I agree. Very well said. I agree with your two points about Yuvraj and his outbursts. My mom often says this to me. She says she feels bad when she sees mothers scolding their kids in public or publicly airing out their kids' bad habits. For example, when I used to go over to my best friend's house, her mom would always jump at any opportunity to point out the fact that her daughter is over weight and her bad habits make her overweight. It got to the point where strangers would show up at their house and call her FAT and tell her to lose weight, and she would just look on while my best friend got embarrassed by complete strangers. The world is always waiting to find flaws in us or in our relationships. So if we don't defend the ones we love, it leaves a huge gap in our relationship and this gap would make a snug fit for villains like Dadi, Rags, Menka...who are looking to break us apart. Yuvraj needs to figure this out and I think he will soon because Dadi saying it means this is a point the CVs will tackle.
Suhani sweetly explained that Yuvraj doesn't waste any chance to scream at her but it's actually a very serious issue. Yuvraj needs to control his anger or figure out why he gets so angry at her. Maybe he's masking some other emotions. Another woman, perhaps Soumya, wouldn't have been so sweet in pointing this out the way Suhani was.
But I think overall Yuvraj has a good heart, and his heart is falling for Suhani and fast. He won't let any harm come to her, if a mere scratch has him so worried.😳
OMG, yanks, what you wrote resonates with me so much! I have always thought that the way people closest to you treat you influences the way other people treat you the most. This is especially true in the case of parents/spouses, 'cause in Indian society those are the relationships which are the most important. So frankly, if your parent/spouse badmouth you in public, the public will treat you like shit, excuse my language. I have seen both kinds of people in life- the ones who will never speak ill about their loved ones and are extremely protective about them and the ones who in their naivete air their loves one's laundry out in public, not mindful of the fact that it seriously affects relationships. IMO, the first one is the way to go, 'cause like you said, the world is always ready to fling dirt at you and you don't need to provide them with extra ammo to do it. This is what Yuvi needs to understand. Like you said, rats always look for places to sneak in. I feel sorry for your best friend. 😭 That must have really hurt. 💔
You're lucky to have such a wise mother. 😳
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