When did Mishti and Ruhaan cheat Veer? - Page 6

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Agreed, Veer never said that to Misti.

He didn't leave things hanging. He told Misti clearly that he doesn't know this Misti. Since, everyone has interpreted this in their own way, my interpretation is that he doesn't understand Misti frequent UNRATIONAL outbursts (not outbursts). As portrayed so far, Veer was hurt, disappointed and left. Misti could have understood Veer's point of view too. She was a kid in S1, not S2. This long and so many incidents to understand whether you are still in love with the guy you are committed to. Misti is not that naive.

Misti has been kind of selfish and is hanging on to Veer till she understands her own feelings as regards Ruhaan. If she was more mature and selfless, she would have told Veer that she is feeling an emotional turmoil and wants a break from their relationship for some time to understand her own feelings. This is the way you treat someone you care for, forget love or are committed to.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

And how does telling Mishti that he doesn't understand Mishti convey to her he needs time? Mishti might not have fully understood Veer's POV (which I doubt) because she is calling and messaging him, apologising to him. And how often has Mishti had irrational outbursts in front of Veer? As far as I can count, it's 2-3. As for the last outburst, it resulted in a irrational outcome, but had rational triggers with Pari being molested and Ansh smoking. But why is it that only Mishti should understand Veer's POV. Why isn't Veer understanding her POV? Why isn't he talking to her and asking her about them? He has had so many opportunities to ask. Relationship is a 2 way street and he too needs to take the initiative.

As for Mishti hanging onto Veer till she understands her feelings for Ruhaan, this is your assumption as you have your perspective of what will happen in the future. Mishti is a character that doesn't know the future. To her, as of now, she thinks she is in love with Veer and is confused about her newfound feeling for Ruhaan. Or else, she wouldn't have said the dialogue she is in love with Veer because that is what she thinks. Once she understands that she isn't in love with Veer, yes she should take a break to sort her feelings out before pursuing anything further.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

I agree mostly with you, but disagree with the part about Ruhaan. Ruhaan might be harbouring feelings for Mishti but he has never acted on them. And why think he might be controlling himself because of Mishti? It may be the other way around. He might be controlling himself for his friend Veer. If Ruhaan really wanted to be insensitive of Veer's feelings and act on his own feelings, all he had to do was take advantage of the current breach between Veer and Mishti and poison Mishti's mind against Veer or at least confuse her even more. Which he hasn't done.