Ruhaan coming off as shallow

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ramita94

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Posted: 6 years ago

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That scene that you're talking about I think he meant that he could not leave because he's a paying guest/or he's veer's friends whose covering his wedding or dadi asked him to as they need some financial support. < Honestly not sure about this point because I haven't been watching full episodes just clips and the episodes lately don't seem worth it. But yeah it should have been clear why he couldn't leave otherwise he just seems lazy like oh no she's pretty sleeping on the sofa I can't leave now. But yeah I think with ITV you have to assume alot of stuff because the writers don't both with explanations etc, even I didn't follow s1 so closely so didn't understand how Kunal just fell in love with Nandani just by seeing her rain dance, beauty and how she was beaten up by her husband.

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an_am

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Posted: 6 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Thanks for responding! I was wondering whether I missed something but apparently not lmao. Why did they even show him attempting to leave when they didn't want to show his reasoning for staying back after all :/

he just looked at sleeping mishti and stayed back.. he said to himself how can i leave.. apparently juzbaat took over him..

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Indira1211
yes lol..maybe we just have to be patient ...but they actually didn't give Kunal enough monologues in s1 so we never really got to know why he left Mauli,,But hopefully they'll do a better job in S2 😊

Ruhaan is al ready shown much more sensible as a person than Kunal in S2. Even at the very intial stage of his feelings itself, Ruhaan had a monologue that he couldn't feel like this, which can destroy many lives. And he looked guilty for having those feelings.

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Indira

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: .SSS.

Ruhaan is al ready shown much more sensible as a person than Kunal in S2. Even at the very intial stage of his feelings itself, Ruhaan had a monologue that he couldn't feel like this, which can destroy many lives. And he looked guilty for having those feelings.

Even after sleeping with Nandini, Kunal wasn't having any monologue thinking about other people involved in his life and how it can affect them.

Ruhaan and Mishty are good decent characters and I'm sure they will stay that way. We can never compare Ruhaan and mishty with kunal and nandu,. It will be an insult to mishaan...I said this in another post,..there's no comparison between the two couples . sorry maybe I wasn't clear .. I only meant that sometimes in silsila we don't get to know how the characters feel because of a lack of dialogues and I just used Kunal as an example,.😊

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Nushrat

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Posted: 6 years ago

#15

I agree with this post mostly.

Ruhaan till now, does look decent enough to me. He hasn't taken any advantage of the proximity he shares with Mishti & neither has Mishti so far.

So characterwise, they seem ok.

But what I am disliking so far is the way they are portraying the whole scenario.

I have been reading comments like how there is a gradual progression and all. But I think, if the writer really wanted a MishAan end game, they shouldn't have included Veer in the first place.

I have always maintained and I still do that falling out of love isn't wrong. It's the deliberate cheating that ruined KuNan for me in the first place.

And in case of this season, I am actually disheartened that a lot of viewers think Veer won't be as hurt as Mauli was because they are not married. 😲 😲 😲

I am keeping my hopes up that Mishti won't follow her father's footstep and cheat. And in fact it would be better if she breaks up with Veer in the first place to save him from the agony in future.

But at the same time, they are showing they MishVeer have known each other for a long time and then decided to get married. Mark my words, people date frequently but they don't decide to get married just because he is SAFE. But that's real life scenario, so moving on.

If you have decided to get married to a person and that too without your family's interference, then you people definitely share a strong understanding. So, if you now show Mishti never showed her true self to Veer then sorry to say, it's on her. It has nothing to do with Veer not understanding her.

Once again, I am pissed off at the writer for introducing so many triangles in the first place without any proper characterization.

Edited by nushy1995 - 6 years ago

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chirpyhapibird

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Posted: 6 years ago

#16

i hate kunal and nandini ...but Ruhaan is more shallow...a stranger pulling a woman's hair...Plzz !!...There is nothing hot about it...he is a creep...and about mishaan...there is nothing but sexual attraction...sexual attraction will soon turn into ...love...

Ruhaan has no business staying in house...when he is attracted to friend's wife to be...Please Mr.Hottie...go away...

If mishti would have married veer out of arranged marriage feeling...and then Ruhaan...comes in her life...then what ???

S2 is no better than s1...

.except there is no marriage...

