If a woman does not want to have a relationship with you, she will make it clear, but in womanese. Watch out for these tell tale signs that say loud and clear that she does not want a relationship with you: You are a nice guy but', 'you remind me of my brother', 'I enjoy being 'single', 'I need my space', 'We need to talk', 'I'm not that kind of a girl' or 'I've not thought of you that way' — all these mean just one thing. 'I'd rather die than date you.'