Damn you Suhani why do I love you so much?

Suhani suhani suhani! Kya batao iss ladki ke bare mein? Back with another post guys!!! 😉

Originally posted by: feminist

I was happy Yuvraj is finally understanding how disgusting Saumya is but still he disappoints me. I mean when Saumya was explained how secondary behaviour Suhani suffered showing him that he is the one who is a bad husband! I mean can you believe this shit the entire home knows what Yuvraj and Suhani do in their bedroom. like yuck!🤢🤢🤢 I fact he does all those romance with her to prove himself that he is a good husband not once about Suhani. If you watch carefully and listen to his self-talk you will realize he was feeling guilty for himself *rolls eyes*

Sharad is the coolest character I have ever seen the things Yuvraj should be doing he is the one doing it and please don't ask me about the train station episode what was the point of taking Saumya when he could do shit? the MIL is awesome finally she will kick start Suhani's dormant brain show Saumya her rightful place and maybe tell Yuvraj to be a husband for real! Excited and disappointed.

Sorry I disagree with all this. I don;'t know what romance you're talking about? It's not like he consummated their marriage because of his guilt. He removed those pillows because their growing comfort level, especially his with her is increasing and he was ready to have them removed. He knows what she wants. He knows she loves im yet he didn't take advantageof that and asked her whether she's ok with this change. He then attempted to go further but I believe the only thing that isn't letting him do it is a fear that with all that's going right, it still wont take much to shatter their happiness. His process of gravitating towards Suhani began before Soumya popped up. There have been scenes indicating that fact. He stares at her, he praises her, he listens to her, he tends to her wounds...

You're correct that it's disgusting that she thought she has the authority to discuss the intimate details of their marriage though she is an outsider, but I think whatever that has occurred has shocked him to the core. He is disgusted by the betrayal and has genuine feelings of worry for his wife. As for him making moves on her, some of it may be due to the idea put into his head by Soumya, but I don't think he would have acted on it if he wasn't ready for it himself. He looks quite ready to move forward in their relationship. He seems happy in her presence. He isn't just guilty guilty but he's also scared of losing her..., he feels trapped and he's scared as hell for her. He's scared of her knowing the whole truth and losing her faith in humanity. If he didn't have a growing feeling of attachment to her, why would he care if she finds out whether he ever loved Soumya or not? It's not like he loves that piece of shit anymore so whatever, right? I feel his desire to protect her has finally come out and he's making a lot of progress.

Yesterday in the kitchen she didn't ask him to come and help her. He talked to her, he listened to her, and he took an interest in what she was doing. He had his arms around her and more than her, he is the one who appeared affected. It's kind of unfair to say that he;s doing it all for Suhani when he looks the most affected by whatever is happening. When their love is obviously in the direction of becoming mutual, I feel it is unfair to say that he's doing it to satisfy himself and get rid of his own guilt.

He explained quite clearly why he took Soumya and it all blew up in his face and he seems quite disgusted, repulsed and terrified at that joke of a best friend that Suhani has. He's finally acting like a husband and trying hard to keep that leech away from them. That shows how much he cares. The prejudices and years of injustice in his home have habituated him to Dadi's verbal abuse of others. He respects her because on the whole he is basically a gentleman and he respects women...but I feel once her mask falls off, he's going to rip her apart too. This whole house is going to undergo a renaissance once Yuvraj loses Suhani due to the truth.

Just feel that you're being a bit harsh on him esp by saying that all his romancing is because he's feeling guilty...I think that's the opposite of what's actually happening to him. He's completely drawn to her...in my humble opinion...and he's only going to take Suhani's side more and more with every passing day.

We are all not perfect but if goodness lies in us, there's a;ways hope. I feel Yuvraj's goodness needed an awakening. Hes had a conflicted upbringing by a gentle mother and a ruthless, prejudiced, racist Dadi...he's the product of all that...with everyone in their home meeting certain standards, he's suddenly the one person with a spouse who's the total opposite of his family's standards...with all that considered he's slowly moving in her direction despite his former love waltzing around him on a daily basis. He has virtues and the rest will come together. Tomorrow's episode will turn out a lot better.