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Ardhanarishwara

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Posted: 6 years ago

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First of all I wonder why people say Ruhaan is attracted to her beauty only and nothing else since they have no proper conversation with each other.. We don't need to have a conversation with the person to get an idea about him/her.. Ruhaan is living with Mishti and her family for almost a month now.. And they have shown him as a keen observer. Also everyone in the house almost worship mishti and talks about her all the time, and veer might have talked a lot about his fiancee to his best friend from the time he got into a relationship.. Ruhaan has heard and observed enough about Mishti to get an idea of the person she is.. He has seen her goodside with her beloveds, her outburst, her insecurities and all.. So I don't agree with people saying he doesn't know mishti at all and he is only attracted to her beauty.. There is much more to Mishti than being a gorgeous face and Ruhaan is exposed to a lot of such qualities in her by now.

And about Ruhaan not fighting against the feelings he has developed for his friends fiancee.. Initially even I felt why is he behaving like its normal.. But now I am kind of understanding him.. In the beginning he was shown guilty but now I think has made peace with the feeling.. He is neither perusing it nor resisting it. He knows mishti does not like him at all, so he doesn't stand a chance. Since he has accepted his feelings and the fact that it's never going to get reciprocated he has made peace with it and is able to be calm about it. While on the other Mishti is trying to suppress the feelings and that's where the problem starts.. When you try to suppress something it comes out more forcefully..I have a friend who is in a relationship for 10yrs..But she is the one who drools the most over hot guys/great guys more thanna us single ones nd she even drools over other mens looks /personality infront of her boyfriend and he is cool with it. And she says, just because you are in a relationship, you will not get immune to other men.. You will still get attracted and all..we should accept that its okay to get attracted to other men..But mishti is not like any other girls.. Her past wounds and insecurities are making her react strongly to everything that can harm her perfect life.. And the fact that she kind of knows Ruhaan has feelings for her makes it more complicated for her.

MisHaan attracted me instantly because of the freshness they offered.. But now a days I find something missing in the story.. The flow is not smooth and sometimes things looks abrupt..its their chemistry that's saving it for me.. I have started doubting the capability of the writers to give a passionate taboo love story..

Edited by Ardhanarishwara - 6 years ago

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Indira

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Posted: 6 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: nushy1995
I agree with this post mostly.

Ruhaan till now, does look decent enough to me. He hasn't taken any advantage of the proximity he shares with Mishti & neither has Mishti so far.

So characterwise, they seem ok.

But what I am disliking so far is the way they are portraying the whole scenario.

I have been reading comments like how there is a gradual progression and all. But I think, if the writer really wanted a MishAan end game, they shouldn't have included Veer in the first place.

I have always maintained and I still do that falling out of love isn't wrong. It's the deliberate cheating that ruined KuNan for me in the first place.

And in case of this season, I am actually disheartened that a lot of viewers think Veer won't be as hurt as Mauli was because they are not married. 😲 😲 😲

I am keeping my hopes up that Mishti won't follow her father's footstep and cheat. And in fact it would be better if she breaks up with Veer in the first place to save him from the agony in future.

But at the same time, they are showing they MishVeer have known each other for a long time and then decided to get married. Mark my words, people date frequently but they don't decide to get married just because he is SAFE. But that's real life scenario, so moving on.
If you have decided to get married to a person and that too without your family's interference, then you people definitely share a strong understanding. So, if you now show Mishti never showed her true self to Veer then sorry to say, it's on her. It has nothing to do with Veer not understanding her.

Once again, I am pissed off at the writer for introducing so many triangles in the first place without any proper characterization.

I also felt that there was no need for veers character...but this show is called silsila badalte rishton ka...so it is about the changing of relationships...and here in this show they've made it about the changing of partners ..so that's what it is ...they actually have not hidden the plot from us,.even in S1 they made the synopsis clear from even before the show started that it was about a woman having an Ema with her best friends husband ..so the makers have been honest with us.., but I think cheating, and the breaking up of relationships and good people getting hurt is painful ...and this whole concept is such that it is a painful and hurtful reality..and I think. We viewers dislike watching good decent people get hurt. We didn't like seeing Mauli get so hurt in. S1/ and now in S2 some people are upset that veer will be hurt,..But I suppose when we started watching this show we should have realized that this is exactly what we signed up for,

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Nushrat

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Posted: 6 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Indira1211
I also felt that there was no need for veers character...but this show is called silsila badalte rishton ka...so it is about the changing of relationships...and here in this show they've made it about the changing of partners ..so that's what it is ...they actually have not hidden the plot from us,.even in S1 they made the synopsis clear from even before the show started that it was about a woman having an Ema with her best friends husband ..so the makers have been honest with us.., but I think cheating, and the breaking up of relationships and good people getting hurt is painful ...and this whole concept is such that it is a painful and hurtful reality..and I think. We viewers dislike watching good decent people get hurt. We didn't like seeing Mauli get so hurt in. S1/ and now in S2 some people are upset that veer will be hurt,..But I suppose when we started watching this show we should have realized that this is exactly what we signed up for,

Yes, definitely. We sign up for a show knowing its' plot and some of us, when our favorite actors are in it.

