Suhani..the only victim in this story ?

We've all cried with Suhani lately as the poor girl is being manipulated in so many inappropriate ways. But if you take a closer look you'll see that she is not the only victim here. I try to watch the show in a very objective way even though the yuvanian part of me keeps popping out sometimes. Nevertheless this is what I came up with.

Victim # 1 : Suhani ..who else?

I don't really have to develop this point as it is PRETTY CLEAR lol . But I'd like to point out that ,at least half of it, it's her fault as she keeps putting people feelings before hers. But this has been changing lately, so good for her. She is coming up as a lady you can't fool for a very long time ( I mean yeah she did took months to start doubting stuff...).

Victim # 2 : Yuvraj

I'm a human being so staying objective all the time doesn't work that much lol. I have gone from hating that guy to loving him and also had mixed feeling at some points. But something is clear here : Yuvraj too is a victim. Here is a list :

• Fooled into marrying Suhani by Soumya
• Blackmailed to marry Suhani by her father
• Trying to live his life and developing is rishta with Suhani but bang bang Somu Maharani has decided that she loves him now and is literally harassing him.
• Botox wali auntie manipulating him like he has no heart or brain

I started liking Yuvraj the day he knew Suhani had nothing to do with him being forced to marry her. Sure he acts like a jerk sometimes but even then it is because he cares for Suhani.

Victim # 3 : Soumya

Yes absolutely she is a victim. And here again it is half her fault : Suhani doesn't think about herself but Soumya can't think for herself. Thus she has became the major pawn into Dadi and RagMen's plan :

• Neglected by her now ex-husband

• Brain-washed and manipulated by Dadi into getting a divorce with a man she still loves and into thinking she loves Yuvraj.
• Brain-washed by RagMen in the same purpose than Dadi but only to make her suffer after they get Suhani out of BH.
• Slapped by Suhani ( oups...yeah right...yeh abi nahin houa...can't wait haha )

Sorry for this long post...

What do you think ?

I think even before Suhani I feel the true victim is actually Yuvraj why I say that is coz he was not only lied to by 1st Souyma he was than blackmailed and his family's security was threatened by that ridiculous pankaj. Whatever he had to do was coz he had no other choice. He never meant to hurt suhani bt was forced to by these 2. Also those 2 went on living in their lives and left him to ensure that suhani was taken care and basically expecting him to move on after what they had done as if it was nothing. Really they just dumped the girl in his life and left. And now that snaky suddenly decides his money looks good she wants him back this is also unfairness to him coz his emotions are now once again being played with his feelings on what he wants is once again being ignored and taken for granted those 2 expected him to just fall and now he is suddenly after staying with suhani for months expected to leave her as if she was never in his life. Suhani- she is a victim coz of all the lies that she was told but everything is mostly her fault if u think about it. She sees things the way she wants too every gesture of kindness is taken as something more meant to be something deeper. When it is just kindness nothing more nothing less. I do feel bad that fate has also been a part of her getting confused. Victim Souyma? U joking right lol. She is no victim she was very much aware of the sort of person that krishna was before she got married. She knew he was arrogant, had an ego and would get mad at the drop of a hat. What she didn't think was that he would not stand by her when the going got tough. Bt also whilst she was married it wasn't as if she didn't make mistakes. She also gave as good as she got it was only on the last time when he tried to slap her that he was blatantly wrong. But if krishna was mean she was just as mean, if krishna was not understanding, she was not understanding as well, if krishna anger reached boiling pt so did her anger. They where very much an equal whilst they where together krishna just over over stepped the mark when he tried to hit her, he never hit her though big difference for me. I think it is wrong that men are supposed to have this superior control over their emotions just coz they men. A woman is just as responsible for her actions as a man is in any relationship. Krishna behavior with her though actually did push her to see yuvraj in another light the way he cared for suhani from the very beginning when he was not in love with her made her see him in a diff light and the fact that he had money she started equating happiness with money. Bt the problem with this is that whether thoughts where planting by who it does not matter as we have seen snaky is very strong suhani was there for giving her the same amt of attention that she always did bt she somehw got closer to yuvraj coz of money and the fact that he treated her like a gentlement unlike krishna. Bt whatever it was at the end of the day whether he loved, whether she started having feelings for him she over stepped her mark he was a married man and her friends husband. Not once did I ever see her see her feelings as being wrong as being suhani's friend. And this was totally wrong. Quite frankly I dnt blame her for falling for the Yuvraj that she saw in public I think it would be something natural if something like this where to happen to any1. Bt it would have been better if they showed her not act on it bt have it and move on with those feelings and for suhani to later find out the truth and realize that she was in btw them and leave to give them a chance to see if they could be together. Bt they just mad this girl totally mad and she is fighting more something that she never considers her own. I really cnt stand her as soon as the truth is out she must die destiny must kill and truly be unfair to her and never allow her to make amends for what she did

I agree with sandi..
yuvraj and suhani are the real victim...
Soumya she is no way a victim...bt actually is the main culprit..
She knew abt the attitude of krishna..his financial problem...
bt married him because of love..then the scarcity of money changed her..
She is brainwashed by dadi and RagMen...bt cant have sympathy with her..because what ever they are planning.. Soumya has full concern on it...
I can't say victim ...bt she is manipulated by dadi and RagMen...

