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I know mishti galat hai...jo kuch bhi vo kar raha hai sahi nahi hai...main use justify nahi kar rahi hoon...she is wrong...vo sirf pari ke baare mein sochti hai...not about herself and ruhaan...lekin uski ye decision se pari ki..uski and ruhaan.teenom ki life barbad hoga...agar aisa hua to mishti ki vajah se hua hai...ye misunderstandings usne create kiya hai.(vo ye clear kar sakti thi...lekin nahi kiya...agar kiya to drama kaise hoga)she is wrong mujhe koi doubt nahi hai... lekin jis tarah se uski bashing ho raha hai...(some words used here)is not good...mujhe galat laga...meine kaha...

Hi Milli 🤗

Thanks for replying

If what you are saying is how writers are writings and intending Pari's character to be, then it adds a layer to her bland characterization. What I see in this show is lazy and scared writing, they have to add a triangle between two sisters but they are too afraid of giving RiHaan scenes where Ruhaan helps Pari as a friend and she is mistaking it, they tried but the backlash was too much. They just go in "Assume kar lo" mode where Dadi and Pari both believe that Ruhaan loves her, screenplay is telling us that Pari and Ruhaan are OPENLY friends where Mishti and Ruhaan have been successful in hiding their relationship, even though they have had millions of romantic scenes in the house. I personally would like to see a little grey shade in Pari's character, I don't like white, mahan characters.

I have a different take on Mishti, Mauli asked her to do two things 1 Let go of her past 2 Take a decision which helps her sleep at night.

Mishti is image conscious, she has lived her life not wanting to be like Kunal, if you remember before breaking up with Veer, she thought about Pari equating her to Kunal, she was all ready to get married to Veer because she didn't want to be like Kunal, in the next scene Pari came and assured Mishti that none will judge her, if she breaks up with Veer and Mishti broke up with Veer.

In this she thinks she is in a situation which is similar to Nandini and Mauli's situation, again she doesn't want to be equated to kunal or Nandini, hence this so called sacrifice. It can not be for Pari's happiness, because Mishti took a decision of ending a loveless relationship like a month ago, she said that Veer won't be happy with her, how is she thinking about her sister when she KNOWS that Ruhaan doesn't love Pari? If Veer won't be happy with Mishti, who doesn't love him, how can Mishti's sister be happy with Ruhaan, who doesn't love her?

Above situation is when Ruhaan agrees to be with Pari but how can Mishti decide it for him? How can she be so sure that Ruhaan, who loves her so much will be in love with Pari? What if Ruhaan says no to her plan? How is this for her sister?

If this is out in the open and people around Mishti see that she tried to unite Pari and Ruhaan, tried to stifle her feelings for Ruhaan because Pari loves him then there's a chance of her winning the best sister award, this is why I feel that she is image conscious. Misht can tell Pari that Ruhaan and she is in a relationship, it will make her selfish for a few people but in reality she is doing what is right for Pari, Ruhaan and herself.. She won't do this.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Hi Milli 🤗

Thanks for replying

If what you are saying is how writers are writings and intending Pari's character to be, then it adds a layer to her bland characterization. What I see in this show is lazy and scared writing, they have to add a triangle between two sisters but they are too afraid of giving RiHaan scenes where Ruhaan helps Pari as a friend and she is mistaking it, they tried but the backlash was too much. They just go in "Assume kar lo" mode where Dadi and Pari both believe that Ruhaan loves her, screenplay is telling us that Pari and Ruhaan are OPENLY friends where Mishti and Ruhaan have been successful in hiding their relationship, even though they have had millions of romantic scenes in the house. I personally would like to see a little grey shade in Pari's character, I don't like white, mahan characters.

I have a different take on Mishti, Mauli asked her to do two things 1 Let go of her past 2 Take a decision which helps her sleep at night.

Mishti is image conscious, she has lived her life not wanting to be like Kunal, if you remember before breaking up with Veer, she thought about Pari equating her to Kunal, she was all ready to get married to Veer because she didn't want to be like Kunal, in the next scene Pari came and assured Mishti that none will judge her, if she breaks up with Veer and Mishti broke up with Veer.

In this she thinks she is in a situation which is similar to Nandini and Mauli's situation, again she doesn't want to be equated to kunal or Nandini, hence this so called sacrifice. It can not be for Pari's happiness, because Mishti took a decision of ending a loveless relationship like a month ago, she said that Veer won't be happy with her, how is she thinking about her sister when she KNOWS that Ruhaan doesn't love Pari? If Veer won't be happy with Mishti, who doesn't love him, how can Mishti's sister be happy with Ruhaan, who doesn't love her?

