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Posted: 6 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: dmegha


Firstly I would like to apologize 😆

Now let's talk about your comment;

If that is the case with Mishti then I represent you the true character of Pari;

1. Pari ko Mishti k papa se problem - How dare Mishti share the same father as hers!

2. Pari ko Mishti ki Mom se problem - How dare she be still considered as the daughter-in-law of Malhotra's!

3. Pari ko Mishti se problem - Why is she the legitimate, responsible and ideal child?! Oh, and why is she always behind the guy I am crushing on?!

How does that sound?

Not good right? When your favorite is talked about like that then it doesn't feel good right? So from next time please remember one thing, kissi k bhi character k baare mein bolne se pehle soch liya karo.

I don't understand why people are so judgemental? They just take a few facts, half-truth, then mix it with their favoritism and bam! Kuch bhi bolna shuru kar dete hain😆

I am studying Data Visualization which tells us just how much wrong our perception is. We don't have proper fact but we feel we are entitled to pass such bias and stupid judgments (mainly because we are jealous, insecure and bias about certain things).

For example, we think that the poverty in the world is increasing but the truth is that it is reduced by half.

Similar is your case, you are biased for Pari and have put her in the center and think that everything revolves around her only just like people in the past used to think that everything revolves around Earth😆🤣

Bas jo hai Pari hai, Pari ki khushi, Pari ka pain, Pari ka crush...Mishti toh kuch hai hi nahi na toh hum uske baare mein soche hi kyun?


Omg 👏 This write up deserves a seperate post in the MF..

Girl you have killed it 👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: dmegha


Pari's imaginary pain 😆


Lol😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: dmegha

As I was scrolling through these posts I realized just how much stupid we are to try to make some sense to others who we know are never going to understand. Kinda reminds me of Bhains k aage been bajane ka koi faida nahi hota 😆🤣

So from now on, I am not going to comment on any such posts because no matter how much we try there is this group of people who don't feel that Pari and Mishti are equals.

This kind of posts only work because we are there to counter comment, and if we won't be there then these people will only talk to themselves repeating the same thing again and again.

From now on I am going to concentrate on some actually good posts, those who actually deserve to be commented on.


You are on fire my girl ...👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
#44
I don't know but I think Mishti's character has been developed perfectly well. Yes she does sound irritating a little bit when she is having a war of words with Ruhaan but if you look at it from her character's pov and the person she is shown to be - it fits perfectly. And then Pari - another beloved character. Both the characters have been very well developed.

Now coming to the outburst that Mishti had - she did not have it for herself. She had it for Pari - to make her more responsible and less carefree. That is not to say that Pari is irresponsible always - but she is not wise enough yet. As far as telling Pari that she is sharing things with an outside person and having an outburst because of that - I have done the same thing with my sister. When she does not share things with me - I am hurt and I react too because that's how siblings are. We are fiercely possessive and protective of each other. We don't think anyone can replace us. And Ruhaan is new -he is mysterious; he is evoking feelings in her - and to think that Pari finds comfort in him is unsettling for Mishti. I am sure, had it been Arnav or Ansh - she would not have cared too much.

As far as Ruhaan is concerned - Mishti is looking out for herself but then she is also finding ways to fight with him. She is feeling things that she believes is not right since she is in a 'committed' relationship. Initially, even I kept thinking - why does she keep fighting with Ruhaan - I mean if you don't like someone - don't you just ignore them? But no. Mishti is shocked by her own attraction towards Ruhaan. She does not want to see his face - does not want to speak to him - wants nothing to do with him; but she will still go and pick up a fight for the smallest of things. And his response to her which is neither sexual, nor sensual, it insults - still bothers her. She is guarding herself but letting herself lose in another way.

Coming to Pari - she is loved by each and everyone and has the backing of everyone in the family. She has a sister who loves her, a grandmother who cares for her, a friend who is madly in love with her - she is not alone.
Edited by AnnaSloan - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: AnnaSloan

I don't know but I think Mishti's character has been developed perfectly well. Yes she does sound irritating a little bit when she is having a war of words with Ruhaan but if you look at it from her character's pov and the person she is shown to be - it fits perfectly. And then Pari - another beloved character. Both the characters have been very well developed.


Now coming to the outburst that Mishti had - she did not have it for herself. She had it for Pari - to make her more responsible and less carefree. That is not to say that Pari is irresponsible always - but she is not wise enough yet. As far as telling Pari that she is sharing things with an outside person and having an outburst because of that - I have done the same thing with my sister. When she does not share things with me - I am hurt and I react too because that's how siblings are. We are fiercely possessive and protective of each other. We don't think anyone can replace us. And Ruhaan is new -he is mysterious; he is evoking feelings in her - and to think that Pari finds comfort in him is unsettling for Mishti. I am sure, had it been Arnav or Ansh - she would not have cared too much.

As far as Ruhaan is concerned - Mishti is looking out for herself but then she is also finding ways to fight with him. She is feeling things that she believes is not right since she is in a 'committed' relationship. Initially, even I kept thinking - why does she keep fighting with Ruhaan - I mean if you don't like someone - don't you just ignore them? But no. Mishti is shocked by her own attraction towards Ruhaan. She does not want to see his face - does not want to speak to him - wants nothing to do with him; but she will still go and pick up a fight for the smallest of things. And his response to her which is neither sexual, nor sensual, it insults - still bothers her. She is guarding herself but letting herself lose in another way.

Coming to Pari - she is loved by each and everyone and has the backing of everyone in the family. She has a sister who loves her, a grandmother who cares for her, a friend who is madly in love with her - she is not alone.