Great post and thought provoking question!

I have to agree with Sandi that Yuvraj is probably the most taken-for-a-ride victim here who was never given a choice from the beginning. In fact, I think the whole forced marriage shouldn't have happened because that cemented resentment as one of Yuvraj's base feelings towards Suhani. Yes, he is falling for her now, but what would have happened if he were unhappy? Prats thinks Suhani is right for him, but is important for YUVRAJ to think the same. He was forced into all of this by Pankaj and Somu, and had to always suppress his emotions. That being said, I think there is no sword hanging over him now, and he can very well withdraw from the marriage if he chooses to.

Suhani is the victim we all sympathised with from the beginning. She will be the MOST SHATTERED when the truth comes out, because she has never known any facet of the multi-faceted scheme this is. 😲😲😲 It will be like waking up and discovering you are not who you think you are and neither are the people around you. She will go through a lot of personality growth, as a result.

As for Soumya, I think she was a victim in Krishna's House, but not with the Evil Trio. Yes, they caught her at a vulnerable moment, but she had her own moral compass to guide her and she chose to ignore it. I think she truly tried very hard to fit in at Krishna's House, but he was a true hellion- disgusting guy. 🤢🤢

Originally posted by: sandiab

I think even before Suhani I feel the true victim is actually Yuvraj why I say that is coz he was not only lied to by 1st Souyma he was than blackmailed and his family's security was threatened by that ridiculous pankaj. Whatever he had to do was coz he had no other choice. He never meant to hurt suhani bt was forced to by these 2. Also those 2 went on living in their lives and left him to ensure that suhani was taken care and basically expecting him to move on after what they had done as if it was nothing. Really they just dumped the girl in his life and left. And now that snaky suddenly decides his money looks good she wants him back this is also unfairness to him coz his emotions are now once again being played with his feelings on what he wants is once again being ignored and taken for granted those 2 expected him to just fall and now he is suddenly after staying with suhani for months expected to leave her as if she was never in his life. Suhani- she is a victim coz of all the lies that she was told but everything is mostly her fault if u think about it. She sees things the way she wants too every gesture of kindness is taken as something more meant to be something deeper. When it is just kindness nothing more nothing less. I do feel bad that fate has also been a part of her getting confused. Victim Souyma? U joking right lol. She is no victim she was very much aware of the sort of person that krishna was before she got married. She knew he was arrogant, had an ego and would get mad at the drop of a hat. What she didn't think was that he would not stand by her when the going got tough. Bt also whilst she was married it wasn't as if she didn't make mistakes. She also gave as good as she got it was only on the last time when he tried to slap her that he was blatantly wrong. But if krishna was mean she was just as mean, if krishna was not understanding, she was not understanding as well, if krishna anger reached boiling pt so did her anger. They where very much an equal whilst they where together krishna just over over stepped the mark when he tried to hit her, he never hit her though big difference for me. I think it is wrong that men are supposed to have this superior control over their emotions just coz they men. A woman is just as responsible for her actions as a man is in any relationship. Krishna behavior with her though actually did push her to see yuvraj in another light the way he cared for suhani from the very beginning when he was not in love with her made her see him in a diff light and the fact that he had money she started equating happiness with money. Bt the problem with this is that whether thoughts where planting by who it does not matter as we have seen snaky is very strong suhani was there for giving her the same amt of attention that she always did bt she somehw got closer to yuvraj coz of money and the fact that he treated her like a gentlement unlike krishna. Bt whatever it was at the end of the day whether he loved, whether she started having feelings for him she over stepped her mark he was a married man and her friends husband. Not once did I ever see her see her feelings as being wrong as being suhani's friend. And this was totally wrong. Quite frankly I dnt blame her for falling for the Yuvraj that she saw in public I think it would be something natural if something like this where to happen to any1. Bt it would have been better if they showed her not act on it bt have it and move on with those feelings and for suhani to later find out the truth and realize that she was in btw them and leave to give them a chance to see if they could be together. Bt they just mad this girl totally mad and she is fighting more something that she never considers her own. I really cnt stand her as soon as the truth is out she must die destiny must kill and truly be unfair to her and never allow her to make amends for what she did