Above situation is when Ruhaan agrees to be with Pari but how can Mishti decide it for him? How can she be so sure that Ruhaan, who loves her so much will be in love with Pari? What if Ruhaan says no to her plan? How is this for her sister?

If this is out in the open and people around Mishti see that she tried to unite Pari and Ruhaan, tried to stifle her feelings for Ruhaan because Pari loves him then there's a chance of her winning the best sister award, this is why I feel that she is image conscious. Misht can tell Pari that Ruhaan and she is in a relationship, it will make her selfish for a few people but in reality she is doing what is right for Pari, Ruhaan and herself.. She won't do this.

Yes you are right Image conscious.Her past has affected her so much .She is confused soul.Her sacrifice is nothing but to prove she is not like Kunal or Nandini.Her hypocrisy is reflected when she herself broke up with Veer but wants the same scenario for Pari.In all these drama I feel a girl like Misti should not fall in love but go for arrange marriage.

Hey Mili,

Ohh! You watched the episode. This thread is fuming.🙊

I am always all in to read everyone's opinion. I agree with most of your views & disagree with few. Will not get into what I agree or what I disagree.

I just know that, I don't like what's happening in the show as of now. For me, everybody, but Ruhaan is irritating & annoying as of now. If Ruhaan goes down the same path, he will also be irritating. I don't want to compare any situation. Just that, I feel, Mishti is totally wrong & she is crushing Ruhaan mercilessly. She could see how desperate he was, then why is she not even trying to understand that he couldn't love pari. It isn't a game to like one game one moment & other game other moment. Anyway, I just wish, in this trip, she chooses Ruhaan and realises that he can't love anybody else & that would be unjust.

About Pari, please. I can't even try to understand her level of delusion. Okay! Mishti told, she doesn't love Ruhaan. But, did Ruhaan say that he loves her? Pari doesn't have the guts to go & ask Ruhaan but, she spread all those rubbish rumours. Eeekss!! She was planning her marriage, too. Seeing that I wanted to bang my head. Huh! 🤦

Then comes dadi, she is so over excited whenever she speaks with Pari. She can't notice Ruhaan, Mishti alone, she can't notice Mishti's dull mood, sadness. She can only notice Pari's delusion. Then, the way she giggles 🙏

Also, read other comments just now, difference is opinions I believe. I try to read & listen & respect other opinions. Bcz, I, myself as biased many times & critisise people 🙊

But, Anshi, that toy wala was overboard. Try to tone down yaar..🙏

Originally posted by: mili9

No, I understand SSSS. I had a bone to pick with Mauli as well, throughout the last few weeks. It doesn't matter who she chose in the end, how she treated Ishaan as an unwanted guy who should have disappeared into thin air, after doing whatever help he had to. That caused a lot of heartburn to me.

@bold...... the intention to do good is not absolute right? Who is she doing good to? She is not intending to do good to Ruhaan, surely👎🏼😭She knows where his heart lies, he told her in no uncertain terms several times that he would rather be dead than alive if he were to live apart from her. Yet, she is choosing to crush his soul, for not even the right reasons. That cheater guy at least had a solid reason even if he went about it the wrong way. This is just to fulfill some useless prophecy of being called a " selfless sister"? I am simply comparing her actions towards a person who loves her above and beyond himself😭

She knows her mother's history, with all the supposed "love", family and years of marriage on her side, her marriage was a disaster. So, shouldn't she think about that for this delusional sissy? Does she think that she can forever manipulate Ruhaan? 😡

Mili, I agree with most of the things want you are saying some how I couldn't get it when Mishti's actions are compared with Kunal's .. so I said that. I think you are also agreeing in this post that though Mauli had choosen Ishaan as the end game there always was that scenarios where he was not utmost priority for her, where she is the one for him. Here I find it so similar to Mishaan. And I think when Mauli has choosen Ishaan , I know that she finally got it what is her priorities in her life from then onwards . She was so sure. Though it was the end I can totally feel that ishaan might have got the love and care from her which he deserves.

