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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: FruitToasty


If Ishaan and Mauli are of same importance to Mishti then why she tells Mauli how much she hates her when Ishaan isn't around? I understand that Mishti loves Ishaan more than Mauli, I am not even saying that she doesn't...

The discussion has been blown out of proportion, I was sending Mauli to Paris, the question was "Will Mishti live with Ishaan without Mauli?" so according to me she will always pick Ishaan and practically everyone over Mauli...

Didn't she taunt Mauli that she separated him from her biological father, now she is separating him from Ishaan? She doesn't understand anything, all she can do is blame Mauli
She is not the character I like or care about, she doesn't want Mauli I don't care, Pari wants her and loves her so I like Pari.. It has nothing to do with Ishaan or Kunal, it's all about Mauli for me


Ok I got you point .. but what you are saying is that you don't expect Pari to love her more than Kunal . But she wishes for Mauli as her mumma, if she doesn't get then that is also fine. So that looks like unconditional love. But say tomorrow maunal reunion happens , and then because of some fight., Mauli forcefully tries to separate Pari from her dad and tells her that Kunal won't be her papa anymore will pari accept that ,won't Pari hate Mauli? Obviously she loves her buddy more. Isn't the similar case happening now. Whenever Mauli tries to separate mishti from her father , she taunts her as she loves ishaan more. Cannot blame mishti here as Mauli only gave that freedom to ishaan in their life.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Mages


Pari has never force it...thats the difference...she wish it...she never demand or show tantrum for it that her buddy must marry mauli aunty

furthermore pari was attracted towards mauli since day 1 not becos of the cd...the cd made her desires stronger thats it...


That's what I am trying to say na.. pari does not force anyone because she cannot. She understands that she has no right..mishtis case is different . I am not saying whatever she did is correct but she can force her parents to be together.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



That's what I am saying, these people are shaking her confidence even more and Ishaan should play a bigger role in bringing it back, Kunal stood up for Nandini against everyone, Kunal stood up for Mauli against everyone and he is not even a good example of husband.. Ishaan should help Mauli, he can't just be giddy about his engagement, at least take notice of what she is going through in your house
Badi badi baatein bus



Don't want a Maunal ending, but totally and completely agree that Ishaan needs to step up his game! He's been there with her for 3 years in every way possible, but he's not really protecting her from his mom and sweetie and their annoying taunts.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: Mages


Pari has never force it...thats the difference...she wish it...she never demand or show tantrum for it that her buddy must marry mauli aunty

furthermore pari was attracted towards mauli since day 1 not becos of the cd...the cd made her desires stronger thats it...


Pari did try to force Kunal fulfill her wish. when Mauli went to see Pari when she was unwell.. that time Kunal had to literally yell at her saying something like 'kal ki aayi huyi Mauli is important to you than your buddy?'

Yes, kids get attracted to many strangers in real life.. but I am yet to see a kid wanting others mama as his/her mother in real life 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Anna
Kunal in Pari's life = Mauli in Mishti's life

1 both are biological parents
2 Both have been there for their kids from very first day

So in this came if Maunal separate then it's very obvious that Pari will choose Kunal over Mauli because Kunal's place in Pari's life can not be replaced, he is very important to her, he is all she knows for a family, how are you comparing that to Ishaan and Mishti's relationship?


Pari and Mauli don't know each other as long as Mishti and Ishaan know each other so I won't compare their relationships..

I am talking about Mauli vs Ishaan for Mishti... Pari can't leave her father who has been with her for very first day for anyone but Mishti hates Mauli if she says that she won't marry Ishaan, Matlab Mishti can leave her mother for Ishaan... They have shown in many episodes how many times she has said that she hates Mauli, I don't even understand what are we discussing?

Pari's love for Kunal is unconditional
Mishti's love for Ishaan is unconditional
Pari's love for Mauli is unconditional
Mishti's love for Mauli comes with a condition ie Ishaan

Also in first episode post leap, Mauli did stop Mishti from calling Ishaan popsie and apologized to him, so don't say Mauli has given her false hope for years, she clearly stopped her..

Mishti loves Ishaan more than Mauli, I don't have any expectations from Mishti
After EMA i thought Mauli's baby will love her unconditionally but all I got was countless "I hate you" from Mishti for Mauli so I don't like her anymore
I don't see how normal it is to hate your mom

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Posted: 6 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Mishti can Fight for Ishaan, so she should say "I want popsie" not "I hate you" to Mauli...

And when she says that she hates Mauli, what's wrong if I say that she doesn't love Mauli enough to trust her? She can totally leave Mauli for Ishaan and that's OK
I am sending Mauli to Paris anyway



Well there are so many wives around the globe who says their husband I hate you in anger but next day they walks hand in hand with so much love so wife's line I hate you doesn't mean there is trust issue or conditional love for husband.It is the gesture of wife which she outbursts during fights when she doesn't agree with husband.

Same goes to blood relations. Kids can say I hate you when parents don't give damn to their demand , child cries , throw tantrums, says words like I hate you in anger that is part and parcel of child and motherhood. There is no point in judging child's childish behavior with unconditional love.

As you said mishti should say I want popsi and she should not say I hate you mumma?? Why she can't say I hate you mumma when her wish is not fulfilled by her mother, it's her anger for her mother which is quite normal in kids.She is also child and has right to behave like child . Child childish behave nai karega to kon karega?? Aisi mature line 6 saal ki bachi se expect kar ke uske childish behavior ke uper usko judge nai kiya ja sakta.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania



Well there are so many wives around the globe who says their husband I hate you in anger but next day they walks hand in hand with so much love so wife's line I hate you doesn't mean there is trust issue or conditional love for husband.It is the gesture of wife which she outbursts during fights when she doesn't agree with husband.

