I didn't like Sharad's advice to Suhani: Who is with me?

Hey everyone! 😊

So, today's scene where Sharad is consoling Suhani just left a bad taste in my mouth. ShaTima have become TOO used to guerrilla warfare and living for mere morsels of happiness. They have forgotten what it's like to have Happy Meal. 😉 They are passing on their passivity to Suhani now.

I just HATED how Sharad told Suhani to not let 'Guru' know, as if Yuvraj is pregnant and not Bhavna 🤢 and also how he hid Dadi's truth from Suhani when she mentioned Somu's accusation. He is letting Suhani live in glass house while the Phateechars are trying to pelt stones at it.

I didn't like it and it seemed like a selfish move to me- designed to protect Yuvraj. 😡Why do ShaTima expect her to live a life of fear and limitation in BH under Dadi's dictatorship? Why don't they give her the courage and encouragement needed to overthrow Dadi? Right now, they're just coming off as weak and desperate, without a backbone.

ShaTima have become too used to living under a dictatorship and they wanna be happy despite being tortured. Suhani has already started hiding Somu's truth from Yuvraj. Makes no sense.🥱 I am not liking this.
What about Suhani? 😲


I'm sorry, but I think they're just prolonging Suhani's suffering now. I made a post about whether they're protecting her or prolonging her pain, and I now go with the latter option. 😡😭 They are just contributing to Suhani's heartache, just because they want YuvAni to be happy together, specifically Yuvraj. Their hide&seek is pissing me off now.

What say?

I dont agree with Sharads point of view either...

Originally posted by: simpleton

I dont agree with Sharads point of view either...

There seems no logical reason... Yuvi is not pregnent dude... He is grown, and mature enough to understand things... Soumya is not his bachpan ki dost... He deserves to know the truth too..

What is sharads morive just protecting Yuvraj against?????

Yeah, Sharad seems to want YuvAni to be oblivious of Dadi's evil reality, whereas Dadi herself is not interested in so much secrecy. He is just setting Suhani up for disappointment now, and I hope Suhani cuts him out of her life for some time, once the truth comes out.

I can not, for the life of me, fathom why he would want Yuvraj to not know the truth. It's beyond me.

Agree a thousand times..:)

I am just sick of their little hide and seek game and the worst thing is that ShaTima are contributing to weakening Yuvani's relationship.. because only by learning the truth can these two truly fight for their relationship.. and honestly they badly need a sense of equality in their marriage thus far only Suhani has been working at this relationship simply because they feel Yuvraj is a fragile doll who needs to be protected from the big bad world.. like seriously more then Yuvi they are being unfair to Suhani why should she fight for him while being in the dark as to what his feelings are for her..

Suhani will feel a fool when she comprehends the foundation of her marriage is not only based on lies but her so called love has always been one sided.. he may come to accept his affections but she won't care nor believe him at that point and who can blame her.. ShaTima and Yuvi are responsible their excuse of wanting to protect her is getting old and fast..

As for Yuvi they need to get their act together where he is concerned it's as if his wife is cheating on him or something Soumya is a psycho it's really nothing new.. and he will not go into shock by learning this obvious truth.. he would mature if they would let him fight his own battles.. !!!

Originally posted by: ...Binny...

Agree a thousand times..:)

I am just sick of their little hide and seek game and the worst thing is that ShaTima are contributing to weakening Yuvani's relationship.. because only by learning the truth can these two truly fight for their relationship.. and honestly they badly need a sense of equality in their marriage thus far only Suhani has been working at this relationship simply because they feel Yuvraj is a fragile doll who needs to be protected from the big bad world.. like seriously more then Yuvi they are being unfair to Suhani why should she fight for him while being in the dark as to what his feelings are for her..

Suhani will feel a fool when she comprehends the foundation of her marriage is not only based on lies but her so called love has always been one sided.. he may come to accept his affections but she won't care nor believe him at that point and who can blame her.. ShaTima and Yuvi are responsible their excuse of wanting to protect her is getting old and fast..

As for Yuvi they need to get their act together where he is concerned it's as if his wife is cheating on him or something Soumya is a psycho it's really nothing new.. and he will not go into shock by learning this obvious truth.. he would mature if they would let him fight his own battles.. !!!

Binny, I marvel at how well you put everything I'm thinking into words. 👏👏 My stamp of approval for every single word you've written. I feel like putting the whole para into bold and saying- THIS. IS. IT. 😆

ShaTima aren't letting both YuvAni fight their own battles. It's very childish and it's Suhani, out of everyone in this situation, who is the most powerless and pitiable figure. Her hands have been tied, but she can't see it. I hate how all these people have taken away her agency to decide for herself and reduced her to some puppet. 😡 Why is she being deprived of the right to decide for her own life?

@bold- Absolutely. There can be no equal footing in their marriage unless the WHOLE truth is known to Suhani. I don't like the idea of Suhani fighting for Yuvraj, 'thinking' that he loves her, when he clearly needs to do some intense soul-searching. 😲 He needs to figure out his priorities and decide what he wants from Suhani.

I hope Suhani walks out without giving a fig about all these liars.

I didn't like either...

Originally posted by: rumu

I didn't like either...

Why they all are hiding the truth from him? I just dont want Yuvi to think that Snakey is innocent...I cannot tolerate Yuvi's friendly attitude towards Snakey...Yuvi shuld kick her out of the house...

Sorry Rumu, don't you know this show is about Suhani si Dosti between SnakeRaj? 😆😆 The beautiful bond between a snake and her snake charmer. 🤣

well apurva count me in i really didn't like shard's advise yuvraaj already knows soumya's true face he has seen it by himself then what's the logic behind hiding the truth from yuvaaj i just fail to understand. ShaTima are making a fool of suhaani.

Originally posted by: sudhi03

well apurva count me in i really didn't like shard's advise yuvraaj already knows soumya's true face he has seen it by himself then what's the logic behind hiding the truth from yuvaaj i just fail to understand. ShaTima are making a fool of suhaani.

hate to say this but some how phateechars are correct although they are doing it in a wrong way and for wrong motive a least they are trying to show suhaani the truth to their marriage but ShaTima's lies are not doing any good to suhaani.

Yeah, there is no logical reason behind hiding it at all. 😕😕 It just prolongs her suffering, nothing more. Yuvraj should be the first person they should take into confidence, since he was trying SO HARD to hide Somu's truth from Suhani. Both husband and wife know about Somu, but will pretend like they don't. Wah Wah!

@bold- I agree. At least the Phateechars drama will set her free, while ShaTima's lies are just trapping her further in that swamp they call BH.