KYPH Forum Closure - Questions/Concerns

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crosby87

@crosby87

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

I know there are already 2 posts open but they are going no where... and highly disorganized. I also want to say one more thing , to all KYPH fans, right now it doesn't make a difference if you are and I-ian or Neha-ian ... it dont matter.. the only thing that matters is trying to get back our forum and we can do this if we all cooperate, ive already seen some arguements in other posts... but i just wanna let everyone know there is no "us" or "them" right now... right now its "WE" and we are trying to save our forum! i will NOT give up... dont worry JUST please keep in mind that no bashing/pointing fingers... "LETS work together...we have a subordinate goal, we are all together, and we have a common goal: bringing the forum back.

First things first, i am not here to argue, complain, nag, start fights, and if YOU are please dont reply and let us be.

Lets Begin Shall We?

The Bashing: Its not impossible to stop, just will take time and effort thats all. Its inpractical to close down a whole forum and blame just the bashing when only the minority or members are bashing where the rest are enjoying and using the forum.

Some members just don't seem to understand, my approach to this, immediate banning! No reconsidering no nothing straight banning, clearly all members know its not allowed by now.
I heard some other member suggest this i don't know if its possible, limit access to the forum to only certain members.
More Active Viewbies and Moderators... that don't favor any particular fan group.
Locking Posts Immediately, i noticed that some posts weren't locked even though bashing was happening... weird i know 😕

Questions and Concerns

I agree we did get numerous warning, but its different then seeing a forum dissapear one day... what you could of done is, Make a post given a heads up that we are moving at least, dont we deserve that much?? to know that our favorite forum is being moved to another place! think about the members that aren't aware where its been moved to! (i was even confused and it took me awhile to find it and im not new and am good with technology) ... if u made one post and given one week, one day, or even one hour notice it would of been a WHOLE lot better, i would of thought u guys cared about the members that aren't apart of the bashing but we ere completely disregarded... but seeing how u guys just decided to take it away its hurtful just to let you know.
Why is it that the exact moment kyph is gone kutumb is up and in its spot?? If there is no limited space (like butercup told me) that means u could of given us warning if u wanted to rite? so everyone would be prepared for its closure and it would be as abrupt as it was... and alls members could of known of the relocation., why didn't you do that for us, if u could? that the forum is switching to another spot? and u chose not to... ur answers are raising more questions

I have plenty more, but thats all i can organize for you guys right now.

Possible Approaches

We will make a petition
We will cooperate.
We will do everything we can to bring our forum back.
We will continue discussing "Other Shows" until further reconsideration.

Thanks for taking the time to read that it means a lot to us... just wanted to voice some of our concerns in a more appropriate way.

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anna

@anna143

Sparkler

Posted: 18 years ago

I agree with you totally and also with your approaches. Right now we just need both the fans to co- operate with us to bring the kyph forum back.

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Anjali

@totally_desi

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 18 years ago

I also agree with you.We need to find everyone that was in the kyph forum and bring them to the other sohws forum to continue discussing about kyph.I already signed the petition.

anju28

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crosby87

@crosby87

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

hello moderators? are you there... 😕 😕

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Minnie

@Minnie

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 18 years ago

Crosby87, this is the first sensible post that I am seeing after the closure.

Trust me, we have tried every approach possible to curb these problems. The whole dev team of this section has been changed, not once but quite a few times.We have banned, and banned, and banned. Nothing stalled them. Both sides ended up blaming the dev team for being biased.......now how can a dev team be biased if both sides are levelling the same charge??? 😆

This problem cannot be solved by anyone outside. You guys who are the members and so pasionate about it have to decide how to stop this menace. Again making the same charges.....some topics were closed, others allowd...all those things are not going to solve it.

We care about the members. And that is the reason this forum inspite of so many problems and problem members has been around so long even after the show finished off.

The dev team here does a voluntary job. Neither it's their duty, not is there any as such requirement for them to be answerable to anyone. They are here because they took upon the responsibility and did what they could. They stuck around taking rubbish from all sides, and now it seems rubbish is all that they seem to have got for trying to provide for a clean platform to keep continuing the discussions.....and bashing.