Originally posted by: feminist

Suhani suhani suhani! Kya batao iss ladki ke bare mein? Back with another post guys!!! 😉

This girl keeps winning my heart! Honestly I watch this show only for her. The actress does a tremendous job as Suhani so loving, so truthful so sweet. I used to think they are showing her mahaan! But no. She is showing us that you can happily ignore all those problems that arise.

When Menka (I threw a shoe at the TV screen . . . for which I am banned from the room 😕) insulted her I only gaped. Saumya who used to kill anyone who insulted Suhani is now laughing at her?

I will always hate Dadi for instigating her for ruining such a beautiful friendship but i hate Saumya even more. Because yea yea I know she was instigated but she is not a 5 year old kid. She is sooo uggghhh 😡😡

Believe me this track is irritating and Suhani should step up and stop taking such crap from her so-called best friend I mean Saumya is sooo shameless lives and eats off her best-friends' husband whom SHE REJECTED oh god. Suhani doesn't deserve such idiots Yuvraj nor Saumya

Sharad is the coolest character I have ever seen the things Yuvraj should be doing he is the one doing it and please don't ask me about the train station episode what was the point of taking Saumya when he could do shit? the MIL is awesome finally she will kick start Suhani's dormant brain show Saumya her rightful place and maybe tell Yuvraj to be a husband for real! Excited and disappointed.

OMG, feminist, you are back! 😆😆 Welcome!

My thoughts on your awesome post:

Suhani is a beautiful character in that although even I get annoyed by her silence, I'm also surprised by and admire her ability to just brush off all the nasty jibes directed at her and soldier on. 😲👏That being said, I think this girl lacks a sense of self. She is so busy pleasing others and keeping them happy that she has forgotten that she has to take care of herself first and foremost. 🤔
I'm sorry but not thinking about yourself at all means you're a pushover with no self-esteem and not Mahatma Gandhi. I'm hoping CVs will pay attention to this point and help Suhani evolve into her own person with clear goals and ideas of her own.

I think Suhani standing up for herself and calling Dadi wrong would mean so much for girls around India who suffer in silence like her. ⭐️

Soumya has become a total nut job. Like you said, she used to bash people left, right and centre but now she has become the one degrading and humiliating Suhani. I think Dadi created this monster, but as they say, "Taali ek haath se nahi bajti!".😡

Coming to Yuvraj, more than him, I want Suhani to stand up for herself without his help. The icing on the cake would be him coming to her aid anyway. I really hope he stands up for her tomorrow, though. Otherwise, there will be something missing in their kite flying. 🤔

Originally posted by: yanks28

Sorry I disagree with all this. I don;'t know what romance you're talking about? It's not like he consummated their marriage because of his guilt. He removed those pillows because their growing comfort level, especially his with her is increasing and he was ready to have them removed. He knows what she wants. He knows she loves im yet he didn't take advantageof that and asked her whether she's ok with this change. He then attempted to go further but I believe the only thing that isn't letting him do it is a fear that with all that's going right, it still wont take much to shatter their happiness. His process of gravitating towards Suhani began before Soumya popped up. There have been scenes indicating that fact. He stares at her, he praises her, he listens to her, he tends to her wounds...

You're correct that it's disgusting that she thought she has the authority to discuss the intimate details of their marriage though she is an outsider, but I think whatever that has occurred has shocked him to the core. He is disgusted by the betrayal and has genuine feelings of worry for his wife. As for him making moves on her, some of it may be due to the idea put into his head by Soumya, but I don't think he would have acted on it if he wasn't ready for it himself. He looks quite ready to move forward in their relationship. He seems happy in her presence. He isn't just guilty guilty but he's also scared of losing her..., he feels trapped and he's scared as hell for her. He's scared of her knowing the whole truth and losing her faith in humanity. If he didn't have a growing feeling of attachment to her, why would he care if she finds out whether he ever loved Soumya or not? It's not like he loves that piece of shit anymore so whatever, right? I feel his desire to protect her has finally come out and he's making a lot of progress.

