up the bracelet and held on to it for dear life.. she may feel unworthy but is it not his responsibility to maintain her position in his life.. can anyone just come in one day and take over where his wife has left off..

The biggest problem I have with Yuvraj is that he fails to understand Soumya is not the only threat to his relationship he himself is the biggest shortcoming his inability to communicate and share his feelings.. be honest with his wife.. is what will eventually tear this marriage apart.. he needs to first ask himself why this immense fear where the truth is concerned... he refuses to acknowledge what he truly feels.. and has no clue what he's doing.. I think the man needs a shock.. Su needs to walk out of his life for him to comprehend what he had and what he lost due to his stupidity..!!

Thanks Binny! 🤗

What an insightful comment, you really nailed it. 😃

The Suhani-Pankaj confrontation scene was the only part of the step by step truth revelation that was dramatic enough. The rest was not dramatic enough for such an earth-shattering truth. Even the SuDa confrontation didn't lead to any big change or difference. It was business as usual in BH. SuKaj's confrontation scene was high voltage and I hope Suhani tells Pankaj some home truths. Yeah, that last moment where he realises what he has said was well done. All his frustration finally bubbled over and singed Suhani.

This is why I said the kangan scene was crap- absolutely no impact whatsoever. 🥱 What could have been such a meaningful scene was reduced to ANOTHER low-intensity sham, thanks to Yuvraj's passivity and inability to act. This is my exact problem- I wanna see some intensity and desperation from him. He just seems unmoved, as you said. He should have picked that kangan up and at least try and convince Suhani to take it back. 😕

Whatever you said about Yuvraj is spot on. The problem is, being a Birla, he has never focused much on his emotional growth, IMO. He has a very myopic view of this whole issue, because he feels that if Soumya exits, Suhani will be pushed 10 steps away from the truth. So, his strategy right now is to just procrastinate and avoid.😔 He is completely avoiding the problems which exist independent of Soumya- the bedrock of lies between YuvAni, Suhani's treatment by Dadi in BH, how he views Suhani and their marriage, his prejudices and his inability to accept his attraction to Suhani etc. There are a myriad of issues which plagues their marriage, the most important of which concern Yuvraj and not SoDa.

Originally posted by: clarity

Thanks Binny! 🤗

What an insightful comment, you really nailed it. 😃

The Suhani-Pankaj confrontation scene was the only part of the step by step truth revelation that was dramatic enough. The rest was not dramatic enough for such an earth-shattering truth. Even the SuDa confrontation didn't lead to any big change or difference. It was business as usual in BH. SuKaj's confrontation scene was high voltage and I hope Suhani tells Pankaj some home truths. Yeah, that last moment where he realises what he has said was well done. All his frustration finally bubbled over and singed Suhani.

This is why I said the kangan scene was crap- absolutely no impact whatsoever. 🥱 What could have been such a meaningful scene was reduced to ANOTHER low-intensity sham, thanks to Yuvraj's passivity and inability to act. This is my exact problem- I wanna see some intensity and desperation from him. He just seems unmoved, as you said. He should have picked that kangan up and at least try and convince Suhani to take it back. 😕

Whatever you said about Yuvraj is spot on. The problem is, being a Birla, he has never focused much on his emotional growth, IMO. He has a very myopic view of this whole issue, because he feels that if Soumya exits, Suhani will be pushed 10 steps away from the truth. So, his strategy right not is to just procrastinate and avoid.😔 He is completely avoiding the problems which exist independent of Soumya- the bedrock of lies between YuvAni, Suhani's treatment by Dadi in BH, how he views Suhani and their marriage, his prejudices and his inability to accept his attraction to Suhani etc. There are a myriad of issues which plagues their marriage, the most important of which concern Yuvraj and not SoDa.

Thanks dear..:)

Completely agree the entire revelation was an integral part of the show and the way they have executed it has really taken the impact out of it.. the sad thing is that breaking it apart like this has not only ruined the outcome but has made the character faults more obvious where Yuvraj is concerned.. he was annoying as it was but his reaction to his world coming down around him and his wife's crushed heart has been extremely disappointing.. I have to wonder if he is truly that stupid at times..

I enjoyed YuVani's conversation in yesterday's epi.. but only because of Su's determination and the conviction with which she stood up for her self respect.. Yuv was lacking as always his bit of shock was nicely done but even that could not save the scene as a whole it would have been ten times better had he showed more range in his emotions a part from confusion which he has already mastered he needs to try new things..😆

I have to blame the CV's where Yuvi's lack of emotional display is concerned..I'm not sure if it's because he's a Birla but he tends to overlook anything that will mess with the equilibrium of his peaceful and delusional little world.. the man's problem is that he takes the easiest route possible to solve any issue.. and you are bang on he is forever procrastinating someone always has to push him be it towards Suhani or Krishna to learn the truth.. the issue here if you ask me is an innate fear which complies of loss.. accepting the truth of his emotions will make him vulnerable and he may have realized subconsciously that losing Su will change not only his life but him forever and he would much rather avoid that as long as possible.. unfortunately that is what is going to force him to lose what matters the most in his life.!!