Same goes to blood relations. Kids can say I hate you when parents don't give damn to their demand , child cries , throw tantrums, says words like I hate you in anger that is part and parcel of child and motherhood. There is no point in judging child's childish behavior with unconditional love.

As you said mishti should say I want popsi and she should not say I hate you mumma?? Why she can't say I hate you mumma when her wish is not fulfilled by her mother, it's her anger for her mother which is quite normal in kids.She is also child and has right to behave like child . Child childish behave nai karega to kon karega?? Aisi mature line 6 saal ki bachi se expect kar ke uske childish behavior ke uper usko judge nai kiya ja sakta.


Mishti can tell Mauli that she hates her
Ishaan's mom can taunt her

And I can dislike and talk about them when they do this because I don't like it
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Posted: 6 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Mages


If people watch as ema product n dislike for the kid becos she is kunan daughter...always bringing pre-leap happenings into post-leap happenings...maa-beti ka rishta kaise dikhega...

people can see ishaan sending school...giving kiss...buying junk food...hugging and all as baap-beti ka rishta that on surface according to me...but pari-mauli has emotionally bonded...the warmth and love of a mother could be felt by pari through mauli...people are oblivious to that pure bond just becos of pre-leap issues

watch it with open mind...see the emotions b/w pari-mauli...you will see the hidden maa-beti ka rishta

one more thing...pari has qualities of mauli that too watch with open mind...you will notice how pari n mauli are so similar in nature...

I don't see pari as a ema kid...what her parents did...for me she is a angel kid...i observe even the smallest cutest thing she does...


I have been observing Pari. She has her mother's qualities. She doesn't have her own definition of happiness. She observes others being happy and wants that happiness for her. I ignored it as a kids mentality.
But since you have raised this point to sail your ship.. I have put my points accordingly.
Edited by T3ja - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Anna

Kunal in Pari's life = Mauli in Mishti's life

1 both are biological parents
2 Both have been there for their kids from very first day

So in this came if Maunal separate then it's very obvious that Pari will choose Kunal over Mauli because Kunal's place in Pari's life can not be replaced, he is very important to her, he is all she knows for a family, how are you comparing that to Ishaan and Mishti's relationship?


Pari and Mauli don't know each other as long as Mishti and Ishaan know each other so I won't compare their relationships..

I am talking about Mauli vs Ishaan for Mishti... Pari can't leave her father who has been with her for very first day for anyone but Mishti hates Mauli if she says that she won't marry Ishaan, Matlab Mishti can leave her mother for Ishaan... They have shown in many episodes how many times she has said that she hates Mauli, I don't even understand what are we discussing?

Pari's love for Kunal is unconditional
Mishti's love for Ishaan is unconditional
Pari's love for Mauli is unconditional
Mishti's love for Mauli comes with a condition ie Ishaan

Also in first episode post leap, Mauli did stop Mishti from calling Ishaan popsie and apologized to him, so don't say Mauli has given her false hope for years, she clearly stopped her..

Mishti loves Ishaan more than Mauli, I don't have any expectations from Mishti
After EMA i thought Mauli's baby will love her unconditionally but all I got was countless "I hate you" from Mishti for Mauli so I don't like her anymore
I don't see how normal it is to hate your mom



Would you also make a comparison between Pari's love for Nandini and her love for Kunal? If somehow Nandini comes back from dead, and PAri asks Kunal to marry Nandini, will you say her love wasn't real or unconditional? WHy are we comparing Mishti's love for for her father and mother? Mishti has known Ishaan since the day she can remember. She doesn't just consider Ishaan her father, Ishaan is her father. Don't kids usually hate their parents after divorce? Specially if they are being kept apart by one from their other loving parent? Mishti didn't say she hated Mouli because she broke off the engagement. She said that because Mouli, after allowing IShaan to be Mishti's father for so many years and letting both Ishaan and mishti believe that they are family, suddenly says Mishti can't meet Ishaan? like huh? WHy wouldn't anyone be upset? She didn't even give any reasons.

See, Mishti didn't force Mouli to get engaged the first time around. Mishti didn't just meet Ishaan on the road one day and then immediately started to call him popsie and brought home and made Mouli marry him.
Even if we dont know for sure whether or not Mouli brought Ishaan (they were friends?) in Mishti's life, we know for sure that she kept him in their lives. And over the years she grew up seeing Ishaan as her father. From the first episode after the leap, we get general idea that Ishaan has been there for 3 years and that RECENTLY (so after 3 years) Mishti has started calling him popsie. And one day her mother says she is marrying the father and they are all very happy. and then suddenly few days later suddenly the same mother forbids her to see her father?

Mishti loves both her parents Mouli and Ishaan. I am sure if one day Ishaan just randomly announces that she wont be able to see Mouli she will hate him too.
Edited by looseseal - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Mishti can tell Mauli that she hates her
Ishaan's mom can taunt her

And I can dislike and talk about them when they do this because I don't like it



There is no comparison of 6 years old's behavior with 60 years old 's behavior.

6 years old child can say her mother I hate you being childish. 60 years old lady can't be considered as childish.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and no one can ask to like or dislike anybody. I can also dislike it when 6 years old is being judged because of her anger and childish behavior towards her own mother. When someone expects 6 years old to behave maturely, talk maturely and act maturely than for me it's like snatching childhood from child by constantly judging and doubting her love for her parents.

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