But honestly, I feel makers of this particular show goes with the flow.

I for one, never really felt that it was about EMA. And there was an article of DD where she had said it's not about EMA but complications in a couple's story. Thanks to social media, these days, people jump to conclusions very swiftly. Even before the show came on air, people were vocal about their disapproval of EMA. In fact, that's the reason I hadn't watched starting it back then. When I did, I noticed even on the 1st episode there were tons of negative comments that don't make Nandini fell for Kunal and so on.

And that's the thing. In the promo, both KuNan explicitly told that they loved Mauli and couldn't hurt her. So, I could definitely watch a show where the leads are trying hard to honor their long-term relationships and not disregarding it for JAZZBAT.

But due to the pressure from channel and some over enthusiastic fans of KuNan in SM, they moved from the original story and tried so hard to make it look DIVINE.

Believe me, I don't dislike any of the sisters or actors here. In fact, I really liked Tejaswi in RLHN and like Pari more as I can relate to her more being the youngest sibling in my family. But with each episode, it feels like they are trying to justify JAZZBAT again just in a new angle. This time it's not divine but progressiveness.

And I certainly, hadn't sign up for a show with half-baked characters who will go any way as the majority would want them. So, personally, I am feeling S2 is even shittier than S1.

Plus, Aditi, Dhrasti, Shakti and Abhinav has raised the bar way too much. Tejaswi and Kunal are good and so are others but they just do not evoke the feeling like the older cast did.

It's strictly a personal opinion. I am not a hater or anything.

Edited by nushy1995 - 6 years ago

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Jiya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Mystique.Kishi
I know this post will not be appreciated by a majority of fans here as most of them seem to be hardcore mishaan shippers as of late. But this needs to be said.
I have a question exclusively for Ruhaan. What exactly is it about mishti that you are so attracted to except her beauty ? What do you know about her in the first place ? What qualities of her have you so smitten that you are willing to betray a friend to have her for yourself ? Except lust. That is.
As a season one watcher of silsila the one thing that totally made me hate kundini was that kunal fell for her after rain dance and kheer. But even then there was more because he was her emotional support from rajveer.(Still hated their guts)
But yaha toh woh bhi nahi hai. There have been zero bonding moments for mishaan so far. Zero. Only tashan . Outright humiliation. Khule baal and kisses. Bhai Ruhaan tu itne pe ispe mar mitne ko taiyaar hai.
The thing that irks me the most is he is very blatant about his want for mishti and he is not even fighting it as hard as mishti. This man is willing to take his friend's girl on the basis of attraction alone. Nahi socho. Imagine gender reversal. Imagine Ruhaan as a girl who is pushing herself onto her friend's boyfriend because she is attracted to him. Unsettling na ?
This is what is turning me completely off the character of Ruhaan especially.
I am not going to hold mishti to fault because she really is trying her best to fight the attraction.
But really. It is basic decency. Do not make moves on your friend's woman or man. That makes you a scumbag. Especially when they are saying no.
Anyways if mishaan is what is in store for us then I need more interactions between them. More heart to heart and mutual understanding. Because right now this is looking like a lust fest. And mishti deserves better

FINALLLY SOMEONE SAID IT👏

I agree with you 100%.

To be honest with you. I didnt like the way they are presenting Mishti either.

How is she feeling all these types of emotions without ANY bonding. They dont even know eachother or never took time to know eachother. It's just Attraction. On what basis is she falling for Ruhaan?? Looks??

Granted that she is trying, i respect her for that but her falling for him doesnt make sense to me. I would really love them if they show more communication between them! 😊

Oh and please no one come attack me lol

I was reading other post saying Atttaction is first step for love. Well, wasnt that same for veer. Now all of sudden it's for Ruhaan. And worse is SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HIM YET lol

But anyways i just wanted to share this too as i didnt want to make a topic about it as i thought it would get closed down.

I hope yours doesnt.

To sum up, I do not hate mishti. I really like her but i dont understand Mishaan at all . Sorry if i offended anyone.