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Today I couldnt wait making this topic. Because it touched upon the most important aspect of human relationships. Communication. A distraught Kaikeyi comes to the princes room. She tries to wake up Ram, but the mother in her doesnt want to disturb the child. But Ram sensing her presence gets up. Kaikeyi asks him to sleep. But he says she has to speak for whatever she has come . If he was in her position he would have spoken. Kaikeyi opens up her mind. She asks is expectation bad. Is it not right to feel bad when you dont get something you expect. Is it selfishness.
Ram says no it is fine to feel bad, but it becomes selfishness when we try not to come out of it. Or rather doesnt try to find a solution to our problem. It becomes much bigger problem when we dont communicate rightly at the right time. Relations need communication and the clearer they are, the relations remain intact.
Once again Ram shows his emphatheic nature. Without judging he is able to listen. He is able to offer wisdom that is beyond his age. And yes the distraught Kaikeyi's mind for the time being finds solace in the eyes and words of her son.
And we also need to realize the importance of communication at the right time. We think about past, we plan for future. But do we observe the present. The only real time we have. If we learn to observe it, act at the right time, communicate at the right time half our problems will solved.
It was the lack of communication between Dasrath and Kausalya that widened the gap between them. Again it was the lack of communication to Kaikeyi at the right time is making Kaikeyi feeling uneasy.
Whereas if you see Ram observes the present. He asks directions for his problems. Communicate the right way to people concerned. Brings solace to everyone concerned helping them open up.
learn to communicate. Be emphathic, understand, listen, observe and believe without you knowing you will learn to bring harmony to your inner self and then to the outside world.
Anupamaa
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