Yesterday in the kitchen she didn't ask him to come and help her. He talked to her, he listened to her, and he took an interest in what she was doing. He had his arms around her and more than her, he is the one who appeared affected. It's kind of unfair to say that he;s doing it all for Suhani when he looks the most affected by whatever is happening. When their love is obviously in the direction of becoming mutual, I feel it is unfair to say that he's doing it to satisfy himself and get rid of his own guilt.

He explained quite clearly why he took Soumya and it all blew up in his face and he seems quite disgusted, repulsed and terrified at that joke of a best friend that Suhani has. He's finally acting like a husband and trying hard to keep that leech away from them. That shows how much he cares. The prejudices and years of injustice in his home have habituated him to Dadi's verbal abuse of others. He respects her because on the whole he is basically a gentleman and he respects women...but I feel once her mask falls off, he's going to rip her apart too. This whole house is going to undergo a renaissance once Yuvraj loses Suhani due to the truth.

Just feel that you're being a bit harsh on him esp by saying that all his romancing is because he's feeling guilty...I think that's the opposite of what's actually happening to him. He's completely drawn to her...in my humble opinion...and he's only going to take Suhani's side more and more with every passing day.

We are all not perfect but if goodness lies in us, there's a;ways hope. I feel Yuvraj's goodness needed an awakening. Hes had a conflicted upbringing by a gentle mother and a ruthless, prejudiced, racist Dadi...he's the product of all that...with everyone in their home meeting certain standards, he's suddenly the one person with a spouse who's the total opposite of his family's standards...with all that considered he's slowly moving in her direction despite his former love waltzing around him on a daily basis. He has virtues and the rest will come together. Tomorrow's episode will turn out a lot better.

Originally posted by: clarity

OMG, feminist, you are back! 😆😆 Welcome!

My thoughts on your awesome post:

Suhani is a beautiful character in that although even I get annoyed by her silence, I'm also surprised by and admire her ability to just brush off all the nasty jibes directed at her and soldier on. 😲👏That being said, I think this girl lacks a sense of self. She is so busy pleasing others and keeping them happy that she has forgotten that she has to take care of herself first and foremost. 🤔
I'm sorry but not thinking about yourself at all means you're a pushover with no self-esteem and not Mahatma Gandhi. I'm hoping CVs will pay attention to this point and help Suhani evolve into her own person with clear goals and ideas of her own.

I think Suhani standing up for herself and calling Dadi wrong would mean so much for girls around India who suffer in silence like her. ⭐️

Soumya has become a total nut job. Like you said, she used to bash people left, right and centre but now she has become the one degrading and humiliating Suhani. I think Dadi created this monster, but as they say, "Taali ek haath se nahi bajti!".😡

Coming to Yuvraj, more than him, I want Suhani to stand up for herself without his help. The icing on the cake would be him coming to her aid anyway. I really hope he stands up for her tomorrow, though. Otherwise, there will be something missing in their kite flying. 🤔

Originally posted by: feminist

Hi yanks! lol you are in a defensive mode now its okay you are entitled y=to your opinion. I believe whatever Suhani did till now for him he has done nothing the sad thing is he had to be pushed by Saumya's disgusting behaviour 🤢 to get some insight into Suhani's place in this home. It never occured to him how bad she must have felt and yes of course I loved that he is being more intimate and friendy with Suhani like a husband should but stil its just not enough. Honestly I trust your words too he is getting there we are seeing the lover boy it will be simply amazing but even Sharad had supported and cared right? So whats the difference between him ad Sharad? He must do something that will stand out that will make him the husband of Suhani! All I am saying is that he should step up in front of Dadi yes Suhani should do too but he never told anything from her support to that witch I am hoping this will come until then I want SAUMYA OUT SAUMYA OUT SAUMYA OUT! Can you guys believe this she is "confused" about marrying another rich guy according to the spoilers. might as well kill her.🥱

I get you. I feel as far as him verbally taking a stand for her goes...I think the progress in that regard is a bit scattered...for example when that whole accident thing happened...he told Dadi that I know Suhani can make mistakes but she can never lie and he made sure to get to the bottom of what happened and cleared Suhani's name in front of all. I think he needs to stand up for his mother first. He also thinks its ok when Dadi taunts Pratima... when Pratima gets taunted for her poor choice, her poor memory and so on...