All we want is a no bashing, and it means absolutely NO bashing and no fight zone. Some members, many members, few members.....it's not the issue anymore. We want the neha fans to spell out that they will not bash Iqbal and Sneha/Dinky, and IQ fans to specify that there will be absolutely no Neha bashing, even as a form of harmless fun. We just want peace. If we get the guarantee that we will have a civil place from BOTH sides......we will reopen.

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crosby87

@crosby87

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: Minnie
Crosby87, this is the first sensible post that I am seeing after the closure.

Trust me, we have tried every approach possible to curb these problems. The whole dev team of this section has been changed, not once but quite a few times.We have banned, and banned, and banned. Nothing stalled them. Both sides ended up blaming the dev team for being biased.......now how can a dev team be biased if both sides are levelling the same charge??? 😆

This problem cannot be solved by anyone outside. You guys who are the members and so pasionate about it have to decide how to stop this menace. Again making the same charges.....some topics were closed, others allowd...all those things are not going to solve it.

We care about the members. And that is the reason this forum inspite of so many problems and problem members has been around so long even after the show finished off.

The dev team here does a voluntary job. Neither it's their duty, not is there any as such requirement for them to be answerable to anyone. They are here because they took upon the responsibility and did what they could. They stuck around taking rubbish from all sides, and now it seems rubbish is all that they seem to have got for trying to provide for a clean platform to keep continuing the discussions.....and bashing.

All we want is a no bashing, and it means absolutely NO bashing and no fight zone. Some members, many members, few members.....it's not the issue anymore. We want the neha fans to spell out that they will not bash Iqbal and Sneha/Dinky, and IQ fans to specify that there will be absolutely no Neha bashing, even as a form of harmless fun. We just want peace. If we get the guarantee that we will have a civil place from BOTH sides......we will reopen.

Alright that sounds fair... that their is hope, we will find a way around this, everything has a solution, im just glad we are able to do something about this instead of sitting helplessly. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my concerns. The bashing is pretty intense, but all forums have it thats why this is confusing to me... have u seen the Kyunki forum, posts bashing tulsi,eklavya, and mostly tanya... and they get personal too, but the DEV team there are doing a phenomenal job keeping practically everyone in line. Ok i see theres only one way around this and thats to get the Neha-ians and I-ians to agree... we got you guys to reconsider opening the forum i think we can convince them to let things go!... where theres a will there is a way!

But yea im still a little bothers about how it was so abruptly brought to an end.. you know like there was no posts saying there was going to be a relocation i have PMing members all day telling them to meet in "Other Shows" ... and they all responded the same "thank u soo much for telling me" ... that was one of my major concern .. why no notice?... we could of prepared ourselves i still have to PM so many more members to let them know where to go its a little tough.

-Regards

Ruby

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Minnie

@Minnie

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: crosby87

Dev team in KYPH also did their job well crossby. Yes, there are bashing on other forums, but it's not this uncivil and this senseless. And members are not disrespectful.

There was no warning because this was a sudden decision. A decision taken in fatigue. We are tired of the sick mudslinging and member bashing that goes on and on. There is no respect for any rules, and members don't care for each other's feelings. At least that is what it looks like to us.

All the best to your efforts. It's a herculean task. But if you guys can pull it off....hats off ! 👍🏼

It's late here today. So I will say goodnight.

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crosby87

@crosby87

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: Minnie

Dev team in KYPH also did their job well crossby. Yes, there are bashing on other forums, but it's not this uncivil and this senseless. And members are not disrespectful.

There was no warning because this was a sudden decision. A decision taken in fatigue. We are tired of the sick mudslinging and member bashing that goes on and on. There is no respect for any rules, and members don't care for each other's feelings. At least that is what it looks like to us.

All the best to your efforts. It's a herculean task. But if you guys can pull it off....hats off ! 👍🏼

It's late here today. So I will say goodnight.