Originally posted by: ...Binny...

Thanks dear..:)

Completely agree the entire revelation was an integral part of the show and the way they have executed it has really taken the impact out of it.. the sad thing is that breaking it apart like this has not only ruined the outcome but has made the character faults more obvious where Yuvraj is concerned.. he was annoying as it was but his reaction to his world coming down around him and his wife's crushed heart has been extremely disappointing.. I have to wonder if he is truly that stupid at times..

I enjoyed YuVani's conversation in yesterday's epi.. but only because of Su's determination and the conviction with which she stood up for her self respect.. Yuv was lacking as always his bit of shock was nicely done but even that could not save the scene as a whole it would have been ten times better had he showed more range in his emotions a part from confusion which he has already mastered he needs to try new things..😆

I have to blame the CV's where Yuvi's lack of emotional display is concerned..I'm not sure if it's because he's a Birla but he tends to overlook anything that will mess with the equilibrium of his peaceful and delusional little world.. the man's problem is that he takes the easiest route possible to solve any issue.. and you are bang on he is forever procrastinating someone always has to push him be it towards Suhani or Krishna to learn the truth.. the issue here if you ask me is an innate fear which complies of loss.. accepting the truth of his emotions will make him vulnerable and he may have realized subconsciously that losing Su will change not only his life but him forever and he would much rather avoid that as long as possible.. unfortunately that is what is going to force him to lose what matters the most in his life.!!

Frankly, the truth was supposed to be the axis SSEL revolves around- because it was so multifaceted and would expose Suhani to SO MANY issues- YuvAni's forced marriage, Yuvraj and his prejudices, how cruel her so-called 'family' has been and push her towards some self-realisations. None of that seems to be happening, as the truth is being portrayed as another SuDa battle instead of being about YuvAni, which it originally was. It infuriates me that the CVs have made something that was WHOLLY about YuvAni about Suhani vs The Phateechars. 😡

@Yuvraj- What can I say? I can just sigh in disappointment. 😒 None of his reactions so far have conveyed that he understands the gravitas of the situation. He has never once displayed any emotions which show that he understands her pain and wants to lessen it. His reaction has been very washed out. 🥱 It seems like nothing- not even a near-death experience- brings out his passion for Suhani. This is the CVs' fault, entirely. They are writing his character miserably.

@bold2- That's his exact problem. He can't allow Suhani to know the truth, because frankly, it involves him confronting his changing feelings towards Suhani and this marriage. It scares him, because acknowledging this change will mean making himself vulnerable and changing his values. His solution is to just bandage the wound and not pay attention to the internal bleeding, because looking at the problems beneath the surface means some serious introspection and contemplation.

Originally posted by: sandiab

I loved the suhani parts today that girl always rocks. And really even though bhavna has 1 sari she always looks gorgeous it was good to see her today. I loved hw suhani phoned her and asked her if she knew anything. And than dadi and gang really it was a bitching scene bt I loved that part when snaky saw suhani and suhani looked at her like she gave up on her its good she is connecting the dots. And amazing the symbolism once b4 those kangans fell on suhani and nw today they fell at snaky's feet are we to take it that snakeraj is now set in gold lol. bt really half a second shock and then nothing from yuvi? Really who is directed that fool. I need a bat for that director he is a total jerk or that editor is once again doing his bad magic. I thought the way that suhani told snaky to take the bangles are abit childish though bt in any case it was an irrelevant scene almost another truth that suhani needed to knw bt was made worthless by ExpressNothingRaj. Bt 1 thing I loved hw she is no longer at his beck and call b4 he would call her she would hav to leave everything for him. Now the dynamics have changed cnt wait to see her change more towards him. And then the snakeraj scene skipped it really once a month of those 2 together is more than enough. I zoned out each time I skipped incorrectly and saw their expressions pathetic. And Su uff I love this girl and her directness and hw she spoke to snaky and oh so snaky always treated her like the poor friend bitch. Nice to see that suhani doesn't take hand outs lol so that alms she was given aka yuvraj she will throw it away soon. Bt again this is what makes suhani diff from other bahu's her directness when needed. And that snake vomit girl she is amazing I cnt believe she probably wanted suhani to say she didn't want him so she could fill his head with shit as if he even had space for more shit. And Snoopy and su really guys he is an adorable lead some1 totally worth watching. Thank god that backstop hero actually ran to try and stop her. And now su and her dad u know for the 1st time her whole behaviot reminded me of the su we knew b4 she started finding out everything with snaky she was cold and hurt bt still u could feel like she didn't consider this person as her own. Even with prats she was just emotional and so hurt bt with her dad the way she was with him she was dealing with her own today. I so did not like the fact that those woman where showed in btw their scene I so wanted to kick them when is saw them. Bt hopefully we get a long version of a brutal su and her dad tomorrow. I wnt put it past the cvs to cut that scene like hw they should do for yuvani. And did u guys see that bystander in the frame as well I wonder who he is lol