I think Soumya accelerated his progress. He was blackmailed, lets not forget. A lot happened to him as well and he sucked it up and moved on from it...his acceptance of her as his wife has been indicated because he now refers to her as such. He calls her his biwi now at last, Mrs Birla...introduces her as "your Bhabhi" to his friends...those are important items.

Suhani never raised the subject of intimacy with him. She never demanded her rights as a wife from him. She did love him but indeed without expectation...he knew that but I think now he will start putting her first...and things will get better.

I think rejecting Soumya is the first step in him becoming Suhani's husband...by rejecting her, he is rejecting his former , shallow self...and he did it because he is a committed man

I do agree that it was Soumya's words which incited Yuvraj's change in behaviour, but it was also important for him to hear the unvarnished and denatured truth from the horse's mouth. YuvAni's relationship had stagnated where he was just comfortable being her banter buddy and occasionally romancing her. 😕Soumya's harsh and honest summary ignited the flame of concern and love for Suhani in his heart. Would it be more sensitive for him to have realised it on his own? Sure, but the whole story till now has been about how he was unable to value and love Suhani like she deserved, so he needed a kick up the butt to start his engine.

If Yuvraj was that sensitive and aware of his true feelings for her, then he would have realised them long back. It is an unfortunate truth that we sometimes take those who love us the most for granted and it takes reminding from someone else before realise the error of our ways.

Originally posted by: clarity

I do agree that it was Soumya's words which incited Yuvraj's change in behaviour, but it was also important for him to hear the unvarnished and denatured truth from the horse's mouth. YuvAni's relationship had stagnated where he was just comfortable being her banter buddy and occasionally romancing her. 😕Soumya's harsh and honest summary ignited the flame of concern and love for Suhani in his heart. Would it be more sensitive for him to have realised it on his own? Sure, but the whole story till now has been about how he was unable to value and love Suhani like she deserved, so he needed a kick up the butt to start his engine.

If Yuvraj was that sensitive and aware of his true feelings for her, then he would have realised them long back. It is an unfortunate truth that we sometimes take those who love us the most for granted and it takes reminding from someone else before realise the error of our ways.

Originally posted by: Elita

A bit of Suhani is in all of us...each of us are born different and beautiful in our own ways. Some love us for what we are and what the rest thinks...we give a damn. I started watching this serial since november and got hooked...and on a weekend I caught up with all the past episodes and fell in love with Suhani...and now with Yuvraj too. What drew to me to this serial was her innocence and carefree attitude...she is not mahaan or anything...she makes mistakes (plenty infact)...but she never repeats them...she has a pure heart and is direct in her approach. She never hesitates to talk or give a piece of her mind. But perhaps now she's used to dadi's taunts or respects her or still trying to win her heart...hence remains silent.

Coming to Yuvraj...he needed that reality check from Soumya. Accepted that whatever he did that day was prove to himself that Soumya was wrong. But in reality he has always cared for Suhani...stood by her (except when dadi taunts). We need to cut some slack for him...he never liked her from day one...even before marriage and today he's doing all he can to shield her from the harsh truth. He's come a long way in this relationship... the other day

he didn't force himself on Suhani...he knew it was wrong. He felt bad that he had thought of going ahead in this relationship only to prove that Soumya was wrong...in trying to prove her wrong, he didn't want to hurt Suhani's love or trust in him or disrespect his relationship with Suhani. He knows he still doesn't love her...but cares immensely...care, trust, respect are different forms of love...he's on the path...but yet to reach there. The day Yuvraj stands up for Suhani in front of his dadi...by default every taunt and insult will vanish, so also Soumya. He just doesn't want to get in between ladies and household matters...but someday, hopefully trrow he does say something to silence the phateechars.

