7/7/2016
Today Ram shows once again why he is Maryadapurushottam. What is his Maryada. Vibishan who is Ravan's brother comes to Ram's protection. Sugreev, Lakshman everyone is skeptical. They have to be because Ravan is their enemy and suddenly his brother coming claiming to support them will look suspicious.
But Ram says he doesn't know what the real purpose of Vibishana is. But he has demanded Ram's protection. And if someone comes seeking your protection let that person have done numerous sin also it is one's duty to give protection.
So the question arises you just like that give protection. No. If you see the scene just like that you will feel you have to give protection to anyone who comes to you. This is where most people make mistakes with Ram. They listen to his words, but doesn't see his action. Yes Ram shows the seemless love of God who irrespective of whatever karma you have done in the past goes to him with pure heart, he is willing to accept you in his lap, give you his protection.
Hanuman supports Ram's decision with what he have seen in Lanka. See Hanuman is very important in Ram's decision for others to feel confident. Because he has seen Lanka, met people of Lanka. So him telling Vibishna is a man of dharma allievates fear of Ram's supporters to great extend. A good sevak of Lord always provides clarification to his Lord's decisions in a way everyone can understand. That is Hanuman's greatness also.
Next scene is the beautiful Moh Maya of Vishnu. Yes I will give you protection but I have a question. Which Dharma is more important. Rajdharma or bhatradharma.Why does Ram asks this question, it is to test what is the intention of Vibishan. Ram knows Vibishan has made something over and above Bhatrudharma. Else a brother wont come to support his brother's enemy. In Sugreev case Ram had no enemity with Bali. He just supported Sugreev whose wife was in similar condition that of Sita. But Ravan is Ram's enemy. If Vibishan had told Rajdharma Ram would have understood his intention is to become king after Ravan's death. He is planning to give a stable government to praja of Lanka and also take forward asura culture. But telling Rajdharma would have jeopardized Vibishan because that will kind of show his selfishness to rule the kingdom leaving his brother who is in trouble. So as a man he can leave Ram also if he sees an oppourtunity. Basically Vibishan will be seen as an oppourtunist.
What does Vibishan tell. He tells love is over and above all dharma. When love is not there dharma doesn't have any meaning. So he stands as a man who has left the place devoid of love for him and he doesn't have any desire to claim the throne. He is fine just being with Ram if he is accepted, respected for his views and can experience love in the company. Desires don't feed the man.
So here we need to understand Lord has a way of knowing who you are, what you are. His questions you will not understand what he is seeking. But from your answers or choices he defines you. Only the truthful can understand the depth of his questions or the way he is testing you. Because his intention is known only when you pass the test. If you fail, he will keep on testing you till you pass.
Now Sita. She is not real Sita. We all have seen Meghnadh coudlnt touch the real Sita. Sita has a strong freewill. Then how did he manage to send her. It is his Maya. I feel if Maya Sita had touched Ram something would have happened. Like kiss of poison. It is here we need to see the Asur Maya. Noone is able to understand the Maya except Vibishan. That's why it is always said to take on power we need insider information and we need to ensure our strategy doesn't go out also.