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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: padmalaya30



@ bold shruthi di if you dont mind, please explain this one with an example..

I couldn't get your view😭😭

Sorry😭😭


Shruti di will explain in a better way, but I can just try 😆

Feminine aspect of any person mean the aspects like taking care of someone, feeding, nurturing. In other words you can call it Prakriti. The land, water, air , and living beings are all nurturing or creating factors
Then comes Sanskriti, or the rules formed by society or people to lead a disciplined life. It includes the masculinity qualities like protection of people or binding living beings or Prakriti by rules so that it doesn't go out of limits.
While Prakriti (famine aspects) gives freedom, Sanskriti (masculine aspects )limits your freedom.
The coexistence of these 2 leads to new life.

Like Sita wanted her husband to marry just once, it was her independent thought as that time Kings had many wives. Ram loved her extensively hence bound this independent thought by a vachan that he would remain a one woman man. This vachan saved their love n prevented the destructive Sanskriti (that is the rigid rules of Ayodhya which made the king banish those woman who stayed out of their houses for some time as they will get apavitra,), from destroying it.

Sometimes Sanskriti goes out of hand that it starts dominating Prakriti. That's what happening in Kaliyug. This leads to formation of destructive Prakriti.
Like when MahaKali was sent to destroy the evil forces, she kept killing everyone and a time came when she couldn't stop herself and kept destroying everything, that's when Shiva came n lay before her to stop her.
Sometimes Sanskriti effects a man too in s worse way that he ends up losing everything. Like Shiva losing Sati. He became Rudra. Finally became a hermit. And to bring him back to life Parvati had to do heavy penance.



Now in modern days, the criminals n criminal activities have increased so much. There are so many rapists here n there. The root cause is that somewhere our system has a biased approach towards woman. Along with punishing these rapists, this mentality of people also needs to be changed. Till mentality changes nothing will happen.

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Posted: 8 years ago
padma visa and aditi have explained most things. Yes it is the emotional qualities in any person the voice of the heart defines prakriti and voice of head or ego defines sanskriti or masculine. Every human has this irrespective of their gender.
Problem with society is that along with your physical gender it is expected that you will have only that quality or you are expected to have that quality. That's why society expects woman to give and men to take.
Unfortunately here lies the biggest myth. Women are also humans, they also have all the negative aspects and feelings a man will have. Only thing is that when you are a female gender, feminine aspects will be more in you, however if masculine tries to suppress it, the masculine in you will fight the suppression.

That's why Sita is not abla. She breaks Ravan emotionally even in captivity. Because the feminity of Sita will shine only with Rama, his love. She is bound only in his love. In his absence she is unbridled. Sanskriti or masculine cannot bind her, because she is aware of masculine within her.

Same with Panchali. A system expected Panchali to accept Yudhi's decision that she is a slave. She didnt accept. She questioned. She questioned as a queen, she questioned as an individual. When feminine in a man dies, and tries to take everything from female, the masculine in her will become active fighting the man. A man cannot fight such a woman because he doesnt know feminine or is not connected to feminine to fight with her.

The knowledge a man has on feminine is the difference between an ordinary man and Narayan. Narayan's Maya is nothing but his knowledge of feminine and how to manage feminine for the benefit of the whole world. It is the respect he shows to his mother. Rama bows in front of Kaikeyi, and Krishna even before birth if you watch ask Devaki the permission to be born as her son. The one who manages the entire world allows Yasodha to tie him, also slap him for his naughtiness.
In his heart resides his wife, his Lakshmi, making him Sreedhar. He is always respectful towards his wife and her contribution to the benefit of the world. And his power is his sister. Gowri. In Krishna avatar she comes along with him for his protection. In nutshell purusharth of knowledge, wealth and power stand behind Narayan giving him everything he needs and he acknowledges it. If you follow Narayan if you are a man he will teach you to respect feminine, if you are a woman, he will make you touch base with your femininity and help you to distinguish between a Ram and Ravan.

Because as Aditi said a parched Prakriti will end up destroying everything. She should not do it. Yes a Ravan has to be killed. But a Ram or Arjun can be given a second chance.