@bold- Sandi, is a person not a victim if they choose to fight back? If Suhani is a victim at BH for having to tolerate DaRagMen's jibes, so was Soumya for having to tolerate abusive in-laws. I don't understand why most people do not support her for standing up to Rakhi, Lalita and Krishna. She fought back against their torture and that's how a woman should react. 👏Also, their issues were because of Krishna. I remember those scenes very well and he would get paranoid and angry at her for NOTHING. She would try to convince him otherwise, but he was too suspicious to listen. Also, Krishna would have hit her if not for SUHANI. Big difference, IMO. He didn't raise his hand and stop; had Suhani not stopped him, he would have gone ahead and hit her. He hit Rakhi, didn't he? That's no way of dealing with your adult sister. 😡👎🏼 Krishna is a violent, repulsive guy who never trusted Somu and wanted to control her. I don't think she was wrong in her actions back then. Lalita never gave her a chance from the beginning and Soumya tried to please her. It was only when LaKhi started scheming against her full time that she reacted, and I APPLAUD her for reacting.👏👏 Too many women stay silent in the face of all this and that's not the correct response.

Also, nobody says that men are supposed to have superior control over their emotions. If you look at all the characters on the show, the only people who become violent in their anger are the men- Yuvraj and Krishna. Neither Suhani nor even RagMen/Soumya/Dadi react with physical violence when angry. I clearly remember Yuvraj's reaction to the medicine drama and he smashed those gifts very close to Suhani. What if they had hit her? 😲😲 Yuvraj also becomes out of control in his anger. In fact, SSEL shows how a lot of men resort to violence when angry, which is realistic.

Originally posted by: clarity

@bold- Sandi, is a person not a victim if they choose to fight back? If Suhani is a victim at BH for having to tolerate DaRagMen's jibes, so was Soumya for having to tolerate abusive in-laws. I don't understand why most people do not support her for standing up to Rakhi, Lalita and Krishna. She fought back against their torture and that's how a woman should react. 👏Also, their issues were because of Krishna. I remember those scenes very well and he would get paranoid and angry at her for NOTHING. She would try to convince him otherwise, but he was too suspicious to listen. Also, Krishna would have hit her if not for SUHANI. Big difference, IMO. He didn't raise his hand and stop; had Suhani not stopped him, he would have gone ahead and hit her. He hit Rakhi, didn't he? That's no way of dealing with your adult sister. 😡👎🏼 Krishna is a violent, repulsive guy who never trusted Somu and wanted to control her. I don't think she was wrong in her actions back then. Lalita never gave her a chance from the beginning and Soumya tried to please her. It was only when LaKhi started scheming against her full time that she reacted, and I APPLAUD her for reacting.👏👏 Too many women stay silent in the face of all this and that's not the correct response.

Also, nobody says that men are supposed to have superior control over their emotions. If you look at all the characters on the show, the only people who become violent in their anger are the men- Yuvraj and Krishna. Neither Suhani nor even RagMen/Soumya/Dadi react with physical violence when angry. I clearly remember Yuvraj's reaction to the medicine drama and he smashed those gifts very close to Suhani. What if they had hit her? 😲😲 Yuvraj also becomes out of control in his anger. In fact, SSEL shows how a lot of men resort to violence when angry, which is realistic.

yep absolutely agree. krishna was always violent and abusive. even now i think he only wants soumya back and after a few days of good behaviour i think he will torture her again with his evil mother and sister. really, there is a big difference between asr, raman and krishna. asr and raman actually loves and adores their wives. i dont think krishna ever did, he always talked with her rudely.
one thing, how did soumya forced yuvraj to marry suhani/? what did she tell him at that time?

Originally posted by: Sonarikafan

yep absolutely agree. krishna was always violent and abusive. even now i think he only wants soumya back and after a few days of good behaviour i think he will torture her again with his evil mother and sister. really, there is a big difference between asr, raman and krishna. asr and raman actually loves and adores their wives. i dont think krishna ever did, he always talked with her rudely.
one thing, how did soumya forced yuvraj to marry suhani/? what did she tell him at that time?

Yes, even I think after getting back together, there will be a repeat of the problems KrishYa faced. *SIGH* What a bore. 🥱 Well, I have never liked this pattern of AYM male leads who somehow 'love' their wives despite torturing them. I remember there was a scene where ASR made Khushi sleep outside in the cold and people were justifying him by saying, "Oh, he's feeling double the pain he is giving her!" BULLSHIT. He was sitting inside in a heated room while she was shivering in the cold like a homeless person. That's not love, in my book.

