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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angelicdiya


& touching his lips while he was sleeping during holi 😆

off course a girl can be touchy and chirpy but dare her to be rude😡😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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mishti is engaged to veer from the very first day of season 2 .i think they were not a couple before..they might be good friends before like in college...veer proposed to her...she said yes coz she knew him very well...there was no other option for her at that time...but now the way mishti is feeling for ruhaan..i think that is love...she is getting to know what is true love...😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
#43
yes right.that's why I can't understand why cvs are showing over dose of physical intimacy between mishveer when no one is interested in it n the attraction is between mishaan

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes it's hard to put a definition to love because we love different people in different ways. We love our parents, our spouses and our children ...but in different ways..e.g. a parents love for their children is unconditional..so whether children are good to their parents or bad to them ...parents love them irrespective. Romantic love is also different,..and often when romantic love is neglected and not returned ..it dies ..that's why when couples break up or if a woman loves a man but he doesn't love her back..often that love dies and the person often meets someone else and falls in love ...so yes there are different kinds of love. And romantic love that you have for your partner includes physical love where you want physical intimacy as well...that's why attraction is also part of that love...and yes even when couples are married Many years they still find their partners attractive ...that's why women still make an effort to dress up for their man ...as attraction and physical love are part of that romantic love..

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Posted: 6 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: ria_9

well this is not love..
the feelings described by mishti today:
1- bechaini
2- ghabrahat
3- kuch hona
4- thinking 24/7
5- unable to control her emotions
7- anxiety and tachycardia

does this look like love to anyone..
this is plain lust, attraction and infatuation..
first they didnt make mishti realize anything lacking in mishveer's relationship.. didnt show any conversation and mutual understanding between mishaan.. and now these symtoms described by mishti 😆
CVs kia dikhana chahte hain sab samajh main aa raha hai..

Atleast nandhini started loving kunal as he saved her from her evil husband. and later she became selfish for her love. but here misti has no reason to love him. she kisses him and started feeling bechaini. this is just lust.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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mishty is love in with ruhaan. but she is not accepting it. kya Karen bechaari mishty koshish to bahut karti hai ruhaan se door rehne ki pur dil nahi maanta . dil to teji se beat karne lagta hai . see how her heart start beating badly when ruhaan did not wish her aur ruhaan ke paas jaaker birthday wish karwaya
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Posted: 6 years ago
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abhi kul tuk to mishty ne veer ke liye room decorate kiya with flowers and candles . ruhaan ko veer samajh kur romance ho raha tha. abhi kul tuk veer ke liye heart teji se beat karta tha aur aaj ruhaan ke liye heart teji se beat karta hai?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think we'll have to wait for the relationships to evolve, to know what love is.
Right now, Ruhaan's feelings for Mishti describe love best to me.
He cancelled his plans so he could drop her and save her from the summer sun, pursued her to know why she left him so rudely and decided to leave her alone since she seemed to prefer that. .That shows love and respect and concern.

Mishti- her feelings are love too, since she is not able to hate him.despite trying her best. The reason is not physical attraction, she has heard a lot of good things about him, despite what she has done to him. Her discomfort is not physical attraction, it is her sixth sense warning her.

Pari is mistaking a crush for love. She wouldn't be able to survive without Arnav.

Veer- If saying I love you and buying stuff for your girl friend is the definition of love, then he is in love too. After him not wishing her midnight, I wouldn't call him.the perfect boyfriend. It is too early in the relationship to go so easy on these things.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I like heart felt connection...like mauhaan had...mauli never felt all these bechaini things with ishaan...at least they never showed...but it was one that was giving sukoon...

Somewhere i read...true love gives you sukoon and not anxiety or bechaini
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Posted: 6 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Gis...shakti

Tumne kabhi pyaar nahi kiya hai na...

Mein aur meri husband classmates tha...1st standard se 10 standard thak..family friends tha...humne saadi ke pehale 7 years pyaar kiya...mujhe e feelings achi tharah se pata hai...pyaar ke initial stage mein ye sab hota hai yaar...its not lust..attraction hota hai...pyaar mein apne partner se attraction bhi hona chahiye...hamare shaadi hui 4 saal hogayi..2 year old beti bhi hai...aur ab bhi hum donom ke beech attraction hai...mishti toh initial stages mein hai...i think she is not love with veer...pyaar kya hota hai,ab vo samajne lagi hai...but her mind is not ready to accept it and it will take time..



Completely agree mishti is/was never in love with veer , commitment and secure life , set life ko pyar samajne ki galti kar di and now her mind is not ready to accept it .

She was in illusion that she is in love with veer that's why that surprises planning and all .

Strong marriage happens when you fall for your partner everyday or yaha to muje na he koi strong love dikhta hai mishti ke side se .

Mine is arrange marriage and We had done 2 meetings to decide and let me confess in a very first meeting there was kind of attraction and connection which I felt for him and after meeting him twice I found we can be bestest friends along with husband wife so we said yes and got married 3 years back . Attraction and Connection both is mandatory along with trust and to survive in marriage .

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