And coming to Mishaan what Mishti is doing is totally wrong there is no doubt in it. She has taken Ruhaan for granted. Her Ruhaan, after all. She can expect anything from him even if it is him leaving her is what she wishes from him.. He will grant her.Immediately he may not. But slowly he may .. That's how she is looking at this situation. She is not feeling it as impossible. And she looked that she is very well aware of what Ruhaan will go through .. She is feeling guilty of it too(there was a monologue of Mishti when Ruhaan was exited about the outing and also Mishti looked so worried for him when he is asking about the flowers)...She is not trying to justify herself then I am not her to justify either. I am not supporting her decision ..she is totally stupid for doing this but I can't question her intentions.. I can't feel that she wants a tag of selfless sister so she is doing this.. if this is what she wanted then she could have told to Pari and everyone that it's truth that she and Ruhaan are in relationship but she will give it to Pari if Pari wants.. but she is not doing that ..she is not telling anyone that she is in relationship with Ruhaan and she is sacrifying.. that is not for any tag or for any image.. I am so angry and super annoyed with the character Mishti but I can't hate her.. and I can't see her actions like Kunal's ... I hated that character Kunal.. Kudos to the actor portraying the character..

Moreover I likes last two episodes. I can see the worried Ruhaan. I can see Mishti suffering which is giving me a sadistic pleasure. 🤪

Originally posted by: NamrataRa

In all these it looks Misti is more concerned that people will compare her with Kunal.She is protecting herself in sibling love.Cvs are totally at fault.More than sacrifice it looks like damage control from Misti's side.

I like both actors.Infact I am a fan of Teju.Watched all her shows specially SR & KS but I will not support the character just bec I am her fan.About her acting what Mili has doubt she looks confused in most of the scenes for e.g yesterday at car parking & today during driving.I think both the actors have lost the plot cvs to be blamed.

Mishti used to be sensetive for her image of not being Kunal's daughter .. but I think at the time of her break up with Veer , she overcame that. She doesn't care about it anymore. If her image is only thing which is bothering her..then she would not have been doing what all she is doing now.. like she has choosen love over commitment overcoming the fear of getting a tag of Kunal's daughter ..now also she could have choose live over sister bond easily..

I think Mishti looking confused in that driving scene or in all those scenes with Ruhaan is due to her conflicting emotions.. she is feeling it wrong when he is with her but at the same time she can't push him away since she got used to his presence so much... One second she smiles before him another second her smile fades .. she looked stressed out. I think the actress to nailed all the scenes witj Ruhaan since he came back. If I have not seen her looking so gut and worried for him when he is asking for flowers which he has sent for her.. I could have never forgiven Mishti ever in this show..

I can barely stand to watch this show anymore... took me forever to get through the last few episodes because I kept starting and stopping out of disgust. Everyone has lost their minds, no one deserves sympathy except Ruhaan. Poor guy has no idea what madhouse he's in. Everyone considers him their object to do as they please. Mishti following her mother's footsteps in treating the guy who truly loves her like garbage in order to cater to all the selfish people. I cannot even put full blame on Pari for her delusions anymore, Mishti made sure she was now complicit in building this castle in the sky. You idiot, Pari had even given you an out. Now she will be even more shattered when the truth comes out, and you think you were protecting your sister from heartbreak! Mishti had been acting too sensibly up to this point, I guess that had to be rectified. I am just waiting for the writers to also sacrifice Ruhaan's character on the alter of bad plot devices so I can fully give up on this nonsense. Anyway, I have not said anything not already mentioned in this thread, but I had to get it off my chest.

Good evening girls !!

Thanks for all opinions. Liked to read them. Different view points, different perspectives, apne apne interpretations. I understand this drill all too well !

I don't plan to watch today till somebody tells me. I am getting irritated with Mishti's expression of repulsion towards Ruhaan, as if he is making unwanted advances. Kuch bolti toh, he will understand right? You can't make unilateral decisions and act as if the other party is not complying.

Now, I guess will be Ruhaan's turn. If, he says that he doesn't care for this childhood friend to get his happiness, as it is betrayal to his own soul, but yeh delusional friend needs to get her delusions fulfilled for her own happiness, because of XYZ, whatever, the show is cooked for good for me😡I don't care what his reasons will be, whether it is because he will do whatever Mishti asks him to do, or because of her stupid kasams or because he can't see .......... rolling on the floor crying, I WILL BE DONE WITH HIM too💔. I wish they give me this, so I can end my misery😈Don't kill me guys. I know I am not being fair, but I started already resenting this very likely possibility.

If this is what the writers are planning, as it looks like they are going to go all out with depravity, who really should the audience root for? For whose happiness or justice should we be watching this for? I know I am jumping the gun, but my gut tells me that Ruhaan's turn is next. My chotu Mishti toh completely gayi, unless they show her in momentary insanity. That is the only defense I will take, if they need to turn this show around😭

Sorry, people to be in your face again with my outlandish observations. I really wanted to respond and elaborate some of these observations, but I don't feel like it with the way they are shaping this up🤢I can't believe the writers have decided to kill their own child effectively. Who is really enjoying this crap?😡 Anybody know how the ratings are doing?

