Ruhaan proposed Mishti... New Promo - Page 17

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Personally I don't think any one is boring or exciting. Every one is special is their own way. Now like some one else said things like spark, excitement etc fizzle out with time. As you get to know the person and things get stable , its love , trust and commitment that keeps the relationship going. Hence spark and excitement , can be reasons to date some one but not marry some one or love some one. Mishti shouldn't breakup with Veer because Veer is boring and Ruhaan exciting , that would be a filmsy reason. Mishti can breakup up with Veer if she realises that he isn't the kind of person she wants to spend rest of her life with and Ruhaan is. We go through many relationships to find the right one. We are true to those relationships but if the person is not the right one then it's better to break up before marriage rather than break the marriage. Now problem here is Mishti already is engaged to Veer and ready to marry him. She at least believes that she loves him. She had admitted that her self. She is even comfortable with physical intimacy. So now writers have to very carefully and slowly and gradually show why Mishti moves from her current feelings for Veer to her feelings for Ruhaan. They have to show why currently Mishti feels she loves Veer but slowly comes to realise she doesn't but loves Ruhaan. And all this can't happen suddenly or while they are fighting . It can't happen because of spark, chemistry and excitement . It has to be something much deeper. Writer needs to show what that deeper is.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Some will argue that commitment and love are the same thing.

I remember in first few episodes S1 when Mauli didn't give Kunal enough time, Mauli did not read him. People said the same thing that they think they love each other but they don't. Kunal does not love Mauli, he thinks he loves her. On the contrary Nandini did understand Kunal better but we sympathized with Mauli from day 1.

I remember so many posts were made to bash Kunal when he dreamed of Mauli because "It is emotional cheating".

Mishti did say that she loves him, if she is not sure about her relationship, she shouldn't have agreed to marry him in first place, betrayal is betrayal.

If there is a problem between her relationship with Veer then she should talk to him and if she is living with him for the stability then she is just using him, and will throw him when a better one comes along. The man will go through heartbreak.

Originally posted by: ria_9

hahah i used to visit DMG forum too, and i was a sid-ridz shipper 😛 urghh i hated arman 😆

old mauhaan shippers justifying mishaan relationship 😲 gajra is definitely going to prove his point successfully.. cheating is not wrong as long as cheater is hot..

calling mishti single was the limit 🤣 is she single?? seriously??

as someone wrote, deep down everyone knows mishti is going wrong way.. but u know its all about shipping, no one really cares about right or wrong..

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Even mauli bored kunal to death with her surgeries and boring dresses and food.

That's why kunal went after exciting rain dance , hatke sarees and other things that women wear and yes some excting food too.

Yeah and ishaan was boring bcoz he wasnt jumping to bed and neither was he getting physical...unlike kunal who liked to grab mauli physically all the time...ok...

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

And as everyone says Mishti is "herself" I've never seen her being that around Ruhaan. She's just annoyed, irritated and shows superiority when around him. They didn't even have a proper conversation.

I can agree that Ruhaan will bring out the best in her if handled correctly story can be good

Originally posted by: meLuvsParul

goshh soo many kunal fans wanted tejaswii and kunal together..even i wanted tejaswi opposite omkara when vrushika got out.. teju and kunal both good looking talented actors ,,they deserve good story,,intense love story,,

Originally posted by: pranurosid

Don't worry if Ruhaan goes with Pari after loving Mishti..I think she won't go back to Veer.She'll remain single😆 I feel many wuld be happy then

Originally posted by: dmegha

By herself, we mean her true self.

Mishti with Veer is perfect, goody good types who don't have a flaw. But in reality, Mishti is insecure, hurt, fierce, sometimes annoying, sometimes silly and sometimes can be very very angry.

Mishti has created a perfect life for herself, where there is no chance of anything going wrong. She sees Ruhaan as a threat, she is afraid of having him around because she fears what will Veer's reaction be if he came to know that Ruhaan is the one she kissed. She was so worried about kissing a stranger and now that stranger turned out to be Veer's best friend.

Mishti has never behaved with Veer as she behaves with Ruhaan. Veer thinks Mishti is polite and sweet while Ruhaan knows that she is not.

This needs to be handled carefully for it to be a good story.

Originally posted by: dmegha

Love and commitment can be the same thing if commitment comes from love. But these two terms become very different when there is a commitment but no love.

Nandini-Kunal-Mauli's story wasn't explored properly because people weren't able to accept it. People fail to understand that life isn't perfect where everything becomes happy happy at the end. Life isn't a fairy tale. They thought of Nandini as the other woman but they never gave a chance to understand her properly.

It is difficult for people to accept that a married man call fall out of love with his wife and in love with someone else. The lovers become the culprit and the wife is termed as victim. Kunal and Nandini were not wrong to fall in love with each other. They were wrong when they chose to have an extramarital affair by keeping Mauli in dark.

And to be honest, Mauli was wrong for trying having Kunal back in her life. She should have divorced him the moment she got to know about the affair.

And I have said again and again that we need to focus on what love is for Mishti. Mishti thinks that love means commitment. I repeat! For Mishti love means commitment only and not the heartwarming feeling that gives you the courage to risk everything for.

Mishti would betray Veer by keeping him in dark about her feelings for Ruhaan. If she chose to confess about it to him then it won't be called betrayal.

And yes, I agree with you, Mishti is using Veer to have a perfect life and Veer as well is with Mishti because he thinks that Mishti is perfect. Both of them are with each other because of this so-called "perfection" which in fact is nothing but an illusion.

And about Veer's heartbreak, what do you think is better; a heartbreak or a life-long pain and burden of being tied in a loveless and meaningless marriage?

Originally posted by: dmegha

By herself, we mean her true self.

Mishti with Veer is perfect, goody good types who don't have a flaw. But in reality, Mishti is insecure, hurt, fierce, sometimes annoying, sometimes silly and sometimes can be very very angry.

Mishti has created a perfect life for herself, where there is no chance of anything going wrong. She sees Ruhaan as a threat, she is afraid of having him around because she fears what will Veer's reaction be if he came to know that Ruhaan is the one she kissed. She was so worried about kissing a stranger and now that stranger turned out to be Veer's best friend.

Mishti has never behaved with Veer as she behaves with Ruhaan. Veer thinks Mishti is polite and sweet while Ruhaan knows that she is not.

This needs to be handled carefully for it to be a good story.