In nutshell for life to thrive we need both feminine and masculine. Unbridled freedom is destruction, too much order is also destruction. Both needs to be balanced. Within the order itself if changes can be accepted it will be much smoother life. Like we see in Ramayana. Ramayana is fighting within the system where only Ravan in minds of people is destroyed and Ram-Ravan war is also not very horrific.
But if that change is suppressed, after some time it will result in Mahabharath, large scale destruction and horrific murders like Abhi in Chakravyuha and Dussashan's death which is really barbaric though we dont feel pity for him.

Both epics happen in a family. So family itself can decide whether they want Ramayan or Mahabharath.
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Posted: 8 years ago
That's the difference of Ram and Krishna also. Ram was a man with feminine aspect expressed through Sita. Most men are like him only.
While Krishna is poornavatar who has both masculine and feminine integrated in him. That's why he is called Nithya Brachmachari irrespective of being married. Reason he doesnt need a woman in female form to complete him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
@aditi you spoke about Mahakali. Remembered something about it as I watched it last week. When Sati burns in fire she tells she will take another avatar to get her Mahadev. But what the makers missed is the fact that she also tells, let me be born to a father who understands the greatness of Mahadev.
Difference of Sati and Parvati was that. Sati married without her father's permission. All said and done without the blessing from her father she couldnt live that life happily. She burned. But Parvati is blessed by Himavan and his wife for her union with Shiva and she becomes a happily married woman.

In that sabha Sati asks why no one is speaking when Mahadev is insulted. Reason Narayan doesnt speak is, Daksha is the father of Sati. Mahadev had to take hand of Sati from Daksha. If Daksha doesnt like him, he had to prove why he is the best husband for Sati to Daksha. Yes a father has the right to know the man chosen by his daughter is good for her. And if we see Daksha is again not a bad father. So in Daksha's side at that time had dharma. Hence they kept silent.

If you look at Narayan he always respects Sanskriti. He breaks the bow to satisfy Janaka's condition to marry Sita as Ram. In Krishnavatar he takes Rukmini only because she is being married to Shishupal who was not a good man. Satyabama and Jambavati are given to him by their respective fathers. He guides Panchali to Arjuna and 4 pandavas with the blessing of Drupada only. He sends Subhadra again that way because she doesnt want to marry Duryodhan.

You can manipulate Sanskriti the right way, fighting in the system than outright rebellion is always the teaching of Narayan. Outright rebellion causes destruciton at all ends.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Amazing as usual Shruthi. And that one about Narayana following Sanskrithi and the Sati/Parvathi difference is interesting. Haven't understood this until now. Thanks for putting this up.
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Posted: 8 years ago
@visa actually in Mahakali they should have shown it. Because that is one important aspect of Sati burning which is explained in stories.
It is also said Dakshyani did so much penance after Sati died to once again get Adi parashakthi as her daughter and finally Shakthi blessed her that she will be born in her womb once again during dwapara yuga.
And that is the baby girl born to Yasodha, where Shakthi comes with Narayan for his protection.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Here is the final round of voting for Ashish B'day DP

#Ashishians we got our top 3 now vote again to select your favorite

Link:http://www.anonvote.com/poll/e584446w

#DP #contest #HappyBirthdayAshish #14DaysToGo

Edited by -Mano- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Thank you shruthi di, visa di n aditi😳😳😳

Understood the difference between sanskriti and prakriti😊😊


shruthi di even i was wondering why narayan was silent when sati questioned him for keeping calm when mahadev was insulted by daksh..now i got the answer..


Thanks a lot everyone😃
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: -Mano-

Here is the final round of voting for Ashish B'day DP


#Ashishians we got our top 3 now vote again to select your favorite

Link:http://www.anonvote.com/poll/e584446w

#DP #contest #HappyBirthdayAshish #14DaysToGo


Voting done👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
Guys
Shocked to read this news..

A 12 year old raped in chandigarh yesterday😡😡😡



No use of celebrating 70 years of independence

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