To put it in one line, MishVeer are a real life couple and MishAaan are a TV couple... that's the difference😛
We r so used to watching filmy couples with hawa chali, Baal udein, gaane bajne lage kind of romance on TV that we can not connect with the realistic couples. Imagine urself in the place of mishti n check with which guy u feel connected. Had it been a real life situation, I would have slapped ruhaan when he opened my hair n clicked my picture without my permission, later when I realise he is my fianc's friend, I would have just sorted it out n started afresh with him, I would have respected him as my fianc's friend, even if some trip-fall-catch situation happened, I would have just said thanks for holding me n walked off, when kissing fiasco happened, I would have said sorry, the way mishti will do in the next episode. It would surely affect me a bit n I would feel conscious for a few days when I see him, but that wouldn't make me unconsciously start feeling something for him.
Coming to MishVeer, they r so real...I can totally feel myself n my bf when I see them. They understand eachother so much. They trust each other so much. Yes, mishti is submissive in front of veer, so? What's wrong? We all try as much as we can to go our partner's way, be it a girl or a boy. N when we can't, when we have to refuse them, we do feel bad about it, n we say sorry, just like mishti did when she had to refuse for a date due to work. N veer didn't mind too. Veer has known her from quite a some time, n he must be knowing about Mishti's insecurity. That's y he assures her time n again that he'll never leave her. If u have a strong insecurity or a fear since such a long time, it doesn't fades away just by some words of a person, it fades with time by experiencing the opposite. Just a rain dance n u r free from Ur past happens only in reel life. When veer took mishti out for a drive when she was all hyper n she returns all calm n peaceful, he must have said the right things to her which pacified her. He still came over to check on her n when she said she was alright, he went ahead to make her feel even better with some romance. At times, what words can't do, a touch of ur loved one does. We need to understand that they r a long time couple, so they'll not keep discussing Mishti's fears everytime. They must have discussed it when they started off as a couple n now they'll just reassure eachother when the need be n sort it out their way. Their romance is also subtle, not a filmy hot sparkling types. I so loved veer in the last episode...the way he tried to mend the messed up date, the way he told her that everything is still beautiful, the way she had cooked for him n he did the feeding her part saying ab baaki Ka kaam mujhe Karne do. They r so freaking real...u can feel urself watching them!!!😳
N even after being in a relationship, u do feel attraction towards someone else...u do! It's just upto u how much importance u want to give it. I have discussed so many times with my bf when I liked some guy or he has told me if he found some girl hot. M sure this must have happened with many of u all too. There's always going to be someone better than ur partner in some aspect n there's nothing wrong in liking that person for that aspect or feel attracted to that person for that aspect till u r loyal to Ur partner. Going ahead, true love can happen twice n people have their own reasons for that, we r nobody to judge that. Just because u love the second person doesn't make Ur love for the first one any less. Even if further, mishti starts loving ruhaan, I'll still say she truly loved veer!
I never understand these hate-love stories. Hatred is such a strong emotion, when u feel it for someone, u just can't stand them. Hence I don't understand mishti's attraction towards ruhaan right now when she claims she hates him.
N the other reason is, we know ruhaan is a lead n veer isn't. So the viewer's tendency is to find a reason to ship the lead couple n not the actual couple, unless it's as bad as kunan! We should be least bothered about the endgame n then watch a show.
N lastly, veer guy isn't a great actor, so can't connect with MishVeer...that's the only point I guess everyone will agree with.😆