I actually liked Bhavna's house more than BH- it looks modern. 😆

@kangan scene- Actually, I was also wondering about the symbolism, but I think the kangans symbolised Suhani's own rejection of her marriage, rather than SnakeRaj. The Kangan scene could have been a total tearjerker, but the CVs RUINED it with an expressionless and emotionless Yuvraj. Suhani has already told him she knows the truth, so why is he not alarmed by all these gestures, which indicate that she plans to sever the cord that binds them together? 😕😕

@bold- Yeah, the dynamics have changed, because as you said, when Yuvi used to say jump, Suhani used to leap. 😆😆 I hope Suhani frankly tells Yuvraj she no longer wants to be with him and serves with him divorce papers. I want her to become as cold as the Arctic Circle now.

@Pankaj and Suhani- Yes, she held her own today, and I hope she continues to do that. I want her to ask Pankaj how he could push her into a loveless marriage, knowing the truth. 😡😡 Pankaj has to answer to her. I want him to convey to him the full extent of her pain. Yeah, we all noticed the bystander. We were like, "Who is this nobody interrupting Suhani and her daddy?". 😆

lovely review Apu..FINALLY the step by step truth completed today..phew!!..the most interesting thing about the episode was the PRECAP!! Dadi's dialogues today made me so happy..she thinks Yuvraj is just like her and is thinking she solved his problem..cannot wait to see how she falls flat on her stupid evil wishes..Yuvraj is still acting stupid..he actually still thinks Soumya is not involved..wow..and Soumya-if I could kill one person in the show it would be SOumya..An evil enemy is much better than a backstabber friend..Poor Suhani..I was hurt to see her straight reaction of Soumya's smiling face at getting the bangles..she is so torn with the recent truths that she has stopped reacting..I want her to go far away from these people..Yuvraj's family and her family and start a new life at her own..But I think we will see her in BH only..because spoilers are saying Suhani packs her bags to leave but if she would have indeed left or was going to leave they would have said that she leaves..but I still hope she leaves..

To play devil's advocate again, here's a possible reason for Dumbraj's annoying lack of reaction during the kangan scene. It just failed to register. He saw it, but he's a guy, and not very clued in. He didn't get the significance. These are things women give importance to (remember Sahil snickering in an interview that he and Sharad are turning into women, what with payals and dupattas, haar and kangan) . It also reminded me that when Suhani returned the choker, apologising for keeping something that wasn't meant for her, he didn't refuse--all he said was "It's not your fault".
I'd still like to smack him one, but as long as I'm watching, have to try and make the best of it.

Awesome post. Couldn't watch this week's Episodes as I am on vacation but you have so beautifully written that I feel like watching it on TV. Thanks :)

Originally posted by: Bul3

lovely review Apu..FINALLY the step by step truth completed today..phew!!..the most interesting thing about the episode was the PRECAP!! Dadi's dialogues today made me so happy..she thinks Yuvraj is just like her and is thinking she solved his problem..cannot wait to see how she falls flat on her stupid evil wishes..Yuvraj is still acting stupid..he actually still thinks Soumya is not involved..wow..and Soumya-if I could kill one person in the show it would be SOumya..An evil enemy is much better than a backstabber friend..Poor Suhani..I was hurt to see her straight reaction of Soumya's smiling face at getting the bangles..she is so torn with the recent truths that she has stopped reacting..I want her to go far away from these people..Yuvraj's family and her family and start a new life at her own..But I think we will see her in BH only..because spoilers are saying Suhani packs her bags to leave but if she would have indeed left or was going to leave they would have said that she leaves..but I still hope she leaves..

Yes, Dadi will find out that she doesn't know her favourite as well as she thinks she does. Can not wait for her to get that shock, though, Yuvraj is delaying it as much as possible.

It seems like Suhani will start reacting once she gets over the initial shock of the truth, as we saw in the precap.

@bold- Exactly. 🥱 I think it's a carrot being dangled in front of us so we get our hopes up, but Suhani will actually not leave BH.

Originally posted by: anita_m

To play devil's advocate again, here's a possible reason for Dumbraj's annoying lack of reaction during the kangan scene. It just failed to register. He saw it, but he's a guy, and not very clued in. He didn't get the significance. These are things women give importance to (remember Sahil snickering in an interview that he and Sharad are turning into women, what with payals and dupattas, haar and kangan) . It also reminded me that when Suhani returned the choker, apologising for keeping something that wasn't meant for her, he didn't refuse--all he said was "It's not your fault".
I'd still like to smack him one, but as long as I'm watching, have to try and make the best of it.

Anita, we try so hard. 😆

However, I think man or woman, anybody would understand the importance of the kangan scene and even Suhani giving that necklace back to him. Nobody is that stupid. The idea that men are not aware of all this is a myth. They pretend to not be, but they very much are. 😉 I don't even have an explanation anymore. The CVs are ruining him for us.