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Posted: 6 years ago
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To me falling out of love is acceptable if your partner is ignoring you completely, not spending time with you, not tending to your needs (physically or emotionally), do not care about you, belittle you, abuses you etc etc. and even after you raise your concerns to him.her, they continue to do that to you. When you are in a committed relationship where your partner is doing everything in his/her power to take care of you but you hide your true feelings from him and fall for someone better that comes along for no mistake of your partner, it Can not be justified.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


@Bold : If there is a chance of a relationship working then the person is not out of love, is he?
If someone is working on her relationship, means he or she wants to hold on to it,They can fall in love again, without a doubt, many people make adjustments because living with each other is easier than living without each other but the point I am making here is that, there's no rule that everyone has to work on it, what if one feels that they are not happy?

Just live in an unhappy marriage because years ago you made a commitment?




But what I am saying is, why would anyone fall out of love without any strong reasons? Love isn't a joke that you fall out without any reason; there are always very strong reasons behind it.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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falling out of love without any reason and start loving another person is term as play boy or play girl. in other words it is called awaragardi
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Falling out love-I despise the term for some reason.
Anything is acceptable under the sun if it has some logic & valid reason behind this.
1st of all, that stupid term doesn't even apply if you are not in love with the other person. If It's just relationship which you think would bring stability in your life. Just those "I'm okay as long as nothing is hurting me emotionally & love will happen eventually " type of relationship.

But, when a relationship start with love, with mutual respect, understanding, passion, when you are able to understand the person without them saying anything , everything that requires for them to be in love with each other & suddenly one of saying " I don't love him/her anymore, things just changed,I can't seem to commit to this person anymore" it's hurtful. You don't fall out of love just like that. You obviously has your reason & that reason mostly has do with with them " falling in love with someone else" which is just.. :/

They say it's okay but it's my own opinion that it is not okay. Just not okay.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

falling out of love without any reason and start loving another person is term as play boy or play girl. in other words it is called awaragardi



Meaning of playboy/playgirl is mentioned below in link

https://www.yourdictionary.com/playboy

https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/playboy

Playboy/play girl means A wealthy man/woman who spends his/her time enjoying himself/herself , especially one who behaves irresponsibly or has many casual sexual relationships.

Play boy/play girl word has nothing to do with falling in or falling out of love.

Playboy/play girl is very irrelevant word to use for mishti and ruhaan.

One should dislike any character as much as they want and I am not stopping you from disliking them .

All I am saying is you have used irrelevant word for them which can be look as bashing.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

it is not irrelevant word


It is not relevant for Mishti/Ruhaan as per English dictionary definition.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37
so what is revelant word of mishty and ruhaan

btw I use in word in general term
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Posted: 6 years ago
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To be honest, i find Love as an OVERRATED CONCEPT that is being hyped by movies and serials over decades😆

Coming to the main concept, i think there is no way for falling out of love, unless the partner physically/sexually abuses the person! If the person is true to his/her partner & are happy with each other, then there is no reason to fall out of love practically even with the interference of a third person!

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