The DEV team, was trying i guess, i dont know i just felt they could have been more done... i understand that it may have been a sudden decision on ur guys part since u were sick of the members that were bashing... but you guys are again ignoring everyone else ... you owed us at least something, some notice even if it were minuscule, it would have been enough... but this decision was so unbelievably inconsiderate for the members who aren't bashing its somewhat offensive and very hurtful Im sure it would not have hurt your guys to give us a day notice, one day with that forum remaining open would of made a huge difference to you but to us it would of made a world of a difference...do you disagree...?? Anyways im signing off too its been quite the day..

Thanks for the wishes tho =)

Good Night

-Ruby

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buttercup

@buttercup

Inactive

+ 4

Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: crosby87

The DEV team, was trying i guess, i dont know i just felt they could have been more done... i understand that it may have been a sudden decision on ur guys part since u were sick of the members that were bashing... but you guys are again ignoring everyone else ... you owed us at least something, some notice even if it were minuscule, it would have been enough... but this decision was so unbelievably inconsiderate for the members who aren't bashing its somewhat offensive and very hurtful Im sure it would not have hurt your guys to give us a day notice, one day with that forum remaining open would of made a huge difference to you but to us it would of made a world of a difference...do you disagree...?? Anyways im signing off too its been quite the day..

Thanks for the wishes tho =)

Good Night

-Ruby

Okay fine we were trying, we didnt do anything.

Then why didnt you ever post in KYPH to stop them bashing at all? If Dev Team didnt do anything as per you you should have come forwarded and done it.

But sadly i never saw ur post in KYPH in the last two yrs when you say you really will stop the bashing, so why didnt you do it earlier?

We are not saying we are GOD, but do you have any clue of how our team members worked there day and night?...By saying they only tried you are letting down the mods and viewbies who stopped everything and worked contributing every bit they could. Pointing out is very easy but appreciating is hard.

Edited by buttercup - 18 years ago

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crosby87

@crosby87

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

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Originally posted by: buttercup

Okay fine we were trying, we didnt do anything.

Then why didnt you ever post in KYPH to stop them bashing at all? If Dev Team didnt do anything as per you you should have come forwarded and done it.

But sadly i never saw ur post in KYPH in the last two yrs when you say you really will stop the bashing, so why didnt you do it earlier?

We are not saying we are GOD, but do you have any clue of how our team members worked there day and night?...By saying they only tried you are letting down the mods and viewbies who stopped everything and worked contributing every bit they could. Pointing out is very easy but appreciating is hard.

I was a silent visitor, and i chose to stay away from it, now the forum needs support and you saying that i should back down? plus its not like i was the viewbie or mod there ... there was a lot going on in the forum and prefer to go to smaller forums where im needed, thats why i work in Sahara One forums... theres more NEED there... and right now i feel KYPH needs some support... its my favorite show and it was my favorite forum to visit... WHAT is ur problem??? Im explaining my opinions and you are putting them down... i say all this other things and you focus on ONE minor detail... i said that to get ur attention... clearly u were doing everything in ur power... but this is PROOF of hypocrisy u tell members not to bash or what not and here you are trying to start an argument with me saying rude things... that i wasn't there before (there was no need for me before) but right now, when all the mods and veiwbies turn their back on that section im trying to help it and save it and for some ODD reason u have a problem with that. Why didn't i do it earlier, hmm i didn't really focus on the bashing posts, i ignored them i didn't think i had any right to stop the bashing when we had viewbies/mods for that... and so many of them too, but right now when there are no viewbies.mods to help out what am i supposed to do look the other way like everyone else??? whats the problem with trying to find a solution... why are u against this proccess and me... I never wanted to say all this i never wanted to sound a least bit rude cause im afraid of losing my status or not being able to progress on IF... but i cant keep my mouth shut when i believe something i am doing is right.

Im a videobie in a fairly dead section, trust me i know what its feels like not to be appreciated... And what i meant when i said u could of done more or do more... is right now instead of turning away and ignoring the KYPH members you could be trying to find a solution instead your sitting there nagging about ONE comment i madeout of the 50 other solid points i made. wow do you pick ur easy battles. By the way you are one of the rudest people i have met on IF, and I was trying my level best not to make this turn the LEAST bit ugly but that went down the drain...

Anywho before i say something ill regret, i have to make some banners.

Take it Easy,

Ruby

Edited by crosby87 - 18 years ago

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