Originally posted by: Mages
first of all...pari is a combination of Maunan qualities...the plan was also mauli co-parenting pari n give her the mother's love that pari deserves n pari always has seen her mother in mauli...so thats how Maunal fans relate..we always loved pari-mauli relationship as mother-daughter becos she was a mother n i am sure after her airport decision...she never neglect pari...she was the same mother to pari...Maunal did co-parenting for both girls...nandini gave pari to mauli...it doesn't need to be a mother by marrying kunal...feelings comes from heart...pari-mauli has always bonded as mother-daughter...for me she always been a mother to mauli n i am firm on that...nothing can changed that
Pari is Nandini's daughter...hands down...we might hate her for what she did to mauli and can never justify her backstabbing n snatching husband of her BF but the fact is we respect her as pari's mother and she deserves her place on that wall as pari's mother and the respect too...
Pari has qualities of Maunan...yes she is creative as nandini..inner strength like nandini that also relates to mauli too...if tolerating abusive husband coming out strong from it is inner strength than nursing a betrayal by loving husband n best friend is also inner strength...its not easy to come out from a abusive relationship n its not easy to come out from a betrayal...not to forget all this strength that nandini got in her is also motivated by mauli...so according to me she is Maunan combination...the rest is mauli's qualities...hands down...mature...loyal..committed...
understanding...selfless...can't tolerate injustice...playful...bubbly...lively...solving a situation easily...i relate her more to mauli than nandini becos these qualiies are from mauli...it came to parii naturally like mauli not motivated like nandini...furthermore pari is independant like mauli and not dependant like nandini was...thats where i relate her to mauli more than nandini...she doesn' need a man to protect her and dependant upon...she is enough for herself...thats purely mauli qualities
there is always a say that when a pregnant women thinks abt the person whom is close to her heart and soul...the kid will born to have the qualities of the person the mother feels for through her heart n soul...in the case of nandini...it was always Mauli for her...kunal and mehek did told mauli that day n night nandini talked only abt her...the cd was only made for her that seals their friendship...thats why pari is combination of a friendship...Mauli and Nandini
this is my honest opinion for Pari...she is Kunan biological daughter but she is Maunal daughter too and some relationships doesn't need blood related...pari-mauli are emotionally connected
I am proud that Maunal co-parent Mishri and respect Nandini being her mother
I would beg to differ and as sweet_tania already mentioned Mauli NEVER said ,indicated or agreed to co parent Pari! And no Pari didn't see her mother in Mauli. She saw a mother LIKE figure in her but Mauli made it very clear to Pari that she can NEVER be her mother. That was the most important part of this story that we are conveniently forgetting.
Also Pari is a combination of Kunans qualities actually and I loved that the promo said it loud and clear . Mauli NEVER treated Pari as her daughter..She treated her just like how she would treat any child without a mother! That is not "mother daughter" bond and by implying that Mauli would be ok to take in Kunal's love child as her own would be an insult to her too.
Another thing I see in your post is that all the blame for the affair has been pinned on to only Nandini and you say you can't forgive her for it but on the contrary you have not just forgiven Kunal for being a partner in crime but also for initiating and emotionally manipulating Nandini to be a part of this affair because it was the "RIGHT" thing to do and all holy books would support them. Why the different standards for kunal and Nandini? Nandini backstabbed Mauli kunal didn't? Also let me tell you she didn't have to "snatch" anybody's husband..the husband here himself went running after her. Nandini atleast tried to talk him into going back to Mauli when she discovered she was pregnant. She refused to talk to him and even left her house for Lucknow when she was kidnapped by Rajdeep. But kunal? When he had the slightest inclination Mauli may be lying he went running back to Nandini. This is why I don't get why there is tunnel vision regarding the two characters. Kunal has actually been a lot worse than Nandini in many occasions if truth be told.
Also I don't get the sarcasm at calling Nandini strong. She didn't just "tolerate" an abusive husband..She showed the courage to finally WALK OUT of the abusive marriage and resist his attempt to rape her again all by herself. Rape survivors are strong..very strong . Sarcasm shouldn't be put in such contexts at all. Also I don't think I denied Mauli's strength ever so why even am I being clarified about her strength? Mauli was very strong in her own way and I am sure mishti her REAL daughter would gave inherited that from her mother just as Pari inherited her strength from her mother Nandini. Also Mauli or Kunal or any person in the world would not be able to help Nandini if she didn't have that strength herself. That strength came to her not just because of Mauli and Kunal but also the loss of her own child that was brutally kicked to death by it's own father.
Every relationship doesn't have to be blood related but emotionally too Mauli NEVER considered herself Paris mother. She once clearly said this on the show too.."mai aapku mumma nahu hu" ..That single line should be an explanation of what Mauli's bond towards Pari was..She was to Pari what she would be to any friends daughter who was no more in the world.
Maybe you haven't seen pre EMA and pre Rajdeep Nandini but if you see the fbs of Mauli nandu while growing up and their story you would have seen Nandini's liveliness,bubbliness, her sacrifices too. The Rajdeep phase messed up her mind completely and then came the infamous affair which ruined everything. Pari considers Nandini only her mother.whether as a child or whether as an adult. She wears Nandini's locket near her heart so that should explain who she is emotionally connected to as well.
Edited by Alohomora_ - 6 years ago