Is it easy? - Page 9

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@ChickSoup

We all know Mishti and Veer are not for each other, Mishti is cringing and making faces whenever he is touching her, what is she trying to make work and for whom? I don't see her thinking about Veer, (It doesn't mean that she is thinking about Ruhaan), her focus is solely on not being like Kunal, so she will go in an unhappy marriage and make a mess of someone's life because she is afraid of being like her father? Shouldn't she end this? What is she working on exactly?

The thing is that it won't do her or Veer any good, if she keeps dragging this, she should think about Veer and herself and end this. Even if she wants to be with Ruhaan, she has to end this relationship with Veer, I don't get the point of working on something which is dead and prolonging it

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

about traits that mishti share with her mumma -

her being the main bread winner of the house

keeping everybody s happiness over hers always looking out for her loved ones being their for them standing by them like a rock

valuing her relationship thinking alot before taking any step just so that nobody gets hurt

these qualities are something which she gets from her mother

Originally posted by: Sanam_26

Depends on what u term as cheating. I m talking about emotional cheating which nobody can deny otherwise her FEELINGS for tuhaan be termed as mere attraction.

Mishti started herself? They showed? Pari is helping and learning and she is contributing her time and energy to company. How is it mishti only earning? Biasdness at its peak.

Mishti's order 😆
Yea otherwise Pari doesn't give a damn about family?

And this is not biasdness then what is?

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

mishti is loyal i have not seen her cheat i dont know which shows you are watching

pari is still learning mishti has to correct her at every step so yes mishti is main bread winner its her company she was one who started

well i have only seen mishti taking her family pari does everything that mishti asks her to if someday they shows pari or ansh taking care of the family we will see

mishti takes all the final decision of that house

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Mishti thinks she will hurt Veer as well as her and his family, if she pulls back now. She is trying not to think of herself even if the bonding has become weaker with Veer. Radhika has clearly told her there is NO GOING BACK - so obviously she thinks she can't go back. Why do you think the cards arrived in such a hurry .😆It is to tell Mishti she can't reconsider, so she won't. She has been told SHE CAN'T! by her esteemed grandmother...

What if Ruhaan dies tomorrow? You will still say Mishti can't marry someone else? She might. If she knows the full extent of her feelings by then, she would share it with her partner. If she doesn't feel her husband will understand her, she may not even share. ( For eg. Even when Mauli was engaged to Ishaan who was the most sensitive and broad minded guy, she couldn't confess her confusion regarding Kunal to him. )

In Mishti's mind, even if Ruhaan is not dead, even if she can't get him out of her house, she has to kill those feelings. That's all she has to do, and all she can do, since she is trapped. She can only make sure her feelings don't overpower her desire to protect her and Veer's family honor. This is her selfless act actually, which is being misread.

Mishti will cringe for some time because she doesn't feel that emotionally close with him. He didn't support her well during the biggest embarrassment she had to face, he made it worse in fact. This was their first major low point.

In due course, since she feels they are compatible in every way, she must think things will be back to what it was. Until the point she knows she can't go through with this .

Originally posted by: Sanam_26

Sole bread earner she is not. Pari is equally there.
Valuing relationships? Seeing how much she values her fianc. She is not worried if he will be hurt or not, all she cares about is to not be labelled as daddy dear.
Mauli values all relations, not the selected ones only. Mauli never PROJECTED a fake image. Mauli never smiled and lied so blatantly.

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

mishti is loyal i have not seen her cheat i dont know which shows you are watching

pari is still learning mishti has to correct her at every step so yes mishti is main bread winner its her company she was one who started

well i have only seen mishti taking her family pari does everything that mishti asks her to if someday they shows pari or ansh taking care of the family we will see

mishti takes all the final decision of that house

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Mishti thinks she will hurt Veer as well as her and his family, if she pulls back now. She is trying not to think of herself even if the bonding has become weaker with Veer. Radhika has clearly told her there is NO GOING BACK - so obviously she thinks she can't go back. Why do you think the cards arrived in such a hurry . 😆 It is to tell Mishti she can't reconsider, so she won't. She has been told SHE CAN'T! by her esteemed grandmother...

What if Ruhaan dies tomorrow? You will still say Mishti can't marry someone else? She might. If she knows the full extent of her feelings by then, she would share it with her partner. If she doesn't feel her husband will understand her, she may not even share. ( For eg. Even when Mauli was engaged to Ishaan who was the most sensitive and broad minded guy, she couldn't confess her confusion regarding Kunal to him. )

In Mishti's mind, even if Ruhaan is not dead, even if she can't get him out of her house, she has to kill those feelings. That's all she has to do, and all she can do, since she is trapped. She can only make sure her feelings don't overpower her desire to protect her and Veer's family honor. This is her selfless act actually, which is being misread.

Mishti will cringe for some time because she doesn't feel that emotionally close with him. He didn't support her well during the biggest embarrassment she had to face, he made it worse in fact. This was their first major low point.

In due course, since she feels they are compatible in every way, she must think things will be back to what it was. Until the point she knows she can't go through with this .

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

I know comparision isnt allowed, but then i just couldn't stop myself from asking - there was a set of fandom who feels that Mishti is emotionally cheating Veer, do you guys remember mauli dreaming/remembering Kunal while with Ishaan? weren't people going gaga over it back then and saying that maunal are meant to be, It is true love and what not? Wasnt Mauli engaged to Ishaan back then? Why was it that no one claimed that Mauli was cheating with Ishaan back then?

If i remember correctly, Mauli walked out of her sangeet with Ishaan to save Kunal. Why was it not wrong then, and why is Mishti wrong now?

It is the emotional turmoil that Mauli went through and she chose what she felt was true love. Does it mean that Mauli cheated Ishaan or Kunal for that matter? Similarly, now in this season Mishti is going through an emotional turmoil currently. We are not sure of the end game yet. May be Mishti wouldnt want to break up with Veer? May be she would end up with him, understanding that what she feels for Ruhaan is an attraction! May be Veer would himself free her off from the engagement because he doesnt see the compatibility with Mishti any longer? Can we please not blame Mishti for something which hasnt happened yet, just assuming that she is cheating Veer?

Why should the comparison only happen between Kunan and Mauli? and why not Mauhaan and Kunal?

Originally posted by: sheen97

Ok i seriously i have a major doubt what should mishti do ?

If after having doubtful feelings or confused feelings she enjoys physical.proximity with veer, then also she will be wrong

If she is feeling uncomfortable with veers touch which technically she should then also she is wrong

She didnt even think of Ruhaan as a romantic partner still she is wronng

What should she do?

Dont you guys think for a girl like mishti just to accept that she chose a wrong guy for her will be a big deal bcz it means her belief will be broken

It happens with everyone we humans are very uncomfortable and stubborn when it comes to our belief we dont easily accept that we are wrong

Plz can we just stop scrutinize mishtis her actions

And how can a person lie when she herself doesnt know what is happeni g to her