Bang on👍🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
#46
DMegha: I'm sorry, but isn't what Rajh said the truth?
Mishti does have a problem with both Pari's parents, that's a fact. While the reverse isn't opposite.

Also, Mishti's intentions may not be bad, but she's still destroying Pari's confidence with her words. "Ab humari company bhagwan ke bharose hai", what does that mean actually? That Pari is worthless, that she isn't capable enough to handle the company.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#47


I don't think mishti is doing wrong things with siblings ..I feel that she didn't do anything wrong.. it 's a common things among any sibling..becoz misthi is trying to do pari would get perfect life and good profession job..pari committed mistakes regarding a project and she always commit mistakes regarding work..she can't do perfect like misthi..becoz misthi is doing great job un profession life and she want pari also would take a good name in industry 😊that's way she treated pari like a elder sister..she has all rises with her like elder sister..she is not doing anything wrong becoz she loves sister and brother😛
Edited by sailuja - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Natacha

Hol !
Love the season two ! Very interesting and refreshing !
The actors choice are perfect.
Few little things that are a bit annoying ! No offence to the actor/actress I'm clearly talking about the character !
Pari is being sidelined.. nandani's daugther, daughter of a woman who stole someone's husband, she is like the side chick unfair ! All the responsibility and focus on Mish
Mish getting proper foutage proper fianc proper lover.
What about Pari ? She never loved or felt anything for anyone and here she'll be left cause HER perfect sister is the guy's target.. oh well...

The character of Mishti: funnily I cant get her ? Definitely not the typical girl next door but she is being confusing .. I mean why so much anger and attitude towards a GUY that YOU had the dare to Kiss ... poor thing isn't saying or doing anything she is deliberately going towards him.. and irritating him .. what's the point ?
She said he is badtameez when did he acted that way ? And that not at all asked for constant anger ?

The best was her little hysterical outburst to Pari .. concerning the work and profit .. well what's the use of shouting in whole house and talking that way ? You got pressure I can understand but ehm there is a way of talking ... and that's the perfection..
and then she is feeling bad that Pari is sharing her feelings with someone else .. well if you'll make someone feel that low and criticise each and everything she does then yes on the spot she'll go to someone else to cry her heart out it's human ... you've got the Dadi the family the fianc ... Mishty is ALONE ! And what if she wants to confide in her lover ? What's the harm !
And what was with her attitude in the morning ? After all this STILL PARI is trying to talk to her ? What the hell is this woman ?

No harm to anyone's feeling but well I can't get the use and particular meaning behind her confused perfect character which looks more like a brat ... who was used to get things done her way ..
will really appreciate Ruhaan's interest change and turn on the one whose more deserving and craving for real attention and love and who for a change is doing and giving her best without being confused bratty and mean



I totally agree with you on this one ! I thought I was the only one who thought that but thank god people are still able to think ! Started watching this show and immediately understood that all the screen space was going to be Mishty's. Why ? Just because she is legitimate... what about Pari ? I mean that poor girl doesn't even have her mother's pic in their house ! Absolutely hated the way mish reacted in friday's epi. Anyways Natacha thank you for this thread and for speaking the truth 👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: rajh



misti and pari are not real siblings --but half sisters...

misti ko pari ke baap se problem hai--pari ke maa se problem hai
misti ne apni perfectwali attitude se pari inferiority complex bhar diya hai...

shayad ab ruhaan hi pari ko iss inferiority complex se bahaar la saktha hai...

. Not real siblings ...but half sisters ...this is an extremely regressive statement ...this statement really should not made in this current day and age.,divorce is common and couples marry all the time already with kids from their first marriage..so these kids should not consider themselves real siblings...what is real ? ..only if you have the same mom and dad..so parents who adopt children...those are not their real children... 😕
Edited by Indira1211 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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OMG. 🤣
It is like Pari is sautan's baby and real character.That was season 1 and khatam. I also bashed Pari in season 1...but this is season 2. new story.

I like Mauli and was always her fan from the day this serial started. Although started to watch this serial because of DD. But then loved Mauli more and never wanted happiness of Kunan...cheaters don't deserve to be happy.
For Mishti ...as she is Mauli's daughter ...I feel like mausi of Mishti.😛 As always felt Mauli as my sis...I loved her dearly. Uparse Ishan and Ishali who can forget that amazing couple.

But this is season 2. More like new serial . Both Mishti and Pari are like strangers. Just born from a page of new book. They never had any conection with past.
Love both Teju and Aneri. Love both Mishti and Pari's character as they are from real world. There are siblings like Mishti and Pari. One very successful ...another always
loses. More like first girl of the school and last girl of the school.

In fact in my school days I had two sisters like Mishti and Pari.
One was the first girl of the class another loser, last girl of the class.
In their family they had only hatred for the last girl. And the first girl used to scold her last girl sis all the time. But the last girl was good in sports. First girl was not good in sports.

In their highly educated family 20 in math was never approved. Later the last girl committed suicide.
I still feel what if they the family would see the last girl...she was good in sports. May be not in study. Does everyone has to be Doctor/engineer or successful businessman? Why can't they be something else.

Like the movie 3 idiots. ...may be she( the last girl) would earn less. But she would live alive and be happy. When get old...the sisters could have each other and smile. I met the first girl couple of days ago...now she also feels bad for her weak sis. She said, "May be we shouldn't try that hard...my sis wouldn't commit suicide. then." It just broke my heart.

Edited by jhalak7 - 6 years ago

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