I agree, Suhani could be anyone of us.

Yes, if Yuvraj was that driven to just prove something in front of Soumya, he would have gone all the way with Suhani because it would have been about proving her wrong. However, he realised that he wasn't being honest with her. All these characters are very mulch-dimensional and there are things I both like and dislike about Yuvi. I definitely dislike his silence and feels he needs to step it up when it comes to Suhani. I'm also a sadist who wants him to pine and work hard for her love. 😆

Feminist, feminist, feminist I thoroughly enjoy your posts and thoughts and all your points are valid as always. I think we lot are finally getting emotionally involved with Yuvraj and we finally getting to understand the stone a tiny bit more bt coz this is just the tip of the ice berg with this very complexed character and there is so many more aspects to this character that we have to see and deal with when I think we still dnt understand him properly and when we dnt understand him and his motives we do get angry at him. bt the 1 thing we know about him and have unshakeable belief in is his innate sense of goodness and kindness. Your thoughts on his behavior on what u saw in the pillow scene was absolutely correct bt it was so much more than that and deeper. Its good he is feeling guilty, feeling sorry for himself coz this finally made him acknowledge that he is part of the equation in his marriage he isn't an outsider and wants more. Yes he was driven by snaky's word bt he does want more now. Before he was like I got no expectations from this marriage, I got no feelings for her and never will I am just living and waiting to die in my loveless marriage simply coz I cnt break her heart. Really who stays with some1 simply coz of that reason and most importantly he aint that nice bt for some reason suhani's faith, belief and trust in him has blocked the fact that in the past he has broken her heart countless of times b4 bt somehow now he can nevr do that intentionally . I think we all agree that snaky totally over stepped her mark bt mentioning the lack of sex in their marriage bt I think he needed to hear in that very crude manner. when he heard some1 explain his marriage to him in the exact manner that he himself thought about it, it shook and shocked him coz he had been trying for so long to cover the truth to make everything seem like it was ok when it wasn't. somewhere along the way he started believing his lies and had somehow forgotten that everything wasn't right he doesn't have a proper marriage in the proper sense. There is no denying the fact that for a very long time that he is involved in his marriage, that he has as much of an interest in it as suhani if not even more than her for it to go forward and becoming something more than it is now and that it he does have a future with laughter, love and kids. Bt he didn't recognize this. He needed to feel sorry for himself and what he has been doing for so long which is not appreciate and move forward with the Angel who has saved him from an awful life of self importance, perfection and being in his comfort zone. With snaky everything would be so easy bt with suhani it isn't bt still they manage their moments of togetherness and happiness and he needed tor realize that life doesn't have to be perfect to be good. And whatever suhani has done is out of love that she feels for him and what she thinks he feels for her. He hasn't done anything for her coz of those reasons and I dnt think he should be judged for that coz he needed time to get used to her, to their marriage to their life and if it wasn't for snaky everything would have gone to the point that it has bt at a slower more beautiful pace bt still this doesn't take away from the fact that this is still his journey and whether he consciously realizes it or not he and suhani have a connection, a bond that is not limited to her being his wife. He is committed to her coz of the person that she is and the feelings that he has for her. I truly can not blame him from taking the time he needed and not being as awesome as suhani coz they have had diff journey in their marriage on the day he got married to her he found out that the person he loved didn't love him and was stringing him along, her dad blackmailed him and he got married to some1 he didn't even like. The fact that he has even moved forward and had forgiven snaky was amazing. Bt more importantly the thing with him is that he has always tried to hide his unhappiness bt stil give suhani her happiness he thought that he was doing a really job of it until he heard snaky"s words. The thought that he hadn't given her as much happiness as he thought he did and that she just like him might be faking it and might be unhappy in their marriage never crossed his mind. As he says she always doesn't seem to be affected by anything she brushes everything aside and carries on with a smile so this gave him the illusion that she was happy with everything and in doing so he had taken her feelings for granted that she probably had dreams ab hw their