@bold- Well, at one point, Yuvraj decided he was not gonna marry Suhani and goes to tell Pankaj. Pankaj then blackmails him about the loan and forces the marriage. Soumya kept asking Yuvraj to marry Suhani and Yuvraj kept quiet because he was trying to convince Somu. After that, she got married to Krishna.

I agree with some points.

Originally posted by: sandiab

I think even before Suhani I feel the true victim is actually Yuvraj why I say that is coz he was not only lied to by 1st Souyma he was than blackmailed and his family's security was threatened by that ridiculous pankaj. Whatever he had to do was coz he had no other choice. He never meant to hurt suhani bt was forced to by these 2. Also those 2 went on living in their lives and left him to ensure that suhani was taken care and basically expecting him to move on after what they had done as if it was nothing. Really they just dumped the girl in his life and left. And now that snaky suddenly decides his money looks good she wants him back this is also unfairness to him coz his emotions are now once again being played with his feelings on what he wants is once again being ignored and taken for granted those 2 expected him to just fall and now he is suddenly after staying with suhani for months expected to leave her as if she was never in his life. Suhani- she is a victim coz of all the lies that she was told but everything is mostly her fault if u think about it. She sees things the way she wants too every gesture of kindness is taken as something more meant to be something deeper. When it is just kindness nothing more nothing less. I do feel bad that fate has also been a part of her getting confused. Victim Souyma? U joking right lol. She is no victim she was very much aware of the sort of person that krishna was before she got married. She knew he was arrogant, had an ego and would get mad at the drop of a hat. What she didn't think was that he would not stand by her when the going got tough. Bt also whilst she was married it wasn't as if she didn't make mistakes. She also gave as good as she got it was only on the last time when he tried to slap her that he was blatantly wrong. But if krishna was mean she was just as mean, if krishna was not understanding, she was not understanding as well, if krishna anger reached boiling pt so did her anger. They where very much an equal whilst they where together krishna just over over stepped the mark when he tried to hit her, he never hit her though big difference for me. I think it is wrong that men are supposed to have this superior control over their emotions just coz they men. A woman is just as responsible for her actions as a man is in any relationship. Krishna behavior with her though actually did push her to see yuvraj in another light the way he cared for suhani from the very beginning when he was not in love with her made her see him in a diff light and the fact that he had money she started equating happiness with money. Bt the problem with this is that whether thoughts where planting by who it does not matter as we have seen snaky is very strong suhani was there for giving her the same amt of attention that she always did bt she somehw got closer to yuvraj coz of money and the fact that he treated her like a gentlement unlike krishna. Bt whatever it was at the end of the day whether he loved, whether she started having feelings for him she over stepped her mark he was a married man and her friends husband. Not once did I ever see her see her feelings as being wrong as being suhani's friend. And this was totally wrong. Quite frankly I dnt blame her for falling for the Yuvraj that she saw in public I think it would be something natural if something like this where to happen to any1. Bt it would have been better if they showed her not act on it bt have it and move on with those feelings and for suhani to later find out the truth and realize that she was in btw them and leave to give them a chance to see if they could be together. Bt they just mad this girl totally mad and she is fighting more something that she never considers her own. I really cnt stand her as soon as the truth is out she must die destiny must kill and truly be unfair to her and never allow her to make amends for what she did

👏 more in line with what I think! Som married Krishna. Period. Lived with him happily enough. Could not cope with the in-laws and financial jhamelas and started to find invites to Birla's attractive.
Never once did Somu let Krishna know that he was invited too- be it for the dance or for the birthday or for the ravan dahan or whatever. She would surreptitiously win over dadi and never once defended Suhani(despite being bff and all) even as a guest when dadi was being nasty to her friend she would have that smug smile.
Even while attempting to divorce Krishna, she knew that Krishna truly loves her. She elaborately pretended to care, yet always came up with excuses and never once met him. She knows of dadi's manipulative nature and chose not to question about the offer of money.
Why would "how -so-ever" rich a fmily may be offer money to get her seperated from her husband? She clearly knew that her friend Suhani's life is at stake but conveniently chose to pretend and play a double game. If anything, she's one up on dadi and hardly a case for "being-victim" She's unhappy always because she covets others' happiness no matter how much she has.
Somu's one who showed extremely flawed character most of the times & by a hairs' breath she is not a murderer else if Su is daldal-ed she would have been killer to boot! I am gonna think the CVs are totally insane, if they try to portray her as victimized!