Somebody please give an update when possible😒

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

Mili, I agree with most of the things want you are saying some how I couldn't get it when Mishti's actions are compared with Kunal's .. so I said that. I think you are also agreeing in this post that though Mauli had choosen Ishaan as the end game there always was that scenarios where he was not utmost priority for her, where she is the one for him. Here I find it so similar to Mishaan. And I think when Mauli has choosen Ishaan , I know that she finally got it what is her priorities in her life from then onwards . She was so sure. Though it was the end I can totally feel that ishaan might have got the love and care from her which he deserves.

And coming to Mishaan what Mishti is doing is totally wrong there is no doubt in it. She has taken Ruhaan for granted. Her Ruhaan, after all. She can expect anything from him even if it is him leaving her is what she wishes from him.. He will grant her.Immediately he may not. But slowly he may .. That's how she is looking at this situation. She is not feeling it as impossible. And she looked that she is very well aware of what Ruhaan will go through .. She is feeling guilty of it too(there was a monologue of Mishti when Ruhaan was exited about the outing and also Mishti looked so worried for him when he is asking about the flowers)...She is not trying to justify herself then I am not her to justify either. I am not supporting her decision ..she is totally stupid for doing this but I can't question her intentions.. I can't feel that she wants a tag of selfless sister so she is doing this.. if this is what she wanted then she could have told to Pari and everyone that it's truth that she and Ruhaan are in relationship but she will give it to Pari if Pari wants.. but she is not doing that ..she is not telling anyone that she is in relationship with Ruhaan and she is sacrifying.. that is not for any tag or for any image.. I am so angry and super annoyed with the character Mishti but I can't hate her.. and I can't see her actions like Kunal's ... I hated that character Kunal.. Kudos to the actor portraying the character..

Moreover I likes last two episodes. I can see the worried Ruhaan. I can see Mishti suffering which is giving me a sadistic pleasure. 🤪

How is she not wanting selfless sister...isn't she doing all this so she get that tag of selfless sister ...why would she tell pari ...then pari will want her happiness so.she dont wabt to.tell pari at all she want it all by herself and sleep peacefully at night that she gave her sister her fav toy .ie Ruhan.

Mauli never played games ..she was confused because she had a daughter with kunal..here mishti is playing games ..pushing pari in delusion ,using veer etc..

How is her intent any good ...where is she worried about ruhaan and what will happen to him ?..what if he dies ,what if he hate entire family ...will pari get her fav toy then ?

So just because Ruhan loves her she want him to die ?

Originally posted by: mili9

Good evening girls !!

Thanks for all opinions. Liked to read them. Different view points, different perspectives, apne apne interpretations. I understand this drill all too well !

I don't plan to watch today till somebody tells me. I am getting irritated with Mishti's expression of repulsion towards Ruhaan, as if he is making unwanted advances. Kuch bolti toh, he will understand right? You can't make unilateral decisions and act as if the other party is not complying.

Now, I guess will be Ruhaan's turn. If, he says that he doesn't care for this childhood friend to get his happiness, as it is betrayal to his own soul, but yeh delusional friend needs to get her delusions fulfilled for her own happiness, because of XYZ, whatever, the show is cooked for good for me😡I don't care what his reasons will be, whether it is because he will do whatever Mishti asks him to do, or because of her stupid kasams or because he can't see .......... rolling on the floor crying, I WILL BE DONE WITH HIM too💔. I wish they give me this, so I can end my misery😈Don't kill me guys. I know I am not being fair, but I started already resenting this very likely possibility.

If this is what the writers are planning, as it looks like they are going to go all out with depravity, who really should the audience root for? For whose happiness or justice should we be watching this for? I know I am jumping the gun, but my gut tells me that Ruhaan's turn is next. My chotu Mishti toh completely gayi, unless they show her in momentary insanity. That is the only defense I will take, if they need to turn this show around😭

Sorry, people to be in your face again with my outlandish observations. I really wanted to respond and elaborate some of these observations, but I don't feel like it with the way they are shaping this up🤢I can't believe the writers have decided to kill their own child effectively. Who is really enjoying this crap?😡 Anybody know how the ratings are doing?

Somebody please give an update when possible😒

Show has slipped on web from 1 to 6 😂

So even audience who watch it for story have left...

Oh yes they will try to sacrifice ruhaan too..

I.would suggest u better stop the show mili not worth it .

The writers are obsessed with showing world.best sisters..

And how.mishti os bestest sister amd.pari too.

Ruhan.is a mere toy for.these girls...

And they feel bad for him as per convenience ..