life would really be. Again I got to say I dnt blame him for not thinking this way be4 coz whatever he has done in his marriage he has always thought of her 1st if he has lapsed sometimes than he is human nothing more than that. And the way that whole pillow scene was done yes snaky's words where eating at him in the back of his mind bt if suhani hadn't spoken ab things changing he would never have removed them or thought to remove them. And he was just as scared as she was whilst doing it there was no snaky in his head until suhani turned away and his demons of them not having a proper marriage came back to him. Him moving towards her after thinking of those words again that was a very human move I think in another post I said he was a man so this reaction was obvious and acceptable bt I was being sexist there coz whichever gender u are u would have reacted like that. But also suhani actually coming close to him made him forget everything and he wasn't looking at her or wanted her coz of snaky bt coz he was in the moment with her until he realised that it was wrong he cnt take advantage of her innocence coz his thought emanated from those 1s thoughts. Now the title of your post I so love coz its so true what has this ladki done to us that we love her so much that even when this show is total shit we will watch just for her and to see a smile on her face and shrugging of all the negativity. What makes her diff for me from other indian female character besides the fact that she is a laugh riot, simply adorable in her ways is that she never comes across as fake. We could all have the capability to be this good, to be this trustful and to be imperfectly perfect and be happy with our imperfections. We live in a world where we are made to believe that its wrong to have these qualities bt reallys what's wrong in being trustful, in turning the other cheek and not taking words for being what it is? Bt at the same time that's what makes us human, is that we do takes these words to heart it does affect us. But does she need Yuvraj or any1 else to defend her against ragmen, souyma or dadi hell no. Once she realizes their intention she will show them their place. I have no doubt that she will do this bt only once she sees the intentions behind their words, their action she will change and realizes the seriousness of their words at the moment she doesn't realize the seriously of what's being told to her coz she doesn't understand their hatred and behavior. Bt I dnt really blame her would 1 really think that they could be deceived by sooo many people at so many levels? The answer is no and she is abit like all of us we take a few times to get the msg lol so we repeat the same mistakes a few times. Bt it would be nice to see her acknowledge that their words, their actions are affecting her coz noway in the world will it not affect it. But either the cvs being the souyma- maniac that they are do not think of showing this or they want to show it later on when she knows the truth and all those words would come back to make her less confident. Unfortunately Yuvraj's behavior and him turning a blind eye to what is going in his house is going to come back to haunt him just like his actions with snaky came back to haunt him. If suhani leaves him and is than for some reason forced to come back and be in his presence what she will remember was the moments when he allowed his dadi to talk to her anyway. Not acknowledging her as a person and dehumanizing her and calling her ladki, a thing, her darkness and him just standing there and listening and not saying anything is going to come back to bite him badly. I was extremely disappointed with saturdays episode when dadi refused for her to pick up prats and if u watched what he was doing besides not commented was that he actually wasn't even properly looking at them his face was turned until suhani looked at him. She has tolerated evrything coz she thought he was in love her u take away that love, u take away her patience and her tolerance of the unacceptable. U take away his love and u take away the blinders and she will see him for what he truly is which is a coward living in a fantasy world and not wanting to come out of it. Once the truth is out that old hags days of tormenting her are numbered. And as for snaky I have had a best friend for over 20 years and we have never had a fight we see each another when we can and its like we have never been apart bt that's coz of our nature. Suhani thinks she knows snaky's nature bt she actually doesn't and this is the main problem. Bt again truth is out she deals with these ppl with the way they deserve to be treated. What they have given to her she will give them the same thing back. The coldness, the hatred(although she isn't capable of hate), the lack of trust in them she will treat them in the same manner that they treated her bt at the same time she wnt demean them. Bt they will miss the girl she was once was who tried to please them and carter to their needs and her ability to see them as being something they not just which is good human beings.