Originally posted by: sandiab
Amazing post and really these 2 roommates are way to distracting for me lol. what do I say about the big S word that no indian tv show wants to talk about or mention bt we all know every1 is doing it in india coz they got probably 1 of the highest population in the world lol so they definitely doing something. And instant of showing all these couples as roommates until we see broken bangles they should give out some sex education to their ppl as well and not show dadi and her goons thinking about all that coz every1 would be put of lol. Bt coming to yuvani firstly Yuvraj is a total virgin boy this guy probably never went on a date in his life lol. And this might actually be true coz think about it with his dadi thinking would he really want to go out with any1 who can actually match up to the list that he probably needed to check be4 he fell in love coz let's admit it not every1 is the 'typical beauty' basically fair, thin, nicely dressed and nice hair every1 is a flawed beauty. And just imagine he found girls in a beauty pageant lame. Bt souyma kind of fit that bill she is a very beautifully girl and when he 1st saw her she looked like a beautiful fairy and would fairy's have anything dark about them and I am not talking about complexion here bt rather their nature? I haven't watched all the episodes bt I dnt think there where too many scenes of yuvraj when he was in love with souyma where he was romantic and tried to get close to her. Besides the lantern scene I haven't really seen any thing that can be said to be romantic that he has done. Bt that scene is very beautiful coz u wnt really think a guy would do such a thing it shows he is a very sensitive person. Now coming to the way he viewed souyma whenever he has looked at her b4 marriage and probably a few times after its always been in awe he is taken aback by her beauty. But his reaction to Suhani is very different its very earthy. The 1 scene when they where doing that dance performance and he was dancing on the big B song and he saw her dancing he looked at her and was I think taken aback by how carefree she was. I think the way he viewed both girls back than was through tinted glasses souyma-rose romantic tinted glasses- bt with him being in love everything would have been a more natural process for him. And than with suhani did he actually see her back than I think he did not and at the same time I think at some level he has bt has never questioned why he is different with her and its the same thing after marriage as well. What's happening btw them now is just sexual tension that is growing. For him I think its has always been blurred lines where he cnt recognize what's actually really happening with his feelings when he gets close to her for instance the bday dance he did it for souyma bt by the end of that dance he was lost in suhani eyes and this always happened. But his thinking is that where as he had acknowledged to himself that he was in love with souyma so attraction and everything else that goes with it would be with there. But with suhani he doesn't recognise the attraction so when she comes close and he responds he is taken aback she is getting abit to close to comfort for him coz he shouldn't be having those sort of feelings for her coz he thinks he doesn't like her in that way. I have enjoyed it that even though he has accepted his marriage love, sex is shown as not being automatic for him just coz he is married. Bt again even though everything would have been more natural with souyma somehow something was missing that need to touch the other person yes he wanted to be with her and didn't want krishna anyway near souyma bt the touch was missing. The human touch is very powerful tool coz it connects us to another person and with suhani she has somehow in her innocences introduced him to that the hugging, the touching and he has than responded like that to her. And than there is another touch that happens btw them which scares him more than probably physical touch its when he looks into her eyes and than she is reaching to touch something intangible and he becomes more aware of everything about her its sexually, emotional and everything else in btw . Bt more importantly she is reaching to touch his heart and some way in his mind he hasn't given her that consciously so how can she just take it? Bt really I wonder if he even realizes hw close he gets to her now adays he is such a tease his lips always are inches away from her face lol. And now suhani my adorable innocent princess I have seen most say that yuvraj seems to be more into her than she is sometimes and this isn't reallly true coz he is more aware of her now where as she already became aware of him as a man months ago. She had that awareness about him when she looked at him when he touched her. So now it isn't something new for her if u think about it. Bt I have to agree with every1s comments that in her thinking she fell for him bt she hadn't really gotten a chance to get used to her feelings or send time with him coz they got married so quickly and so she didn't get accustomed to him. So in a way its almost like a semi arranged marriage btw them where they knew each another bt are really getting to know each another after marriage and so in her thinking with everything going on her getting accustomed to his family, their lives and so they haven't had a chance to be with 1 another so haven't had a chance to have those moments although she probably thinks she has had those intimate moments with him from the beginning coz of him getting close to her coz of souyma(although she doesn't recog it) and more so now. So she doesn't see their r/ship as lacking bt rather its getting there aka the next step. emotionally yuvraj and her are on different levels bt sexually they on the same level. Bt I think that with suhani she is really nave bt she is intelligent she some hw needs to be directed to the truth and gets curious and than wonders ab it and than she starts wondering. I think if some1 had to ask her out right why she and yuvi haven't had sex even though they in love she would start to wonder about it to. Bt hopefully no1 asks her coz I can just imagine her asking Yuvraj why. Lol.
Okay, first I have to say... Amazing Post!! :) I absolutely loved reading your response! It really gave me a different perspective to think from.. The part where you called Yuraj a "virgin boy" š¤£... I think he is, I was thinking okay this guy has to be in his mid 20s and is good looking and such, so why doesn't he think about intimacy? but really he's no different then those geeks we see in movies, totally clueless about romance and such! Yeah, I think his Dadi instilled in him the thinking "fair people are beautiful" which is why he quickly had a crush on Soumya and thought he was in love with her. And unfortunately I think this is not only India's perception of beauty but many places of the world. :( I think seeing his Dadi, it makes more sense of him having an obnoxious behavior, after all he has to have some traits of her. š¤¢š¤¢ (hopefully suhani changes him though)
Yeah with Suhani and Yuvraj, I think they're like those teenage friends, or friends who are attracted to each other, you see in hollywood/bollywood movies, although they're married. I think that even though he is an adult, he mind set is like a pre-teen, or teen who is experiencing love for the first time, after all he's a "virgin boy" š which overwhelms him. I absolutely love the part of touching heart! That was nicely written. I think Yuvraj is actually a very emotional guy, who deep down as a lot of feelings stored in him that he doesn't want to reveal to anyone which might make him so bitter. I think regarding his dad, he has some feelings, and now that there is someone who can actually tap those feelings, he's scared.
Yesss! Our Yuvi is a tease.. More so then Suhani! I swear though, if this were some hollywood rom-com, Suhani would have just grabbed face and start having a hot make out sesh with him.
Yeah, I'm not quite sure what Suhani thinks, I mean we got the whole situation with Soumya make-over + shirt with her, and she thinks Yuvraj needs some "time", but really they have been married for a few months, and she thinks Yuvi married her after liking her, so why this wait? does she ever wonder? Does she ever think about asking him? LOL I think Bhavna should ask her about the sex part.. Hahaha, it would be funny to see how Suhani reacts, maybe in the future? For now I don't see much cute scenes for them for awhile cause "Somu" ..But i shall wait..*fingers crossed"
Edited by sparkling-star - 10 years ago